how hot do you think you are?

[Harmony_1985]

2.

There's roadkill more attractive than me.

 

[Bette_coquette]

I suppose I'm old enough to no longer define "hot" as a physical attraction. I find intelligent men to be amazingly hot. They can be really plain to look at, but if they start talking about physics or finance, I start getting a little wet. I'm a 10. What can I say? It's good to feel confident.

 

[XsNrg]

I suppose I'm old enough to no longer define "hot" as a physical attraction. I find intelligent men to be amazingly hot. They can be really plain to look at, but if they start talking about physics or finance, I start getting a little wet. I'm a 10. What can I say? It's good to feel confident.

Confidence is something that makes for extremely hot.

 

[Netzach]

If you're talking about the world I actually live in, I put 8. That is my corseted (ha) made-up good day best. My shit-tastic ones are a 5 or 6, my norm is probably more a seven or six.

If you're talking about the mainstream, where Brit was too fat to fuck the minute she had any discernable body fat, and every desireable has the same vacant internchangeable barbie head for the most part, I'm a 5. Dita Von Teese is too old - got the memo on that?

 

[FloggingMolly]

If you're talking about the world I actually live in, I put 8. That is my corseted (ha) made-up good day best. My shit-tastic ones are a 5 or 6, my norm is probably more a seven or six.

If you're talking about the mainstream, where Brit was too fat to fuck the minute she had any discernable body fat, and every desireable has the same vacant internchangeable barbie head for the most part, I'm a 5. Dita Von Teese is too old - got the memo on that?

It was more a 'if you saw yourself walking down the street, how attarctive would you say said woman is'.
By mainstream standards I'd be a 3, at most.

 

[DVS]

When I was something like 25, I was dating this girl. We were kind of kidding around one night and she asked me if I found her sexy. Of course I did, and I told her so. She asked...on a scale of 1 to 10, where would I rate her? Well, I didn't want to give her a big head, so I said, "a strong 9."

So, just for fun, I asked her what she thought of me. She said. "a strong 9." Now, I was serious when I told her she was a strong nine, but I think she was only being nice when she told me I was a strong nine. After all, how could she say anything else, after what I'd told her? "Oh, well, you're no strong nine, but, but...you have a very nice personality!"

Anyway, I'm torn as to what to put down for my looks. I probably looked OK to most women, when I was younger. Now, older and going bald, some women see me as over the hill and on the decline. Trust me, I know. So, I guess I'll put myself down as a strong 5. Shit, at least that's above average.










Psssst...I cheated. I put down a 6.

 

[DVS]

Boom boom biddi biddi wattum choo

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

Ok I voted 1, simply cuz theres no 0 lol

 

[intothewoods]

i think it's a tad strange to think of oneself as "hot." anywho, on a good day i see myself as a bit above plain, on a bad day i think i need to be ringing the church bells.

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Yeah, I've always thought this too. I was once hanging out with this friend of mine, and talking about why I was intimidated to go hang out with these new people for some reason or other. And she looked at me and said, something like, why would you be intimated, we're hot? I looked at her like she was a mental patient. I think my self esteem is fine, but I don't spend time looking in the mirror and thinking, wow, I am soooo hot. That's just...weird!

 

[satindesire]

I guess I'm the only one here who thinks it's weird for someone to think that they're ugly.

I personally love being comfortable in my own skin. I think it affords me a lot less headaches and crippling self-esteem issues that many women deal with on a DAILY basis. I don't have time to fret over whether or not I'm socially acceptable in the looks department, I have better things to do than agonize over what God gave me.

 

[ownedsubgal]

having a healthy self-esteem and being comfortable in one's own skin is a far cry from looking at yourself and really and truly believing, "dang i'm hot."

Daddy for instance is a very confident person, with very high self-esteem. if asked his thoughts on his own physical appearance, he would say something like, "I'm good," with a shrug. something definitely rings weird and creepy for me when someone views themselves as hot, pretty, oh-so-fine, or whatever. it not only comes across as conceited, but it rings as if the person is actually sexually attracted to self.

 

[satindesire]

having a healthy self-esteem and being comfortable in one's own skin is a far cry from looking at yourself and really and truly believing, "dang i'm hot."

Daddy for instance is a very confident person, with very high self-esteem. if asked his thoughts on his own physical appearance, he would say something like, "I'm good," with a shrug. something definitely rings weird and creepy for me when someone views themselves as hot, pretty, oh-so-fine, or whatever. it not only comes across as conceited, but it rings as if the person is actually sexually attracted to self.

Well, that's what's great about this world. All sorts of people can have all sorts of opinions about what they think other people think.

ETA: I personally don't think a person can be comfortable in their own skin and believe that they're ugly. I think that's an oxymoron. If you look in the mirror and hate what you see, how can you truly accept yourself? That makes absolutely no sense to me.

