Husky or even really heavy guys.

[coral_lipstick]

A long time crossdresser who really enjoys husky or even heavier men. I love the power they exert just by their weight, especially during anal play. I do not think they realize how desirable they are. Any thoughts as to why?

 

[dodgeboy2]

I am myself would be considered the even heavier type, well above average weight and have not considered myself overly desirable at all, thanks for this posting this makes me feel a little better about it!

 

[coral_lipstick]

Were you turned off by possibly the advances, i often would sit next to heavier guys and they would ignore me.

 

[dodgeboy2]

Were you turned off by possibly the advances, i often would sit next to heavier guys and they would ignore me.

I must say honestly I'm not sure if I have ever been advanced upon, or maybe I was clueless! I mean if I was and ever figured it out I would have been so honored to be hit on I wouldn't ignore it!

 

[coral_lipstick]

Goodness, so maybe all those times were not rejection but just misinterpreted intentions on my part.

Let me just ask this, what would you have thought was a come on? I’m just taking it in consideration when someone sits close next to you and attempts to make small talk that maybe you have never ever seen before, that person is attracted to you. Maybe not on an airplane or in church or some place of that type, but in a setting such as a bar or club. Maybe the forum thought should be the dos and don’ts of hitting up techniques on people in a sexually rousing ambience? I’m joking of course. I still have a thing about a heavy man.

I must say honestly I'm not sure if I have ever been advanced upon, or maybe I was clueless! I mean if I was and ever figured it out I would have been so honored to be hit on I wouldn't ignore it!

Goodness, so maybe all those times were not rejection but just misinterpreted intentions on my part.

Let me just ask this, what would you have thought was a come on? I’m just taking it in consideration when someone sits close next to you and attempts to make small talk that maybe you have never ever seen before, that person is attracted to you. Maybe not on an airplane or in church or some place of that type, but in a setting such as a bar or club. Maybe the forum thought should be the dos and don’ts of hitting up techniques on people in a sexually rousing ambience? I’m joking of course. I still have a thing about a heavy man.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

I love big, husky men! They feel so strong and masculine! I love the way they feel on top of me! I like the feeling that a big guy could have his way with me and I couldn't stop him (not that I would stop him.)

 

[PantyLover84]

I've never been with a heavy guy but I'd be more than up for it. Me face down while they take control would instantly get my juices flowing

 

[dodgeboy2]

Goodness, so maybe all those times were not rejection but just misinterpreted intentions on my part.

Let me just ask this, what would you have thought was a come on? I’m just taking it in consideration when someone sits close next to you and attempts to make small talk that maybe you have never ever seen before, that person is attracted to you. Maybe not on an airplane or in church or some place of that type, but in a setting such as a bar or club. Maybe the forum thought should be the dos and don’ts of hitting up techniques on people in a sexually rousing ambience? I’m joking of course. I still have a thing about a heavy man.

Goodness, so maybe all those times were not rejection but just misinterpreted intentions on my part.

Let me just ask this, what would you have thought was a come on? I’m just taking it in consideration when someone sits close next to you and attempts to make small talk that maybe you have never ever seen before, that person is attracted to you. Maybe not on an airplane or in church or some place of that type, but in a setting such as a bar or club. Maybe the forum thought should be the dos and don’ts of hitting up techniques on people in a sexually rousing ambience? I’m joking of course. I still have a thing about a heavy man.

I would have to say to answer your question, I have in fact had some come up and talk small talk but honestly I had always considered it that (maybe I may have to rethink my ways of interpretation of small acts like that). So back to the answer I at those times would have never thought just simple small talk could show someone's attraction to me, maybe that is really that I have issues with someone being attracted to me at my size!

But knowing there are some out there that do I may just have to try to look at it a bit differently and hope it's that but also I would have to keep in the back of my mind that it may also be someone cruel and there could be ridicule they bring to the table and nothing else.

 

[JackWilson0715]

As a lifelong big guy, I gotta say we are kinda conditioned not to feel desired or desirable. You may have to spell out your intentions with a bigger guy, or he may just not see the advances at all

 

[dodgeboy2]

As a lifelong big guy, I gotta say we are kinda conditioned not to feel desired or desirable. You may have to spell out your intentions with a bigger guy, or he may just not see the advances at all

Very well said

 

[JayJ42]

I've fantasized being with an older, husky\larger guy for a while now. I don't know what it is, but it unlocks something primal in me

Especially when I watch "helping hands" vids on the tube sites, and wish I was the one leaning against him, with one of his hands on my cock, and the other feeling up my chest and torso... Pulling me close to him as I feel him growing against the small of my back

Yeah... I've thought on this a lot

 

[coral_lipstick]

I would have to say to answer your question, I have in fact had some come up and talk small talk but honestly I had always considered it that (maybe I may have to rethink my ways of interpretation of small acts like that). So back to the answer I at those times would have never thought just simple small talk could show someone's attraction to me, maybe that is really that I have issues with someone being attracted to me at my size!

But knowing there are some out there that do I may just have to try to look at it a bit differently and hope it's that but also I would have to keep in the back of my mind that it may also be someone cruel and there could be ridicule they bring to the table and nothing else.

