How do you handle getting "dissed" on the board?

[KillerMuffin]

Let's try not to degenerate into name calling, snuggling, or smacking sessions. Though... snuggling will get you smacked.

Anyway.

If someone on this board disrespects you in some way, how do you handle it?

Do you attack and verbally beat the disrespector into spineless invertebrate pudding?
Do you shrug it off and move on with your life?
Do you shower them with sweetness/cuteness?
Do you bitch with your friends privately until you're sufficiently angry then witchhunt through the boards with snide posting?
Do you go to other boards and post things about those "assholes/bitches" at lit?
Do you change your name to a guest name and cruise around, trolling?
Do you threaten to sue literotica?

I'm one of those attack like a rabid badger ask questions later kinda people. Hack me off and I'm going for the throat, whether I misconstrued what was said notwithstanding. *sighs* One of those parts of my personality I think I could seriously do without. Of course, I pretty much expect people to act like I do when I act asinine toward them. It baffles me at times when I say something utterly insulting and they just cry and start an email campaign that includes letting the den mothers (for some reason MP was chosen as one once) know what's going on.

Then there is the implied disrespect. Such as the "teehee, I'm soooo cute!" crowd, which seems to have mostly dispersed for cuter pastures. I don't stand in admiration of this little chickiepoos, they actually piss me the hell off because I see their brainless simpering as an insulting smack in the face of intelligent women. I mean really, intelligence is the most attractive feature in a woman. Seriously, how long would stay if the only thing your mate could do was giggle and do things just for the cuteness factor?

I know what I do, right, wrong or indifferent, and I've stood by some of it and apologized for some it. What do other people do? Do you ever feel ashamed for how you've handled a situation where someone has disrespected you?

For general info, this thread isn't about me or anyone else specific, it's about everyone.

 

[CreamyLady]

I think about it. If an answer is required right away, I'll give it. If not, I'll go away and fill my brain with other stuff, and forget it. If I deserve it, well, it's harder to process, but it does digest.

Seriously, carrying a grudge is damned hard work, and I'm lazy. Not everyone loves me, I don't love everyone, and everyone gets crazy from time to time. Life's too short to deal with nonstop nastiness.

I don't care much for women who cultivate the brainless bimbo persona, and don't miss them, either. It's much more fun reading intelligent posts.

 

[MysteryJKR]

for me its just a board. Ya dont know people on the baord in real life. Well not all of us. And ya dont know how they are in person. I am a reg in another baord and i was trolled and almost hounded out early on and now im very respected. I know for a fact there are people that just come on the baords to cause a ruckass and ya cant take everything seriously. Its just a forum. click the little X up there and move on. If its dealing with you personally and it gripes you. Sure id speak my mind cuz i can flame with the best of em if i choose to. But I rarely feel the need.

I dont think everyone should get so bent ouf of shape when there messed with on here, sure i know things can be personal and ive even been hit with some personal stuff in here, but dont take it to far or take it to seriously. Move on and be happy, its a board and its a place to relax, waste some time and talk to some people.

Thats what I think.

 

[Siren]

Muff Kill one of the reasons we get along so well is that we are alot alike me thinks

 

[Persephone]

Sometimes...

...I just welcome a good fight. I know it doesn't matter, and it isn't going to change much, but on a subject which I really strongly believe in I sometimes like to go to battle.

I like a direct battle, arguing right to someone's (cyber) face. I think it's cheap and cowardly to hide or go behind someone's back.

Years ago I let myself be flamed off a Board. I actually cried, my feelings were so hurt. I've certainly learned not to let any online stuff effect me to that extent anymore!

 

[Mistress]

Giggles and goes to look for someone to snuggles with




Seriously, just because I like to snuggle doesnt mean thats the only thing I know how to do. That's just MY personality, I'm a friendly girl. And, I've been kicked off enough boards to know better then to voice my anger over the slightest thing. I have a major temper, but a person can only get kicked off so many boards for telling people what she thinks lol!

 

[Siren]

You wont get kicked off this board Mistress

 

[Xander]

All depends on the situation.
Personally I usually just shrug it off. Not paying attention to it again.
However if it's someone I know offline, who chooses to diss/troll using my words, said in confidentiality.

Well hell. That someone is gonna get a verbal beating for breaking confidence.

 

[Whispersecret]

Depends upon who is doing the "attacking." I'll respond differently to someone whom I respect versus a spineless troll. In the case of the former, I might explain how I took the comment and let the person respond in hopes that it was a misunderstanding. With a troll, I may strike back once, harshly, and let it drop, because I know it never pays to fight with a troll. You just end up having to listen to it regurgitate the same old points/insults.

If you ever find me giving the hug treatment to someone who has insulted me, KM, you have my permission to slap me back to my senses, for I will have lost my mind at that point.

I definitely bitch to my friends. (Said friends already know this about me.) That's part of friendship. I am always available to shoulder the bitching when it needs to be vented and vice-versa. Sometimes I rely on these friends to restrain me from acting like a child. Sometimes I allow them to egg me on to posting something in true bitch fashion.

