How do you give a lap dance?

[hottnready]

My boyfriend wants a lap dance. I give him one, kinda. He likes it, but I want to do it better. I want to get his body hot and not just give him a regular hard on. Can anyone give me some ideas for a good lap dance. I would really appreciate it!!

 

[Guest]

Well if you want to go above and beyond the norm for giving a lap dance, there are classes you can take for lap/pole dancing although that can be a bit embarrassing. There are plenty of DVDs for sale that will give you step by step "very hot" instructions and "how to's"...to find, just google it or go to amazon.com

 

[PrinceM]

if you want to get him REALLY hot, take him to a strip club. then, let him watch you get a lap dance from a girl, then tell him he'll get his later. then take him home, and do what the girl did to you. he'll be ready to explode before you're done.

 

[Guest]

if you want to get him REALLY hot, take him to a strip club. then, let him watch you get a lap dance from a girl, then tell him he'll get his later. then take him home, and do what the girl did to you. he'll be ready to explode before you're done.

OK, well that would most definitely work!!!!!!

 

[Cakegirl]

Some tips:

Exotic dance ALWAYS looks better in high heels.

Get him to sit on a chair with no arms (gives you better access).

Get him to sit with his legs fairly far apart, so that there is a V of seat in front of his crotch.

Make him understand that he is not to touch you. You can touch him, but he can't touch you back.

Get a nice slutty/grindy song playing.

As you dance, look at him the whole time, either directly in the eyes with a turned-on look on your face, or scanning his body, especially his groin.

You want to alternate between dancing a little way away from him (visually pleasing) and dancing while touching him (physically pleasing).

Some good visually pleasing moves include, when you're down on the ground and want to come up, get yourself into a squatting position, and when you stand up, really arch your back, and straighten your legs before you straighten your body. Does that make sense? My friends and I call this "standing up arse-first".

For any type of movement, go for the "hip roll". This is essentially just circling your hips while keeping your upper body relatively steady. Remember to really exaggerate the move - when you push your hips right, push them ALL the way right, when your hips are forward, really tilt your pelvis up, then ALL the way left, then when your roll is at the back, really stick your arse out.

Another move we call the scoop and thrust. With that one, you do a pelvic roll from about 10 o'clock to 2 o'clock (via the 6, not the 12), and at the end, you thrust your pelvis upwards (once again, I hope this makes sense in writing). This move is good for lots of reasons - 1) if you're wearing a short skirt, that thrust might be enough to flick it up and give your guy a glimpse of your panties. 2) It's hot just to look at the pelvis move, and 3) if your up close, you can do this move AROUND your man - i.e. you pretend he's the centre of the clock, and you gently float around him and that thrust at the end grinds against him. It's a good one, if he's sitting in his chair, for you to do against his arm/shoulder, or, if you're flexible and strong, straddle him, and hold on to the back of the chair over his shoulders, and do it to him front-on.

Remember that V of space in front of his crotch? Put one of your feet there, and dance with your leg up. You might have to remind him that he's not allowed to touch you at this point!

Um, that's all for now! It's late!

 

[Guest]

Yes, and wear a short little skirt (easier to dance in) and a sexy blouse with maybe a small amount of cleavage...and as cakegirl said: high heels!!!! The higher the sexier!

 

[justaguyinbama]

Some tips:

Exotic dance ALWAYS looks better in high heels.

Get him to sit on a chair with no arms (gives you better access).

Get him to sit with his legs fairly far apart, so that there is a V of seat in front of his crotch.

Make him understand that he is not to touch you. You can touch him, but he can't touch you back.

Get a nice slutty/grindy song playing.

As you dance, look at him the whole time, either directly in the eyes with a turned-on look on your face, or scanning his body, especially his groin.

You want to alternate between dancing a little way away from him (visually pleasing) and dancing while touching him (physically pleasing).

Some good visually pleasing moves include, when you're down on the ground and want to come up, get yourself into a squatting position, and when you stand up, really arch your back, and straighten your legs before you straighten your body. Does that make sense? My friends and I call this "standing up arse-first".

For any type of movement, go for the "hip roll". This is essentially just circling your hips while keeping your upper body relatively steady. Remember to really exaggerate the move - when you push your hips right, push them ALL the way right, when your hips are forward, really tilt your pelvis up, then ALL the way left, then when your roll is at the back, really stick your arse out.

