How kinky are you willing to get, usually?

Put a mirror in the middle of the room with people around. Cum on the mirror and watch me lick
 
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Down to try new things? Depends on the lady - if she's wanting something specific I'd do my best to give it to her properly. Some things might be a no thanks like blood or shit. But I think I'd be down to at least try most stuff
 
The more intimate I feel with my partner the more adventurous I get. There are some things that I reserve for people I love.
 
Knowing how important my kinks/fantasies are to me, and the risks inherent in articulating them, I would do my very best to make someone else's come to life.
 
I used to think I was fairly vanilla, but the more I meet people in the community I realize I am fairly middle ground. Everytime I hear someone say "real people don't do that it is just in porn" I think....I have done most things in porn 🤣
 
I used to think I was fairly adventurous, but the more I meet people in the community I realize I am fairly vanilla! Just kiddin’ kinda. ;-)
 

Knowing how important my kinks/fantasies are to me, and the risks inherent in articulating them, I would do my very best to make someone else's come to life.

All of the above that Sissy Salina posted! :D Love those done to me!

Oh and Twister I'd love to hear what you would like doing to me to bring pleasure to both of us sometime. :D
 
I have very little BDSM experience. Most of what I see on this forum and in porn seems extreme to me.

Is there such a thing as BDSM light?
 
I have very little BDSM experience. Most of what I see on this forum and in porn seems extreme to me.

Is there such a thing as BDSM light?

Porn portrays BDSM about as accurately as it portrays BDSM sex - which is to say, not very.

There are plenty of people who enjoy a bit of spanking/hair-pulling/role-play/whatever and have no interest in turning it up to 11. But porn tends to seek out the more eyecatching, extreme aspects; material that only includes "light" spanking etc. probably won't be branded as BDSM.

And to be fair, it's not meant to be a documentary or a how-to; plenty of people enjoy the fantasy of activities that they might not care to act out in real life. For me, a lot of the pics that get posted here fall into the category of "fun to look at, no interest in doing IRL".

Unfortunately, some people treat BDSM as a contest where the goal is to get as hardcore as possible, and anybody who isn't constantly pushing boundaries is somehow "failing".
 
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Porn portrays BDSM about as accurately as it portrays BDSM sex - which is to say, not very.

There are plenty of people who enjoy a bit of spanking/hair-pulling/role-play/whatever and have no interest in turning it up to 11. But porn tends to seek out the more eyecatching, extreme aspects; material that only includes "light" spanking etc. probably won't be branded as BDSM.

And to be fair, it's not meant to be a documentary or a how-to; plenty of people enjoy the fantasy of activities that they might not care to act out in real life. For me, a lot of the pics that get posted here fall into the category of "fun to look at, no interest in doing IRL".

Unfortunately, some people treat BDSM as a contest where the goal is to get as hardcore as possible, and anybody who isn't constantly pushing boundaries is somehow "failing".


Porn tends to exaggerate and focus on the more eyecatching, extreme aspects. That's just as true for BDSM as it is for vanilla porn.


Unfortunately, some people have an unfortunate tendency for people to treat BDSM as

Thank you
 
My pain tolerance is such that I cannot endure the hardcore spankings, floggings, and so on as seen on the hardcore websites....but if my partner is into spanking, then of course I'm all in! So how "kinky" am I willing to get?

Part of that is up to my partner, and my own tolerance for pain, and my desire to not endure any kind of lasting harm or permanent damage. And obviously everything behind closed doors and nothing in public!

So in other words....to answer the original question, pretty kinky... at least compared to most "Vanilla" couples!
 
Knowing how important my kinks/fantasies are to me, and the risks inherent in articulating them, I would do my very best to make someone else's come to life.

Well said.
My late wife knew all of my fantasies, in detail. She did her best to make some of them come to fruition.
She always maintained enough control to push me even farther than I might otherwise go. She was cautious as well. She wanted to keep us both out of trouble.
She was keen to the "risks inherent in articulating them" and she knew I would do anything she wanted, anywhere, any time.
She was amazing and I have some incredible memories.
 
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Depends on the situation. The best things aren’t planned, you kinda get lost in it and next thing ya know…..
 
Waiting in line

I'm married to the most wonderful man so I'm more than happy if he is rewarded by my activities. He goes to a gym and the guys thinks he's single so sometimes he offers me as a slut for a fee. I love it when he does this especially if he participates and watches me. These guys are fit so they are a great fuck and consistent when they take turns to climax inside me from behind. So I think its soooo kinky when he's waiting in line:)
 
i only get kinky with one other person, or just when i’m by myself. this other person i have known for 3 or 4 years and everything we do together is discussed beforehand. they have introduced me to things i didn’t think i’d ever want to try and each time i visit with them, they push me a little further. so i guess what im saying is that there isn’t really a “usually” level for me because usually the next time is kinkier than the last time.

those are the kinds of bdsm stories i tend to look for on literotica too.
 
The moment and the person dictates my level of naughty, I enjoy having my mind stimulated and that can lead to other proclivities.
 
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