You might believe people like myself are "conceited" or of the mindframe like "Yeaaaah, I would TOTALLY do me!" but that, in my opinion, is a direct product of your own discomfort in yourself. You can't understand confidence and finding oneself attractive unless you ARE confident and you find yourself attractive.

 

[00Syd]

I think I'm pretty fucking hot, but not even close to 10 material. I put down a 7 because I've got really maginificent breasts, and AMAZING hair that's practically a fucking crown, and despite being a little overweight everything seems to be in the right places, and I think I hold myself well. But again, a little overweight. I think if I lost a few inches on my waist and thighs, I could head up to an 8 or a 9. Good thing I joined a gym last week

While yeah, it would be nice to lose some weight, my real goal for joining the gym is more about building endurance and strength, and having more energy. I need to become a better rope-bottom, and joining the gym is my first step in that direction. I want to build my endurance and strength so that I can stay in suspensions for longer periods of time, get better at switching through multiple positions while never fully coming out of the suspension, and be able to attempt more and more difficult positions. Seb is getting to be a better and better rope top, but I'm staying in the same place as a rope-bottom, and that's not right. I have to keep up!




...Whoa, That went off topic fast. Sorry!!

 

[satindesire]

I think I'm pretty fucking hot, but not even close to 10 material. I put down a 7 because I've got really maginificent breasts, and AMAZING hair that's practically a fucking crown, and despite being a little overweight everything seems to be in the right places, and I think I hold myself well. But again, a little overweight. I think if I lost a few inches on my waist and thighs, I could head up to an 8 or a 9. Good thing I joined a gym last week

I've seen your pictures, and I don't consider you overweight in the least. I like you at your current weight, it looks really good.

But I agree, you're a very beautiful young woman with gorgeous hair.

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

I voted myself a strong 7. I love my skin tone, my curves and my lips. I even like my nose.

 

[satindesire]

I voted myself a strong 7. I love my skin tone, my curves and my lips. I even like my nose.

Luna, you're the hottest thing on this site.

ETA: GOOD GOD your boobs are huge!!! O_O;

 

[00Syd]

I've seen your pictures, and I don't consider you overweight in the least. I like you at your current weight, it looks really good.

I don't have any photos on the internet that are any less than a year, year and a half old. And I've really gained a lot of weight in the last year, not sure what from, exactly. I only fit into about half of my clothes! It's getting bad.

But I agree, you're a very beautiful young woman with gorgeous hair.

Thanks, likewise! And now that I've learned how to rat my hair successfully, it's even MORE magnificent. Mwahahahahahaha. I'm like a hair-do evil genius.

 

[satindesire]

I don't have any photos on the internet that are any less than a year, year and a half old. And I've really gained a lot of weight in the last year, not sure what from, exactly. I only fit into about half of my clothes! It's getting bad.

Metabolisms do tend to slow down as we begin to age. Aren't you about my age, honey?

Thanks, likewise! And now that I've learned how to rat my hair successfully, it's even MORE magnificent. Mwahahahahahaha. I'm like a hair-do evil genius.

I can't rat my hair! It won't hold for crap, I have NO idea why. Maybe you can teach me. :/

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

Luna, you're the hottest thing on this site.

ETA: GOOD GOD your boobs are huge!!! O_O;

You are such a fibber but I love you anyway and will forgive you for it.

They aren't that big, only a 34 D. Was the angle.

 

[satindesire]

You are such a fibber but I love you anyway and will forgive you for it.

They aren't that big, only a 34 D. Was the angle.

Okay, MY boobs are that big and I think they're big. So they're big. Nya.

I'm not fibbing. I REALLY do think you're the hottest woman I've seen on this site.

 

[00Syd]

Metabolisms do tend to slow down as we begin to age. Aren't you about my age, honey?

I suppose so? I'm 21. Oh man, it's weird to think of people my age married and with kids! I mean, to each their own, and of course I'm very happy for you, but oh man, so weird to think about sometimes.

I can't rat my hair! It won't hold for crap, I have NO idea why. Maybe you can teach me. :/

I could tell you what I do, but I have super duper thick hair, and that really helps when trying to do anything sculptural. The first step is to buy a huge can of strong-hold hairspray (I prefer the Bed Head brand), and a teasing comb. The second step is to prepare yourself to damage your hair really, quite a bit.

Once you have those two steps down, come back to me, and I'll let you in on my ratting, hair styling secrets

 

[satindesire]

I suppose so? I'm 21. Oh man, it's weird to think of people my age married and with kids! I mean, to each their own, and of course I'm very happy for you, but oh man, so weird to think about sometimes.

Oh, don't worry about it sweetheart, I don't find it offensive in the least. It's the marriage part that's so weird to me. Seems like it's pretty common for high school girls as young as 15 or 16 having kids these days. It's NOT common, however, for a girl our age (I'm 25) to be married for years now.

