How’s your married sex life?

[HighPlainsDrifter]

Me 62 her 59
Married 34 years
Sexless last 13 years

Wow how do you cope? I’m 64 her 62 3-6 times a year. It’s been five months since last

 

[Mtnmike]

Wow how do you cope? I’m 64 her 62 3-6 times a year. It’s been five months since last

The first 6-8 years were not easy, lots of fighting & arguments. Luckily I had a married couple friends that knew & invited me to join them, unfortunately only happens once or twice a year because of long distance between us. That's where Lit comes in, not a substitute for the real thing but enjoying the post & occasionally chatting with people here helps. Also my libido has declined the last few years so not on my mind as it once was, although Dr says physically everything is normal that it's mental, which he said was a side effect of being sexless, out of site out of mind, i guess.

 

[Seadog777]

Absolutely horrible.

 

[Bob_Aganoush]

We've been married 47 years raising 2 grandkids now (well not kids ones 18 in college, 14 in 8 grade) not that easy

I'm sorry, I certainly don't mean to imply it's easy. I've been through a divorce myself so I know how challenging that can be.

 

[Bob_Aganoush]

The first 6-8 years were not easy, lots of fighting & arguments. Luckily I had a married couple friends that knew & invited me to join them, unfortunately only happens once or twice a year because of long distance between us. That's where Lit comes in, not a substitute for the real thing but enjoying the post & occasionally chatting with people here helps. Also my libido has declined the last few years so not on my mind as it once was, although Dr says physically everything is normal that it's mental, which he said was a side effect of being sexless, out of site out of mind, i guess.

Did your wife know about the other couple, Mike, and was she accepting?

 

[Mtnmike]

Did your wife know about the other couple, Mike, and was she accepting?

No she doesn't know, back when we were fighting & arguing she told me if I wanted sex ever again, i'd have to get it somewhere else but she never wanted to know or hear anything about it.

 

[Bob_Aganoush]

No she doesn't know, back when we were fighting & arguing she told me if I wanted sex ever again, i'd have to get it somewhere else but she never wanted to know or hear anything about it.

So don't ask, don't tell? Are you still looking for opportunities?

 

[Mtnmike]

So don't ask, don't tell? Are you still looking for opportunities?

Have to admit that I keep an eye out for the opportunity with good people. I don't just join anybody, I do have standards lol. Seriously there are some crazy people out there that want to do things that can be harmful & to blackmail you. Also unfortunately found most people have the fantasy but back out last minute, this has made me more cautious & not get my hopes up like before, less disappointment that way.

 

[Bob_Aganoush]

Have to admit that I keep an eye out for the opportunity with good people. I don't just join anybody, I do have standards lol. Seriously there are some crazy people out there that want to do things that can be harmful & to blackmail you. Also unfortunately found most people have the fantasy but back out last minute, this has made me more cautious & not get my hopes up like before, less disappointment that way.

I understand

 

[Mtnmike]

I understand

Also should've mentioned that as an old man, there are fewer opportunities lol. Wish I was younger again & know what I know now, lol.

 

[Bob_Aganoush]

Also should've mentioned that as an old man, there are fewer opportunities lol. Wish I was younger again & know what I know now, lol.

For what it's worth, if we were closer we'd have a conversation with you about joining us

 

[hulmule]

lonely, very lonely

 

[Mtnmike]

For what it's worth, if we were closer we'd have a conversation with you about joining us

Thank You, that would be a conversation I'd like.

 

[Seadog777]

A massive pile of . It's why I have full permission for FWB's.

 

[Riverboy72]

Once a week

 

[Cdn_Couple]

Her 46
Him 47
Depends on the week but an average of 4 times a week. Sex life is getting better every year.

 

[Mtnmike]

Once a week

I complained about once a week, that was 14 years ago, haven't had any since.

 

[Msh1313]

I complained about once a week, that was 14 years ago, haven't had any since.

I feel your pain

 

[RachelWalsh]

The funeral for it was this weekend.

 

[Riverboy72]

I've learned to verbalize what I need from him and it's made everything better. It's like first times together, over again.

Please tell us !

 

[hulmule]

What is sex a life? Been so long... Had another pissing match the other day about it... Sad. I'm such an amorous guy.

 

[exgovie]

great cartoon. Like to see more along this line. 1st chuckle of the day

 

[IsItBad]

How’s the ‘ol sex life doing on your marriage? I get every relationship is different and goes through it’s ups and downs. Just curious I guess. Let’s hear your ages, years married and times per week/month. I’ll start
Me 36, her 35
9 years married
I’d say 8-10 times a month.

Ok you go

me 61 her 59, we had sex once in 2017. sad but true.

 

[awired50]

Excellent!~

 

[Mtnmike]

What is sex a life? Been so long... Had another pissing match the other day about it... Sad. I'm such an amorous guy.

Same except the pissing match, I give up bringing it up with her several year's ago.