How’s your married sex life?

[Deleted member 6353684]

You might be onto something. I wonder if Dr Who could help!

 

[RachelWalsh]

I will be a virgin by September- finally!!!! Lol

 

[badandmys5402]

Unfortunately, nonexistent. I end up taking care of myself. M 50

 

[Deleted member 6353684]

Hey it's been soooooo long I no longer have rust spots!! The entire length is covered in rust and it's heading towards my ball bag!!? Helppppppp

 

[Deleted member 6353684]

I will be a virgin by September- finally!!!! Lol

May I pm Rachel?

 

[RachelWalsh]

May I pm Rachel?

You may.

 

[Msh1313]

Unfortunately, nonexistent. I end up taking care of myself. M 50

I feel your pain

 

[badandmys5402]

I feel your pain

Thanks.

 

[Leglover1234]

Sex life? What’s a sex life? Lol

 

[Bob_Aganoush]

Wow 10-12 times a week, I'm envious. I'd be ok with any, been way way to long.

Trust me, I know how lucky I am.

 

[MikeLucas]

Thanks for all the replies. Hope everyone is having a great week and boosting those numbers haha

 

[brobynight]

34m / 31f - married 2.5 years, sex about once a month.. aaand that’s why I’m on Lit

 

[paulman999]

Sexless marraige, it’s a curse, I masturbate a lot.

 

[Msh1313]

Sexless marraige, it’s a curse, I masturbate a lot.

Same here

 

[Bob_Aganoush]

Same here

I'm just curious whether either of you (or others in that situation) have talked with your spouse about opening up your relationship?

 

[Msh1313]

I'm just curious whether either of you (or others in that situation) have talked with your spouse about opening up your relationship?

Short answer: no. Don’t think she would be open to that and it might lead to divorce.

I am ok with fooling around with guys without her knowledge

 

[Bob_Aganoush]

Short answer: no. Don’t think she would be open to that and it might lead to divorce.

I am ok with fooling around with guys without her knowledge

Divorce just for bringing the subject up, or for doing it without telling her?

 

[Msh1313]

Divorce just for bringing the subject up, or for doing it without telling her?

For bringing the subject up

 

[Bob_Aganoush]

For bringing the subject up

You might want to check out the third letter (and the comments as well) in this Dan Savage column

https://www.thestranger.com/savage-love/2022/05/03/72389318/savage-love

 

[paulman999]

For bringing the subject up

Same here, it’s a no win situation

 

[pezzheaddazzler]

66 and Sexless marraige, I masturbate a lot.
even switch hands on ocassion

 

[Bob_Aganoush]

I'm curious whether any of you guys who say you're in a sexless marriage have tried couples counseling?

 

[pezzheaddazzler]

I'm curious whether any of you guys who say you're in a sexless marriage have tried couples counseling?

I tried to get my wife to go she say's she dosnt have a problem
i even suggested talking to her friends to see if its normal (not in my opinion) she said no way!

 

[Bob_Aganoush]

I tried to get my wife to go she say's she dosnt have a problem
i even suggested talking to her friends to see if its normal (not in my opinion) she said no way!

Tried DMing you but doesn't look like you accept them. Wondering if you (or others) have given wife an ultimatum, i.e., "This is really important to me, and I feel we need to work on this for our marriage to continue. . ."

 

[pezzheaddazzler]

Tried DMing you but doesn't look like you accept them. Wondering if you (or others) have given wife an ultimatum, i.e., "This is really important to me, and I feel we need to work on this for our marriage to continue. . ."

We've been married 47 years raising 2 grandkids now (well not kids ones 18 in college, 14 in 8 grade) not that easy