I could tell you what I do, but I have super duper thick hair, and that really helps when trying to do anything sculptural. The first step is to buy a huge can of strong-hold hairspray (I prefer the Bed Head brand), and a teasing comb. The second step is to prepare yourself to damage your hair really, quite a bit.

Once you have those two steps down, come back to me, and I'll let you in on my ratting, hair styling secrets

Oh shit, ratting is damaging?! Well, crap. I can't do that, I grew my hair out by avoiding damage. I guess I'll have to go the Snookie route and get a Bumpit. XD!

I have a ratting comb that I use for parting and smoothing updo's. Tried using it for ratting and it didn't hold, probably because I have normal-hold hairspray rather than extra-strength.

 

[eastern sun]

I have no idea how to vote on this one.

I range from a goddarned perfect 10 to hovering just above a 2.

So I'm going to say, it depends.

 

[00Syd]

Oh shit, ratting is damaging?! Well, crap. I can't do that, I grew my hair out by avoiding damage. I guess I'll have to go the Snookie route and get a Bumpit. XD!

Oh man, don't even joke. Bumpits are amazing. The totally work, and they have given me better up-dos than I have ever been able to achieve on my own. I highly recommend them to everyone.

(But of course, bumpits work best when the hair you are laying on top of them is ratted up!)

I have a ratting comb that I use for parting and smoothing updo's. Tried using it for ratting and it didn't hold, probably because I have normal-hold hairspray rather than extra-strength.

Well, ratting your hair is, by definition, intentionally putting a million knots into your hair, until it becomes one mass of hair that you can work into a shape, laying smoother hair over top, thereby giving yourself gloriously huge hair. It's possible to do this without hairspray, but spraying your hair, and then ratting it while the spray is still wet, makes it much easier and faster to create a big rat.

Look at this video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GQ7F5xKVQYQ Starting at min 2:40. I tease my hair much the same way she does, but I suggest pulling out a much thinner bunch of hair, tease that, and then do the same again, working from the back of your head to the front, so as to layer the ratted hair on top of itself, thereby giving yourself even more volume and height.

The part that's damaging is when you try to comb out the rat. I do it in the shower, with lots and lots of conditioner and a large comb with wide-spaced teeth. With a lot of patience it's possible to comb it out without too much damage, but I always invariably end up pulling out small chunks of hair. It's a good way to get split ends. I find that I don't care much, because I style my hair almost every single day, and so any damage is completely hidden by being part of a rat, or being sprayed down, or whatever. For me, having awesome looking hair is way, way more important than not having split ends, but that's just me!

And as you can clearly see, I have put WAY TOO MUCH thought into my hair. Oh man. I need to calm down.

 

[satindesire]

Oh man, don't even joke. Bumpits are amazing. The totally work, and they have given me better up-dos than I have ever been able to achieve on my own. I highly recommend them to everyone.

(But of course, bumpits work best when the hair you are laying on top of them is ratted up!)

I haven't gotten one yet, but I fully intend to. My hair is almost too long to wear down now, especially in the summer, so I wear an updo pretty much daily. The extra volume on top would be awesome, I live too close to Texas to like flat hair.

Well, ratting your hair is, by definition, intentionally putting a million knots into your hair, until it becomes one mass of hair that you can work into a shape, laying smoother hair over top, thereby giving yourself gloriously huge hair. It's possible to do this without hairspray, but spraying your hair, and then ratting it while the spray is still wet, makes it much easier and faster to create a big rat.

That's probably what I was doing wrong, then. Thanks for clearing that up!

Look at this video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GQ7F5xKVQYQ Starting at min 2:40. I tease my hair much the same way she does, but I suggest pulling out a much thinner bunch of hair, tease that, and then do the same again, working from the back of your head to the front, so as to layer the ratted hair on top of itself, thereby giving yourself even more volume and height.

I LOVE youtube tutorials. I have about 200 saved on how to do hair, makeup, nails, everything!

The part that's damaging is when you try to comb out the rat. I do it in the shower, with lots and lots of conditioner and a large comb with wide-spaced teeth. With a lot of patience it's possible to comb it out without too much damage, but I always invariably end up pulling out small chunks of hair. It's a good way to get split ends. I find that I don't care much, because I style my hair almost every single day, and so any damage is completely hidden by being part of a rat, or being sprayed down, or whatever. For me, having awesome looking hair is way, way more important than not having split ends, but that's just me!

My hair is really thick, but for some reason it's always been a little bit fragile. I can't allow my hair to split because trimming it all the time would take off too much length. That makes me sadface, but I can get volume with the Bumpit I'm sure.

And as you can clearly see, I have put WAY TOO MUCH thought into my hair. Oh man. I need to calm down.

Don't you ever say that again. You're talking to the girl who only goes barefaced if she's DEATHLY sick. I put makeup on before I let Mister drive me to the hospital after my water broke, sweetie. There is NO SUCH THING as "too much thought" when it comes to pretty girl stuff.