How’s your married sex life?

[drobert44]

One and she’s 18 so that’s not our issue lol.

Mine is 72, not much interested, that's why I am here a lot.......

 

[JudyCD]

This one is a tough one, good marriage in every aspect but the sex department. Im 62 she is 61. One hand job last week. There wont be another for a month. Menopause is a cruel bitch.

Where do you live?

 

[Msh1313]

A husband in a sexless marriage is where my services cum in.

I am in need of your services

 

[MikeLucas]

Wow just got on after being away. Looks like some great responses. Thanks for all the replies.

 

[MikeLucas]

How many of you have kids?

two, both young. that definitely threw a wrench in the mix but getting back on track now.

 

[javajug]

I'm 56. She's 53. Married 30 years.

We had sex a couple of weeks ago. Before that, it was three years.

I started dating a couple. They're early 40s. We've had sex twice since January. We'll have a foursome in just over a week's time.

 

[birdman01]

Me 64 Her 62 at least have sex 2-3 times a week.

 

[KDBisback]

How’s the ‘ol sex life doing on your marriage? I get every relationship is different and goes through it’s ups and downs. Just curious I guess. Let’s hear your ages, years married and times per week/month. I’ll start
Me 36, her 35
9 years married
I’d say 8-10 times a month.

Ok you go

Me 55/ her 51 years old
25 years married, together 29
Once every 7-10 days. I self service as needed to fill the gap

 

[Polranny]

Hi

How are you doing apart from the obvious?

 

[anniebaby10]

Both of us are 48 married 25 years. Two college age daughters. Sex about 5 times a week and he always goes down on me first to get me started. Why I married him.

 

[BiWifeMyrtleBeach]

Mid 50's. One son, mid 20's. Married 31 years. Sex probably 6-10 times per month on average still. We have been involved in the swinger lifestyle on again/off again most of that time.

 

[hulmule]

Him 63 Me 61
Married 38 Years kids no longer at home
Nada apart form the *very* occasional mutual masturbation session...not very satisfying (especially for me)
Did have a rough patch about 20 years ago where I had an affair (ended badly but marriage survived)
Sex has been worse after a disastrous holiday. Has tried "the blue pill" but hasn't helped

WOW, a woman whi isnt getting any . Very rare, seems like us guys are the one's that are in need of it.
Wife has no interest in sex. Try and talk about but turns into a battle... So i turn to LIT

 

[hulmule]

LOL there are probably more of us out there than you realise. ANYWAY...think I've had enough of this thread. Was in a pretty sad place when I posted. Probably shouldn't have feeling that way...

It's ok , we all go thru those times. Some days we move on and others it hits us hard. I can get so filled with anger sometimes. Really try to understand and or wish my wife could understand my needs. Drop a PM if you need to chat

 

[coachjd]

Well let’s review last weeks family vacation to Disney. Full funded by yours truly, the works, over a 10 day stay, I was granted access 1 night.

Goodnight y’all.

 

[Wonderer67]

I am 54 and my wife is 64. 2nd marriages for both of us.

Married 5 years, together for 14.

Sex about 3-4 times a week. I like things in the kinkier side she is much more vanilla. Marriage, sex, our businesses that we run etc all works out pretty well.

 

[MidThirtiesGuy]

Early 40's for both of us. Married 5 years (second time for us both) with two kids under 6. Sex is infrequent now - and the small children don't necessarily help, but I'd also say my wife's desires have lessened since having children. I guess her body and hormones have changed a lot.

We had sex twice from Jan to March but maybe once a week the last month or so, so hopefully things keep trending that direction.

 

[ChestyLaRoux]

42 (m) and 32(f). We have sex all the time. At least giving him a blowjob once a day. We both work from home so we have 'smoke' breaks. Granted, I'm hypersexual atm, but even when I'm not, we enjoy pleasing one another as much as possible.

 

[NightOfPassion2]

Hmmm. Sex. Usually the word that gets used is...anything but sex. Worked at home for 5 months. Afternoon delight is a song from long ago. Too many things above that on the list.

 

[Deleted member 6353684]

Married 24years. My wife got an infection in her vagina. Took a number of years before it got diagnosed. So long story short, four attempts at sex in the last eight years. Left her in to much pain and discomfort to want to try again. She's 70 I'm 54.

 

[Mustang Sally]

Mid-40s, married 18 years. It varies, of course, but we've been in quite a valley for probably almost a year now. Less than once a month. The last two tries were interrupted by our son. The new dog is also a bit of an obstacle. I'm often working late and/or tired from working late. I've been kind of depressed. He's been very into his video games. It's a phase of life.

 

[Bob_Aganoush]

We're both about 60 (m & f), married 30 years, and we have sex on average about 10-12 times/week. Both (mostly) retired, so lots of time on our hands. Our secret is variety; we enjoy lots of different activities, including sex with others (we're ENM), different positions, etc, so that helps keep things fresh. It's not a full-blown sex romp every time; sometimes we just enjoy a little quiet mutual masturbation. It works for us

 

[Mtnmike]

We're both about 60 (m & f), married 30 years, and we have sex on average about 10-12 times/week. Both (mostly) retired, so lots of time on our hands. Our secret is variety; we enjoy lots of different activities, including sex with others (we're ENM), different positions, etc, so that helps keep things fresh. It's not a full-blown sex romp every time; sometimes we just enjoy a little quiet mutual masturbation. It works for us

Wow 10-12 times a week, I'm envious. I'd be ok with any, been way way to long.

 

[RachelWalsh]

Is a negative amount of sex a thing? I think I am living it. Lol

 

[Deleted member 6353684]

Lmfao we could start a new room by the sounds of it.

 

[RachelWalsh]

Yeah, not having any sex and feel like sex from the past is disappearing. Maybe this isn't a relationship issue, but a problem in time-space. Lol