How do you know if you're GAY or if you're BI

[Luna_Wolf72]

What are you if you enjoy sex, snuggling up, and kissing with both sexes then?

bi-amorous (at least that's what I call myself...cuz I can love them both)

 

[willingtotry]

i wondered that myself, but i think i have a sure fire answer,
at least for me....

if you enjoy sex with the same sex, but dont like the though of snuggling up or kissing the same sex, your bi.

its strange, but i have had sex with more than a few men, and while i have no problems sucking a guy off and swallowing every drop and realy love to take a good hard one in my ass, the thought of kissing a man revolts me!
numezze

I agree completely. I check out guys a lot but I'm thinking, "Damn, I want his body and cock." I'm not thinking, "I wanna spoon with him." But I'm also very sensitive and feminine, so I don't know what that makes me. lol

 

[numezze]

thats funny, "not i want to spoon with him"...hehe!
i was bothered by the thought that i might be gay, not cause its a bad thing, but cause i am married and have kids and wouldnt want to hurt them...
but using my definition, i know i just like sex. and a good hard cock feels good once in a while.
numezze

 

[robbie_boy1]

I am not gay

thats funny, "not i want to spoon with him"...hehe!
i was bothered by the thought that i might be gay, not cause its a bad thing, but cause i am married and have kids and wouldnt want to hurt them...
but using my definition, i know i just like sex. and a good hard cock feels good once in a while.
numezze

I love pussy and love man sex......50/50, I believe that makes me bi..even when my wife snaps her fingers and has me suck her lovers cock.....he he.....I couldn't live without eating all the above.......but that's just me

rb

 

[Elmer Keith]

Slurp, the more I read of you, the harder i get. Check your PM.

 

[Johnny Depp]

Id say the surefire way you know your a homo is if you're repulsed by the opposite sex.

 

[Raimondin]

I think you’re bi if your parents saddled you with a name like Evelyn, which can be a man or a woman. Or was that the other way round? Evelyn Glennie – probably the finest living percussionist (Scottish chick!) Evelyn Waugh – novelist (English geezer).

On the other hand, I saw a great film last week (Layer Cake) which may answer the question more definitively. One character says (with some emotion and aggression in his gangsterly tone) “Making love to women is for poofs.”

I think that should settle it.

Sort of like that old Johnny Cash song, "A Boy Named Sue."
Yes, I think "Evelyn" is a very unique name for a man. Oviously some very famous men with that name already. This also brings to mind famous women with "men" names like the actresses, Glenn Close or Michael Learned (from TV's The Walton's) or Stockard Channing. Oh yeah in the 1960's spy spoof movie "Casino Royale" Peter Sellars played James Bond, but his real name was "Evelyn Tremble" who was also an expert Bacarat card player in the film. Just thought I'd throw in some movie buff trivia here.

 

[rakastuja]

I think better question is why do you need to label yourself as a hetero, bi or homo at all?

Why not just think every person as an individual case and go for it if you feel attracted?

 

[The Mutt]

I think better question is why do you need to label yourself as a hetero, bi or homo at all?

Why not just think every person as an individual case and go for it if you feel attracted?

I used to agree with this. I hate labels. Sexy people are sexy people and I want to have sex with them. But I never identified myself as Bi.
But then our government decided they wanted to ammend the constitution to make certain Americans second-class citizens. I decided it was time to stand up and be counted.

 

[rakastuja]

I used to agree with this. I hate labels. Sexy people are sexy people and I want to have sex with them. But I never identified myself as Bi.
But then our government decided they wanted to ammend the constitution to make certain Americans second-class citizens. I decided it was time to stand up and be counted.

I hate labels too but I use them. They are far more convenient in communication than long explanations. I pick a label which suits situation and purpose that time. I dont feel too stressed to "know" if Im this or that orientation.

For me labels are just one word terms to let people know easily what Im generally interested in.