Enjoyed your reply, wish I had some of the insight you expressed a few years back. All of us are sort of winging it in life and what we think or perceive change as we grow older. Believe me I am not trying to sound philosophical or something as I’m not. Anyway was at this conference type thing that was business related and these three younger women sitting near me were discussing the lack of getting any dates and how no one was asking them to go out. I couldn’t help but overhear them and they were by no means interested in me. They were attractive, so that was not the problem, it just seemed no one would ask them or hit up on them as the older crowd would say. The guys were afraid or maybe just too lazy. If anything, the guys doing the asking are afraid of rejection, not being cruel.

 

[dodgeboy2]

Enjoyed your reply, wish I had some of the insight you expressed a few years back. All of us are sort of winging it in life and what we think or perceive change as we grow older. Believe me I am not trying to sound philosophical or something as I’m not. Anyway was at this conference type thing that was business related and these three younger women sitting near me were discussing the lack of getting any dates and how no one was asking them to go out. I couldn’t help but overhear them and they were by no means interested in me. They were attractive, so that was not the problem, it just seemed no one would ask them or hit up on them as the older crowd would say. The guys were afraid or maybe just too lazy. If anything, the guys doing the asking are afraid of rejection, not being cruel.

Don't know about insight, lol. I can honestly say I have never seen an interest in me in such a long long time I wouldn't recognize the situation for others like those girls you spoke of. I think though that there are many guys who would ask just to be cruel in today's world especially.

 

[coral_lipstick]

As a lifelong big guy, I gotta say we are kinda conditioned not to feel desired or desirable. You may have to spell out your intentions with a bigger guy, or he may just not see the advances at all

I just wonder where this conditioning came from, you guys are just so cuddly, yet at the same time seemingly dominate. I have always enjoyed a heavy guy; it has always made me want to go the extra mile to squirm against and kiss and lick and just take your whole largeness in.
Years back i had a semi-relationship with this fairly husky man where we always ended up with me on top riding him in a reverse cow-girl style, we fit perfectly and he could make me cum that way just me fucking his manhood. He was a shoe salesman at a big department store and met when he approached me in a bar. All i did was smile at him and say 'hi' to get him to respond.

 

[Justusnluv]

I prefer my Men to be larger and heavier than me.

 

[IrishBarmanBi]

I used CD in my teens until I began to bulk up, stopped as I don't like how I look... but still bottom 4 guys

 

[coral_lipstick]

You ought to try again, but if you find enough men to bottom for i guess there is no need. i just enjoy the feel of being dressed feminine like.

 

[norseman59]

Being a husky guy myself, I too would like to be with a husky guy as well.
I find myself oblivious of comments and ques made to me by someone attracted to me. I would love to know the signs of someone attracted to me or signs by someone who would like to be noticed by a big man.
I definitely want to make this connection possible.

 

[coral_lipstick]

Being a husky guy myself, I too would like to be with a husky guy as well.
I find myself oblivious of comments and ques made to me by someone attracted to me. I would love to know the signs of someone attracted to me or signs by someone who would like to be noticed by a big man.
I definitely want to make this connection possible.

I am just speaking for myself, and being of a mature age so missed out on the holding a telephone in my hand constantly which I notice a lot of the younger generation does. I have found just a simple conversation is a good starting point. Being open to responding to someone with just small talk in a mannerly sort of way works wonders. A whole lot of people out there are looking for a connection for intimacy. I know I am.
This might seem crazy but guys sitting drinking a cup of coffee and reading a book always draws my attention. Everybody needs to find their own little thing to start the flirting, I suppose.

 

[Faggyanna]

I find it helps me mentally, if they're bigger and heavier than me, it leans into my submissive kink knowing they could choose to overpower me or pin me in place, and there's nothing I can do about it.
Also, sadly, a lot of bigger guys tend to be more desperate and happier to get a willing hole or 2, getting overlooked instead of "classically" attractive guys.

Give me a fat, horny pervert over a gymbod guy any day.

 

[Justusnluv]

I find it helps me mentally, if they're bigger and heavier than me, it leans into my submissive kink knowing they could choose to overpower me or pin me in place, and there's nothing I can do about it.
Also, sadly, a lot of bigger guys tend to be more desperate and happier to get a willing hole or 2, getting overlooked instead of "classically" attractive guys.

Give me a fat, horny pervert over a gymbod guy any day.

Oh yes I completely agree. My first man was a construction worker type with a bug hairy belly. I learned to love every inch of him. I was young and much smaller. Ever since I desire larger Men. Btw, I hope they do overpower me. Helps me surrender

 

[Loyalish1245]

I’m 6’6” and about 290. We are conditioned to think we are not desirable by either sex. Guys our size aren’t chiseled usually. A lot of dad bods. I jokingly call myself a yeti because that’s how I think others view me. We don’t ever think someone wants us because we are big.

 

[Justusnluv]

I’m 6’6” and about 290. We are conditioned to think we are not desirable by either sex. Guys our size aren’t chiseled usually. A lot of dad bods. I jokingly call myself a yeti because that’s how I think others view me. We don’t ever think someone wants us because we are big.

I do!!!

 

[WildFireTN]

I’m 6’6” and about 290. We are conditioned to think we are not desirable by either sex. Guys our size aren’t chiseled usually. A lot of dad bods. I jokingly call myself a yeti because that’s how I think others view me. We don’t ever think someone wants us because we are big.

You sound delicious!
Their loss…!

 

[Loyalish1245]

You sound delicious!
Their loss…!

Heck even my wife says I’m too big lol.