Hint for my boyfriend to dominate?

[His_pet_slut]

If you are truly wanting a lasting relationship, quit trying to drop hints, put on your big girl panties and tell him you need to have a frank discussion about what you need.

If you can't do it about this, your relationship is bound to have other problems as well.

Seriously, this is the second time I've posted this in the past 30 minutes. Why on earth does anyone think their partner is going to be clairvoyant and just 'know' what will flip their trigger without any communication? It is essential in any relationship and from my experience, even more essential in a D/s relationship.

 

[satindesire]

Did you say you're full of shit?

Yes. Thanks for ruining my joke by making it obvious.

 

[Wataru_Gin]

How about bringing a pair of handcuffs to bed next time? Just hand it to him and then hold out your wrists all cute-like. No guy will be able to resist that.

 

[Noor]

I don't like hints, I miss them all the time. You really need to share an understanding of some sort, usually cultural to get hints and most people get them wrong if they see them at all.

If you are worried about how he will respond, pick something kind of low key and suggest it. Tell him you have been thinking you would like to try X. When he does something in the direction you like, tell him "I really like it when..." '

Tease him at a place where he can't do anything, like a movie line or something say something like "I wish you could take me hard, right here, right now" and get him thinking about it.

Whatever you do be very clear about what you would like to "try" I would use the word try because then if he isn't into it, its no big deal.