How do you recognise a big cock without seeing it?

[Husky_Embrace]

I'm wondering how women (and some men) go about judging the size of a man's (big) penis. Earlier I thought it would be simple, just checking what condoms they have. Now I'm wondering if that would even work. Condoms are less common these days, and I'm not sure how many could recognise the special brands between the absolute cornucopia of brands in all colours that exist.

With showers, growers, and sock enjoyers it is impossible to just see it through the clothes. Physical prowess? Or they drive a crappy car and got nothing to prove? Or is the only evidence the one that smacks you in the face?

 

[Voboy]

BDE.

It's a thing.

 

[EmilyMiller]

Is he wearing Speedos or not?

 

[lovecraft68]

They usually comment in Loving wives.

 

[onehitwanda]

How does he treat the person behind the till or the reception desk?

 

[EmilyMiller]

Slightly more seriously, it’s men who are obsessed with cock size, not women. I’ve been with guys with a wide range of different sizes of equipment. Not one of them did I fuck due to cock size. There is this myth that when a woman sees a large cock she immediately wants to fuck the guy. I think we have porn to blame here.

 

[lovecraft68]

Here we go...

 

[KittyOfSteele]

I measure it against my own. Mine's usually bigger.

Next question.

 

[anthrodisiac]

Judge not a man on the size of his penis, for it is beyond his control.

Unless he got a penis extention, then I'm judging the hell out of him.

 

[SimonDoom]

I'm trying to wrap my mind around this question. The obvious answer would seem to be . . . wait until it comes out. Then you'll know.

"Judging" a man's cock would seem (to me) to involve seeing the thing, in a state of excitement, and then deciding for yourself, "That will do." That's a matter of personal taste, right?

But the question seems to be about "estimating" cock size, based on other things. Like what? Hand size? The guy's car? The bulge in his pants?

I'm trying to figure out a circumstance where a woman would learn a man's cock size by his condom. I mean, in the moment, aren't you going to see the cock first, and then the condom?

I'm confused. But that's nothing new.

 

[Sounding22]

Length, width, weight etc.

 

[anthrodisiac]

I'm wondering how women (and some men) go about judging the size of a man's (big) penis. Earlier I thought it would be simple, just checking what condoms they have. Now I'm wondering if that would even work. Condoms are less common these days, and I'm not sure how many could recognise the special brands between the absolute cornucopia of brands in all colours that exist.

With showers, growers, and sock enjoyers it is impossible to just see it through the clothes. Physical prowess? Or they drive a crappy car and got nothing to prove? Or is the only evidence the one that smacks you in the face?

Men tend to overestimate their condom size, so it's definitely not a good indicator. Most guys won't touch anything lower than large, and I imagine some probably go XL so the person ringing them up thinks they're well-endowed, as if anybody besides the guy actually cares.

You can't really use their clothes either, because most men's clothing isn't fitted for penis size. Unless they have some kind of cock-bra, which I'm sure someone's invented, and even then, I guarantee you men still buy the size way bigger than actually fits them.

And guys with big dicks can still have midlife crises. ED cares not for the size of your cock.

 

[crookedletter]

Assuming this is for a story (?), word of mouth should do just fine.

 

[alohadave]

You can't really use their clothes either, because most men's clothing isn't fitted for penis size. Unless they have some kind of cock-bra, which I'm sure someone's invented, and even then, I guarantee you men still buy the size way bigger than actually fits them.

Not to mention that a good number of men are growers and there is no way of telling erect size by looking at the flacid penis.

 

[SimonDoom]

If you've spent any time in men's locker rooms, you know this: there are definitely growers and showers. You don't know anything about size by how a guy appears 95% of the time. For most men, you don't know much until the moment has arrived, and he's feeling it.

 

[EmilyMiller]

How do you recognise a big cock without seeing it?​

Just occurred to me there is the whole blindfold group thing: guess the cock owner.

 

[Cagivagurl]

I'm wondering how women (and some men) go about judging the size of a man's (big) penis. Earlier I thought it would be simple, just checking what condoms they have. Now I'm wondering if that would even work. Condoms are less common these days, and I'm not sure how many could recognise the special brands between the absolute cornucopia of brands in all colours that exist.

With showers, growers, and sock enjoyers it is impossible to just see it through the clothes. Physical prowess? Or they drive a crappy car and got nothing to prove? Or is the only evidence the one that smacks you in the face?

They're normally the noisy ones in the hen house....
Bragging....
The hens all know... He's all beak.....

 

[EmilyMiller]

They're normally the noisy ones in the hen house....
Bragging....

Have come across that type. But the two guys I’ve been with who were largest (save for one freakishly large guy who couldn’t get a full erection, maybe too much blood needed?) are both kinda self-deprecating sweeties. Then both were not in their twenties when we first met. Maybe a lack of general male insecurity contributes to their vibe .

 

[Cagivagurl]

Yeah I sorta referring to actual chickens...
Supposed to be a joke, but my silly sense of humour might have been a bit vague...
sorry...

 

[EmilyMiller]

Not one of them did I fuck due to cock size.

And, as I’ve said before, no real correlation between size and how things went for me. Sure I’ve had some fun playing with the big cock worship thing, but that’s more visual and maybe oral. Once inside you (at least vaginally) other factors tend to be more important than size; not least what you feel for each other (yeah, I caught sentimentality, and I had a vaccine and everything ).

 

[NuclearFairy]

They're normally the noisy ones in the hen house....
Bragging....
The hens all know... He's all beak.....

In my experience, they're usually the least bloody ones in the yard.

Have come across that type. But the two guys I’ve been with who were largest (save for one freakishly large guy who couldn’t get a full erection, maybe too much blood needed?) are both kinda self-deprecating sweeties. Then both were not in their twenties when we first met. Maybe a lack of general male insecurity contributes to their vibe .

Oh oh right, human cocks, or rather, men's cocks.

Uh, yeah, can't tell from attitude at all with that one.

 

[EmilyMiller]

Yeah I sorta referring to actual chickens...
Supposed to be a joke, but my silly sense of humour might have been a bit vague...
sorry...

Hey - I’m a living stereotype when it comes to not getting jokes. I can tell them fine, but I’m often - huh?

 

[AlinaX]

I use a gravimeter to detect particularly girthy specimens.

 

[anthrodisiac]

I vaguely remember a study where there was actually a link between finger-size ratios and penis length, but that was more statistically likelihood that the guy would have a larger penis than someone else, not necessarily any one individual, and it's not like you'd see a guy's finger ratio and KNOW he has a big dick.

Second to fourth digit ratio: a predictor of adult penile length

Basically, the more similar in length your index and ring finger are, your dick is more likely to be longer than someone with a higher-ratio difference in finger length, but that only matters with fully extended penis, not flaccid length.

Though this was a study of 144 men in South Korea, so it's not like it was a super-robust study involving multiple countries and ethnicities, or a large sample size, so take it with a grain of salt.

 

[JessiQueVix]

There are two things to say here, from my experiences:
1. I cant recognize a big cock without seeing or touching it.
2. It doesn’t matter if the size is 10 or 5 if he cant fuck your mind. Sex starts way before you get naked in a private place.