How do I loosen my vagina?

[WaitWhatt]

My first wife suffered from vaginismus, which is a painful contraction of the muscles when physical contact occurs (ie, penis trying to get in). It can be fixed, but it was a contributing factor in ending our marriage. I'd find a good female doctor and have a good talk about it. Don't let this drag on.

This.

Also there's a show on TV called "Strange Sex"..they did an episode on that. Te woman was brought up in some strict religious family where even using a tampon or going to a gynocologist was "evil". It took weeks for them to use certain techniques and it went away completely. It's probably stuff you can do yourself.

 

[PrettyProse]

I've had a baby. She's now two. When my husband and I first started having sex again after she was born, it was so painful because I was actually tighter than I had been before I had her. I don't know where the hell this notion came from that having babies naturally instead of a c-section makes a woman loose...anyway, different topic. Lol.

Oh, and yes. I do masturbate often. When I can't have sex, I still masturbate. Probably once, twice a day? Lately not so much because my husband and I have had good luck with sex. Lots of foreplay and him going slow at first seems to help. A little. At least enough so that I don't have pain afterwards and we can go again. Hahaha! I don't think I'll be needing the dilator kit yet. But it's good to know that it's out there. It seems what we've been doing has been helping and the fact that he's understanding is really great.

I will have to look into getting a different gynecologist, I think. I'll ask about vaginismus. I've never heard of that, but it sure does answer a lot of questions I have.

Again, thank you all. I really appreciate your replies to my not-serious-sounding but very serious question. Lol.

 

[TheOlderGuy]

Having a baby definitely loosens your vaginal opening. Think about what's involved in passing your baby's skull through an opening that barely will allow entrance of your husband's penis. It is very common for vaginal tears to occur in the process. Most of those heal naturally leaving your vaginal opening somewhat larger than before. The more severe ones require stitching. Some docs will routinely stitch even the minor ones. It sounds to me like you were stitched up by someone who was either incompetent or sadistic. If your gyno can't see the problem, I would find another, or even talk with a midwife, who may be far more in touch with your issues than a doc.

Good luck with it.

 

[night&day]

There One Woman On THis Thread...

that calims she has a tight pussy, but you know when I tried to get her to meet she didn't want to. Guess she can losen it up the old fashioned way.

 

[sillypanda]

No need to be coy dude, I'll say it in public - I don't want to meet you.

 

[PrettyProse]

that calims she has a tight pussy, but you know when I tried to get her to meet she didn't want to. Guess she can losen it up the old fashioned way.

I'm married... And quite happily so. So meeting would be a betrayal to him.