How cliquish are we, really?

[A Desert Rose]

So you're saying they are tough on her cause they think is so tough and can take it?

That seems at least partly workable to me.

Fury

So here I'll practice what I said above and ask you to explain what this post means, please.

 

[graceanne]

I don't know about her, but while that's true with some people, I know that some don't care that you are easily hurt. They go after you because they see you as being powerless. If newbies talked to, say shy, like they do you the board would BLAST them. But they don't with you. Why? I'm not sure. They might figure you can take care of yourself, or they might just be used to people treating you like crap and don't notice.

So some people aren't careful cause they think you can handle it, and other cause they're assholes.

 

[Let_it_come]

Just a POV (from a newbie) NOT ABOUT ADR -
On the net your intentions don't amount to a hill of beans. It is how you are percieved that will determine how you are treated, and how you are percieved is damned random & says much much more about the other person than yourself.
Talking on the net is talking in public & you will be heard by all sorts. Some will 'get you'. Some will not. And you'll always get much more shit from those who don't. Such is life. Such is the internet.
And it sucks.
Just a POV.

J.

 

[shy slave]

Just a POV (from a newbie) NOT ABOUT ADR -
On the net your intentions don't amount to a hill of beans. It is how you are percieved that will determine how you are treated, and how you are percieved is damned random & says much much more about the other person than yourself.
Talking on the net is talking in public & you will be heard by all sorts. Some will 'get you'. Some will not. And you'll always get much more shit from those who don't. Such is life. Such is the internet.
And it sucks.
Just a POV.

J.

I must be as thick as a plank.
I can't figure out why you had to make a point that this was not ADR, anyone would think it was a level of reverse psychology you were using.

As for how people are perceived on the net, up to a point I agree with you. That’s how 70 yr old men such as myself can get away with pretending to be a middle aged woman with pervert tendencies.

However, if someone posts enough you can start to see patterns in their writing and the facts’ they have written. Sometimes those patterns are consistent and you start to see elements of the real person, sometimes the patterns are slowly manipulated to make people who originally were suspicious of the poster start to re-think their ideas. This second type of poster serve only to play with other peoples intuition and psyche as a game. They are the most unpleasant as they have no idea of any long term effects they are having on a complete stranger, they have no idea what else is happening in that persons life which means this particular type of game can tip them over an emotional edge. Then again, sometimes a poster is just too dumb to realise they have not kept up with the particular persona they are trying to convey and make basic errors leaving themselves open to ridicule and allows others to easily see the real person unintentionally 'bleeding' through posts.

I wonder which type of poster you are....then again maybe I have already decided which one I believe you are.

And on a final note, leaving kisses after 'psydo-rudeness' still means you have been bad mannered to another poster, in the world of grown-ups kisses don't take the sting out of any cut made unlike having mummy 'kiss it better' when bad things happen.

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

As for how people are perceived on the net, up to a point I agree with you. That’s how 70 yr old men such as myself can get away with pretending to be a middle aged woman with pervert tendencies.

Good God Miss Shy not you as well...........adjusts......ah better..........

 

[A Desert Rose]

All these posts prove one thing... I'm not very cliquish. I don't belong to one, obviously. And judging by the posts, no one wants me in one either. LOL In fact, considering the comments, I question why I'm even still posting here.

I'd really like to redirect this thread so it's not about me. I didn't start this thread for it to be all about me... I already have one of those. And that thread is kinda tacky of me, too.

I think it's really interesting that shy has come clean about herself. I'm disappointed and shocked... SHOCKED I SAY to find out that she's 70 year old man. I'm beginning to question my judgement and intuition in a big way.

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

I think it's really interesting that shy has come clean about herself. I'm disappointed and shocked... SHOCKED I SAY to find out that she's 70 year old man. I'm beginning to question my judgement and intuition in a big way.

Hey what about me ......I was even brave enough to 'adjust' in public

 

[saw_man1]

That’s how 70 yr old men such as myself can get away with pretending to be a middle aged woman with pervert tendencies.

I am just passing through on my way to hip replacement surgery. I do have one question while I'm here.

What do you use to clean your dentures? For the life of me I can not remove those stubborn tobacco stains.

 

[Shankara20]

As for how people are perceived on the net, up to a point I agree with you. That’s how 70 yr old men such as myself can get away with pretending to be a middle aged woman with pervert tendencies.

I knew there was something I liked about you. Come on over here Daddy, let me be your toyboy.


I never thought I be someone's boy again at my age....

 

[A Desert Rose]

Hey what about me ......I was even brave enough to 'adjust' in public

Yes, yes you're right. How could I be so rude as to not include you? One more disappointment, you are... sigh.

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

I am just passing through on my way to hip replacement surgery. I do have one question while I'm here.

What do you use to clean your dentures? For the life of me I can not remove those stubborn tobacco stains.

Ohhh I have a message from MIZZ Shy .....she just had to go out and buy some Rectinol ....she said mix it with a little coarse rock salt does the trick then brush .Hope thats of some assistence.

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

Yes, yes you're right. How could I be so rude as to not include you? One more disappointment, you are... sigh.

glows.......

 

[snowy ciara]

As for how people are perceived on the net, up to a point I agree with you. That’s how 70 yr old men such as myself can get away with pretending to be a middle aged woman with pervert tendencies.

Somehow, that just makes you more of a hottie...

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

Somehow, that just makes you more of a hottie...

coughs......... hands off please Miss Snowy, Bruce errrrrrm I mean Miss Shy is ALL mine

 

[snowy ciara]

Aaawww man! But there aren't enough 70 year old men pretending to be female middle aged perverts to go around... sniff Maybe Shank still hearts me.

 

[Kajira Callista]

Aaawww man! But there aren't enough 70 year old men pretending to be female middle aged perverts to go around... sniff Maybe Shank still hearts me.

i do *bats lashes*

 

[graceanne]

Aaawww man! But there aren't enough 70 year old men pretending to be female middle aged perverts to go around... sniff Maybe Shank still hearts me.

I you.

Of course I'm not bi, but at least their's that much.

I've decided that I'm gonna have to hook you up with my brother.

 

[Shankara20]

Aaawww man! But there aren't enough 70 year old men pretending to be female middle aged perverts to go around... sniff Maybe Shank still hearts me.

if you can deal with a much younger man....

 

[snowy ciara]

I hope you mean younger than Shy, cause if you get much younger than me, we have legal issues!

 

[Shankara20]

I hope you mean younger than Shy, cause if you get much younger than me, we have legal issues!

yes, younger than Shy.

I could be her, errrrr, his "boy" or your "daddy"



hmmm - "panty daddy" - that sounds sorta cute

 

[graceanne]

I hope you mean younger than Shy, cause if you get much younger than me, we have legal issues!

hehe You cradle robber.

I always knew you were perverted, but I had no idea . . .

 

[Kajira Callista]

yes, younger than Shy.

I could be her, errrrr, his "boy" or your "daddy"



hmmm - "panty daddy" - that sounds sorta cute

purrrrrrrrrrr

 

[Shankara20]

hehe You cradle robber.

I always knew you were perverted, but I had no idea . . .

snowy ciara is perverted?

 

[snowy ciara]

Panty Daddy works for me! I'll even be nice and share with KC!

 

[Shankara20]

Panty Daddy works for me! I'll even be nice and share with KC!

just give me call when ever you feel like a "bad girl" spanking...