I NEVER troll as a guest. The only time I've posted as a guest were in attempt to be funny. (Recently, I posted as "The Count" on Kerrie's thread.)

Much to my chagrin, I did once venture to Lasher's bb and whine about what I saw as the invasion of idiocy on the Lit board. I really regret doing that. Frustration with a situation doesn't justify a wrong action.

Lastly, I'd never threaten to sue Literotica. Oh, wait! I think I did yesterday on the thread announcing the new game area. Ooops. Guess Siren's gonna be on my ass now. Course, that's not such a horrible prospect. I like her (NBTAC).

I don't stand in admiration of this little chickiepoos, they actually piss me the hell off because I see their brainless simpering as an insulting smack in the face of intelligent women.

Hey, I never looked at it in that way, KM. I observe women (and I use the term loosely) who do nothing here but flaunt their sexuality and never open their mouths except to utter "Golly, I'm so horny! Anyone wanna fuck me? Tee hee!" or its equivalent. (Yeah, and this is where they pipe up and protest that they're here to unwind and that their real life is a serious, intelligent undertaking. Whatever. So is mine, but I can still manage to come off as knowing how to use my brain.) Then I observe the men fall like hormone-driven sycophants at the feet of these chicks, begging for some of her attention, while neatly giving her exactly what she wanted.

It's enough to make a person Woof.

 

[Siren]

Woof Whispersecret...woof away

 

[Whispersecret]

"Not Between Thanksgiving and Christmas" It's an old joke that MP told me once. I don't remember it well enough to tell it.

 

[Siren]

Thanks for the info

 

[Dillinger]

Really depends on my mood. Sometimes I ignore it. Sometimes I lash back in anger. Sometimes I ridicule. Sometimes I opt to see it as humorous and make some remarkably pithy comment in reply.

Do you attack and verbally beat the disrespector into spineless invertebrate pudding?

Don't think I've ever gone quite that far. But if I ever do I'll get onto' MP's thread and give a big WOOF!

Do you shrug it off and move on with your life?

That's the way I keep telling myself I should handle it. In the grand scheme of things its not worth stressing out over. But it comes down to mood again. Sometimes you just ain't gonna take any shit.

Do you shower them with sweetness/cuteness?

Only if their tits are as big as yours, KM.

Do you bitch with your friends privately until you're sufficiently angry then witchhunt through the boards with snide posting?

Yes and No. HELL YES I bitch with my friends. But no - I never witchhunt. I have a huge aversion to witchhunting of any type.

Do you go to other boards and post things about those "assholes/bitches" at lit?

Never. I think that's a cop out. Bitching to your friends in private is one thing. Posting publically in another forum seems pretty low. If you got a problem that you think deserves public attention then post it here and take what comes back at you like a "man".

Do you change your name to a guest name and cruise around, trolling?

Nope.

Do you threaten to sue literotica?

What the fuck is up with that anyway? That's just fucking dumb assed fucked up shit. Hell, I think even the members who are lawyers would say "why the fuck would you even consider doing that?"

 

[Siren]

That is exactly what I say Dilly

 

[Whispersecret]

No, Siren, it's not that. There's a joke where NBTAC is the punchline.

Someone who knows it, tell her!

 

[dave-73]

Siren will rip them too shreds, go for the throat,mmmmm how old are you.... testicular breath... you think your so big cos you got lots of post`s,,,,,,,,,my god man I got bored with the net and started learning music, you on the other hand, you sit with your sex organ in one hand and a fucking mouse in the other.....Can’t you get real friends, do you lack the necessary charisma that attracts friends and associates....GET A LIFE

 

[Siren]

Well I missed the boat on that joke...

 

[Dixon Carter Lee]

If the putz is funnier than me, he wins. Until then he's a bump on my ass.

Either way I'm never insulted, because I don't choose to be insulted. I deal with it by never letting it happen in the first place.

Also, ever since I started putting people on notice I find that the great satisfaction I get from all the people I'm scaring puts a smile on my face all day. Pardon me now, I have to go call the Private Detective I hired to do whatever it is that he's doing. His name is actually "Dick". Isn't that cute? *tee hee*

 

[dave-73]

PRIVATE DETECTIVE...you for fucking real...another sad cunt with no life, just a head full of fucking goofballs...

 

[Angel]

Personally I think an insult is more valid coming from someone I -know- rather than a made up name to hide from me. If I'm *dissed* by a troll, I honestly am not hurt by it, but I also won't give a real, serious answer. If someone says something insulting to me that I know, I still won't be hurt by it, but I'd be more inclined to give a serious answer.

 

[Mistress]

Hmm....

 

[Angel]

Hmm?

 

[dave-73]

hmmm?

 

[Mistress]

Snuggles Angel then ducks out of the way before Muff can smack her..

 

[Angel]

Do you want a good smack or a bad smack?