How’s your married sex life?

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

The grand question is the side sex rarity because your loyal and feel bad if you step outside the marriage? I know of a few of us males that would make a trip to Florida

Well I actually have permission. The last guy I was hanging with from time to time was an old friend of ours since college and he died like 2 months ago. (not my fault, I didn't do it, well unless maybe you count a life time of knowing me and my anti super power, but eh, I really can't take the blame for this one, wasn't there, didn't do it)

 

[LeeKee]

I think wife has decided it’s over.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Nice that you have permission, and sorry to hear about your friend. Always sad when a friend like that passes, but death by sex with you would be a great way to go.

Well, I had been requesting more sex or permission to screw around for a long time now. He finally relented and picked option B. well then lol. and I guess it would be a good way to go. it is possible in this case. I don't know the girl that was over at the time really well, met her like 2 or 3 times, so it felt rude to pry for all the details. All I know is he got up to go to grab a drink, and dropped dead in the hallway. the joys of getting to the age where people just drop dead. all the other deaths in this friend circle where either chronic long term where they knew they were going to die young or car accidents. oh and a murder/suicide like 5 years ago. The college circle is getting smaller and smaller though.

 

[Mtnmike]

I think wife has decided it’s over.

Same but I know it is, cause she said so many year's ago.

 

[Mtnmike]

Hehehe I'd hope to cum and go right after the final shots filled her love tunnel.

This had always been what my father-in-law said, then it really happened. Mother-in-law said he came and went, Funny yet not Funny.

 

[Mtnmike]

Oh I think it's funny cause he came and went at the same time. No better way to go than going out with a bang doing my favorite thing.

True, it's a small percentage that actually get to go out how they want.

 

[DarkSmith]

I'm mid 50s. She is a decade older.

29 years together.

And it was 6 times last year with her. 0 this year.

 

[JudyCD]

So sad to see how many married men don’t get what they need.

 

[CuriousInAR78]

With my husband? Rare. With someone else? yeah, that is rare too.

Your husband is an idiot I would gladly give it to you whenever you wanted

 

[CuriousInAR78]

I'm not married yet but I am having doubts about getting married because I get it less with my current gf then I did when I was married and this one is way younger than what my ex wife was

 

[CuriousInAR78]

I'm 50 she's 48 been married for 30 yrs and most of the time we have sex 4 times a week. Getting old and working a very physical job gets in the way of more sex.

Damn mine is 20 and I am lucky if I get it 3 or 4 times a months

 

[CuriousInAR78]

Oh don't get me wrong we have had times where it has been months between us having sex but when I've had enough of that I tell her if she won't give it up I will find someone else that would happily fuck me. That usually fixes that and a long talk about what got us to that point. The hard part is keeping it fresh and not boring.

Mine uses her past as an excuse which I understand but that excuse gets old

 

[CuriousInAR78]

Yeah I get that, it can be very discouraging. My suggestion is to have a serious talk about what her hang ups are and see if there is a way though them before deciding if that is a deal breaker in a relationship.

I will just stay in the relationship miserable because she has a 4yr old daughter that means the world to me, I honestly think if I left she wouldn't make it

 

[CuriousInAR78]

That is admirable and I always respect a man that can do that because so many men wouldn't care and would leave.

She is more attached to me then her mom, she always wants to watch fish videos with me

 

[CuriousInAR78]

Lol that's awesome. I have a granddaughter that 7 that would come live with me and the wife if we let her. It's funny because now that most of my kids are out and on their own the wife and I do a lot more because we can afford to and my grandkids benefit because we take them out to amusement parks and aquariums throughout the year.

I would love to take her to an aquarium

 

[CuriousInAR78]

I have the advantage of going to Bass Pro's Wonders of Wildlife whenever I want because it's just down the street from my house. It's a great time and can take a few hours to walk through and at the end of the aquarium side they have a tank that you can pet stingrays as they swim past.

We use to live in PA and the one shop had stingrays you could pet so I tried to take her there as much as I could but now we live in Arkansas so I need to figure out where places are

 

[LeeKee]

Same but I know it is, and said so many year's ago.

Ok, so long ago, I was in the military, I did my time. And I worked with a female aviator who was pregnant but the baby died, and was still inside her. And she had to carry this baby for some reason until the docs could figure out what to do. And this was a late term thing, not a baby bump.

The psychological toll it had on her was devistating. And to make matters worse her husband was in Iraq with no plan or option to come back stateside. I respected her. Her pain was insurmountable. (sp?)

The torture of the lost dream and hope. I cannot equal this situation to any of my situation, but I’m being expected to ride out my life in a sham of a relationship.

i can understand the act of living amongst trauma, lost hopes and causes, then try to appear normal.

It’s like this charade of a marriage is a zombie and doesn’t know it died.

 

[LeeKee]

I'm not married yet but I am having doubts about getting married because I get it less with my current gf then I did when I was married and this one is way younger than what my ex wife was

Ditch her. Quoting Admirable Akbar -“It’s a trap!”

 

[CuriousInAR78]

Depending on where in Arkansas your at if you come north to Springfield you can visit the aquarium here.

I'm in the ghetto of Pine Bluff

 

[Mtnmike]

I'm not married yet but I am having doubts about getting married because I get it less with my current gf then I did when I was married and this one is way younger than what my ex wife was

Run as fast as you can, it ain't worth it in the long run !!!!!

 

[CuriousInAR78]

Run as fast as you can, it ain't worth it in the long run !!!!!

I can't the little one won't have a chance if I do, I rather be miserable then have that little girl suffer

 

[Mtnmike]

I can't the little one won't have a chance if I do, I rather be miserable then have that little girl suffer

I understand where you're coming from, I always said I would leave after all the kids went off to college, last one left 10 year's ago and i'm still here. I'm not blaming anyone but myself but at my age I really don't want to start over, finding a home etc.

 

[CuriousInAR78]

I understand where you're coming from, I always said I would leave after all the kids went off to college, last one left 10 year's ago and i'm still here. I'm not blaming anyone but myself but at my age I really don't want to start over, finding a home etc.

That is just it this is my house but if I throw out my mate she takes the little one and if I am being honest her and my dog are the only reasons I haven't given up yet. They need me and I owe it to them to make sure they have the best life possible

 

[HampshireBoy]

I understand where you're coming from, I always said I would leave after all the kids went off to college, last one left 10 year's ago and i'm still here. I'm not blaming anyone but myself but at my age I really don't want to start over, finding a home etc.

I think that fear of starting over, splitting resources and not having enough money etc, is keeping a lot of couples together. I started over in my forties and that was hard enough.

The only thing I would say is that life is too short to spend it miserable.

 

[NippleNympho]

35 & 32
Married 11 years
3-4 times a week but the sex is amazing as I’m owning my sexuality more now! We both do to each other everything we love and have fun exploring together