Another move we call the scoop and thrust. With that one, you do a pelvic roll from about 10 o'clock to 2 o'clock (via the 6, not the 12), and at the end, you thrust your pelvis upwards (once again, I hope this makes sense in writing). This move is good for lots of reasons - 1) if you're wearing a short skirt, that thrust might be enough to flick it up and give your guy a glimpse of your panties. 2) It's hot just to look at the pelvis move, and 3) if your up close, you can do this move AROUND your man - i.e. you pretend he's the centre of the clock, and you gently float around him and that thrust at the end grinds against him. It's a good one, if he's sitting in his chair, for you to do against his arm/shoulder, or, if you're flexible and strong, straddle him, and hold on to the back of the chair over his shoulders, and do it to him front-on.

Remember that V of space in front of his crotch? Put one of your feet there, and dance with your leg up. You might have to remind him that he's not allowed to touch you at this point!

Um, that's all for now! It's late!

I'm thinking maybe you've done this before. Looks like great advice.

 

[Cakegirl]

I'm thinking maybe you've done this before. Looks like great advice.

Just for fun, not for money

I used to be scared of dancing, and felt really awkward on any dancefloor, but I went to an exotic dancing class over a year ago, and got really into it, and am still doing it now!

 

[LindaL]

I've tried this for hubby, neither one of us could keep a straight face!

We discovered we both liked it better if he sat on the floor, and I sat on a chair facing him, and just masturbated while he watched. Less risk of my hip going out!

 

[SgtSpiderMan]

How does a guy give 1 to a girl?

 

[shmily]

Some tips:

Exotic dance ALWAYS looks better in high heels.

Get him to sit on a chair with no arms (gives you better access).

Get him to sit with his legs fairly far apart, so that there is a V of seat in front of his crotch.

Make him understand that he is not to touch you. You can touch him, but he can't touch you back.

Get a nice slutty/grindy song playing.

As you dance, look at him the whole time, either directly in the eyes with a turned-on look on your face, or scanning his body, especially his groin.

You want to alternate between dancing a little way away from him (visually pleasing) and dancing while touching him (physically pleasing).

Some good visually pleasing moves include, when you're down on the ground and want to come up, get yourself into a squatting position, and when you stand up, really arch your back, and straighten your legs before you straighten your body. Does that make sense? My friends and I call this "standing up arse-first".

For any type of movement, go for the "hip roll". This is essentially just circling your hips while keeping your upper body relatively steady. Remember to really exaggerate the move - when you push your hips right, push them ALL the way right, when your hips are forward, really tilt your pelvis up, then ALL the way left, then when your roll is at the back, really stick your arse out.

Another move we call the scoop and thrust. With that one, you do a pelvic roll from about 10 o'clock to 2 o'clock (via the 6, not the 12), and at the end, you thrust your pelvis upwards (once again, I hope this makes sense in writing). This move is good for lots of reasons - 1) if you're wearing a short skirt, that thrust might be enough to flick it up and give your guy a glimpse of your panties. 2) It's hot just to look at the pelvis move, and 3) if your up close, you can do this move AROUND your man - i.e. you pretend he's the centre of the clock, and you gently float around him and that thrust at the end grinds against him. It's a good one, if he's sitting in his chair, for you to do against his arm/shoulder, or, if you're flexible and strong, straddle him, and hold on to the back of the chair over his shoulders, and do it to him front-on.

Remember that V of space in front of his crotch? Put one of your feet there, and dance with your leg up. You might have to remind him that he's not allowed to touch you at this point!

Um, that's all for now! It's late!

SgtSpiderMan - use the same techniques mentioned above - but please skip the high heels and short skirt!!
a nice thong, or sexy silky boxers might be better.

s

 

[hottnready]

Thanks a lot. I am gonna try it later tonight or tomorrow night. I'll let you know how it goes.

 

[firstclassmale]

laps

from a guy perspective when I have had a really good lap dance the girl is wearing an exotic perfume..she wears a sexy thong and lets her hair tumble in your face..sweet breathe and her tits just about touching you in the face sensually..and then stradles your lap rubbing her crotch on your hot wet hard on back and forth,, hey just go to a good club and get a dance and you'll see and let the bf watch and that should make him sooo hot..

 

[hottnready]

He really likes you're idea. He is the more touchy kinda guy. I would go to a club and let him watch, but he's not into girl-girl stuff. Except he does want me and another girl to give him head! Should I be upset. I mean I am all for spontaneous and sexual things, but we have been together for 3 years and plan on getting married when we are a little older. I dont know what to do. Any advice?