 

[bi_asian_guy]

*****

 

[Izdaari]

i wondered that myself, but i think i have a sure fire answer,
at least for me....

if you enjoy sex with the same sex, but dont like the though of snuggling up or kissing the same sex, your bi.

its strange, but i have had sex with more than a few men, and while i have no problems sucking a guy off and swallowing every drop and realy love to take a good hard one in my ass, the thought of kissing a man revolts me!
numezze

Might be true for bi guys, but all the bi women I know (self included) like snuggling and kissing women.

 

[pollyjean]

Try to have sex with everyone you know. If that doesn't work, whip out the Ouija board.

How much fun could having sex with a Ouija board be?

 

[Jander1]

Might be true for bi guys, but all the bi women I know (self included) like snuggling and kissing women.

Im a guy and for me to enjoy sex to the fullest with either sex I think I need to share some sort of closeness that would involve at least some snuggling and kissing. Otherwise to me it is less emotional which is less sexy.

 

[Brinnie]

thats funny, "not i want to spoon with him"...hehe!
i was bothered by the thought that i might be gay, not cause its a bad thing, but cause i am married and have kids and wouldnt want to hurt them...
but using my definition, i know i just like sex. and a good hard cock feels good once in a while.
numezze

In that case, it could be a GOOD thing?

 

[nobody~19]

I've no interest in being intimate with a guy, I'm just occassionally interested in the sex aspect.

 

[sparkzzz]

I've no interest in being intimate with a guy, I'm just occassionally interested in the sex aspect.

hmmm, good point...

as numezze said, a hard cock feels good once in a while...

 

[maleorfemale]

I never really thought about it till I was 44 years old,first time I had sex with another guy.Then I came here and found out they have a label for everything,
are you a top or a bottom are you bi or straight or gay?
Well lets see the female form gets me hard every time-there is just something
about the shape of a womans ass,No dude has ever done that for me.
And I have yet to find any guy that could suck my cock better then my wife,
don't belive everything you hear!
Sex with a guy is just that-lust and nothing more,the thought of a nice hard
cock makes me hard but not the whole package,and while if given the chance
I enjoy kissing another guy while in the heat of the moment.
So I guess you would call me bi.
I like to think I am just a person that likes sex with other people!

 

[jasongw]

I know I'm bi because I am attracted to and enjoy sex with men and women. I know I'm not a lesbian because I'm attracted to men. Not too difficult.

However, I didn't really know I was bi for a long time because I don't think I saw it as an option. I mainly recall hearing "gay" and "straight" when I was growing up, and since I knew I wasn't gay, I just figured I was straight. I had always dated men, and didn't really have any experience with women, so my feelings about women were mistaken for just a healthy appreciation, which I believed was a normal part of being straight.

Same here, except in reverse. I've always had an interest in playing with guy parts (love to suck and love to be a bottom) but at the same time the idea of kissing a guy or cuddling up is just...yuck. I gotsta have my woman for that kind of thing!

So I'm definitely Bi.

Jason

 

[Brinnie]

How much fun could having sex with a Ouija board be?

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[I hate brinnie]

Brinnie:
the postwhore she hates,
the hypocrisy in herself,
her own denial.

Brinnie.

 

[Brinnie]

can we get back on topic, please?

 

[Ricwilly]

I heard some one say that ten percent of the population was totally straight and ten percent were totally gay and the rest of us were some where in the middle. I haven't checked these figures so don't hold me to them.
For me I lean more twoard woman tho I have enjoyed men also from time to time. I don't feel like my sexuality is set in stone, it's more fluid than that like sometimes I feel like I want a woman and sometimes I'd like a man.
I had a friend tell me he didn't believe in bi-sexuals, he just thought some people were greedy LOL, Hell maybe he had a point.
For myself if it feels good I'm for it as long as no one gets hurt.
As to how do I know if I'm bi, gay or straight , I know I'm attracted to someone if I want to have sex with them.

 

[cndallas]

I think better question is why do you need to label yourself as a hetero, bi or homo at all?

Why not just think every person as an individual case and go for it if you feel attracted?

good point.

 

[Brinnie]

good point indeed