How LONG does it take you to come ?

CyberRain

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How long does it take you to come on an average ? With a partner or mastrubating..or both..maybe using toys ?

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Your Age :

Your sex :


Really how long ? :


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Do you ?
 
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I control my time of ejaculation....I ejaculate when I'm ready....either alone or with my FB....but I should admit that I'm 64 years old....I was not so much in control when I was 16 years old :) ....
 
With someone else, 10-15 minutes. Alone, about 2-3 minutes.
 
Great

Honest replies are always appreciated !!! Cmon guys ! who else ?
 
I'm AP. I'm 25 and like every other poor perverted soul here, I'm an orgasmaholic.

I have an overly exciteable clit.

You know when...at just the mention of a walk, your dog gets really excited and goes crazy...that's the same as my girly bits. By the time you get around to actually touching it, it's already worked itself up into a frenzy and a simple sideways glance will set me off.

Non-clitoral...a little bit longer than 5 seconds lol
PIV - about 5 mins and...ahem...other parts, about the same.

I :heart: my nerve endings.
 
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asian_princess said:
I'm AP. I'm 25 and like every other poor perverted soul here, I'm an orgasmaholic.

I have an overly exciteable clit.

You know when...at just the mention of a walk, your dog gets really excited and goes crazy...that's the same as my girly bits. By the time you get around to actually touching it, it's already worked itself up into a frenzy and a simple sideways glance will set me off.

Non-clitoral...a little bit longer than 5 seconds lol
PIV - about 5 mins and...ahem...other parts, about the same.

I :heart: my nerve endings.

That is amazing ! You are one orgazmic woman ! :rose:
 
Your Age : 18

Your sex : Female


Really how long ? : About 10-15 minutes by masturbating. I have yet for a guy to give me an orgasm.
 
center_stage said:
Your Age : 18

Your sex : Female


Really how long ? : About 10-15 minutes by masturbating. I have yet for a guy to give me an orgasm.


Hmm if I were with you, that sure would be a challenge..it really gets to me if I dont get close to making a girl orgasm..
 
Madcapsule said:
Hmm if I were with you, that sure would be a challenge..it really gets to me if I dont get close to making a girl orgasm..

Well, last boyfriend never even tried really, quite a selfish lover. This current one and I rarely see each other because of his schedule (he's a cop), but the last time we were together, he made an attempt which was nice.
 
center_stage said:
Well, last boyfriend never even tried really, quite a selfish lover. This current one and I rarely see each other because of his schedule (he's a cop), but the last time we were together, he made an attempt which was nice.

Just have to keep dropping hints, however you'd do that :p Doesn't it bother you that it hasnt happened yet? Or you fine with it?
 
Madcapsule said:
Just have to keep dropping hints, however you'd do that :p Doesn't it bother you that it hasnt happened yet? Or you fine with it?

It definitely bothers me because all my friends tell me that it's an amazing experience to have a guy give you an orgasm. I'm just waiting for the guy who will go down on me until I cum all over his face.
 
Hmm now you got me using my imagination, and my heart racing for that matter..its one of my favourite hobbies, going down on a girl I mean..next to stamp collection of course :p :devil:
 
Madcapsule said:
Hmm now you got me using my imagination, and my heart racing for that matter..its one of my favourite hobbies, going down on a girl I mean..next to stamp collection of course :p :devil:

It's funny, I always read on hear how guys love to go down on girls, and how all the guys here do it, yet I have not met one IRL. Seems like all the guys I meet find it to be an unpleasant experience.
 
A few minutes

33, Female.

On my own, 5 minutes at most unless my mind wanders away then I give up!!

With a guy, depends. If I'm in charge same as on my own, 5 mins. If he's in charge, god knows, sometimes never!! Depends how tuned in we are...
 
center_stage said:
It's funny, I always read on hear how guys love to go down on girls, and how all the guys here do it, yet I have not met one IRL. Seems like all the guys I meet find it to be an unpleasant experience.


I really cant see why!! Perhaps they dont wanna be too dominant..hmm I dont know I guess its who you hang around with. It's one of those things, I mean as a 20 year old guy Ive not had many women, but since I started out with girls I've found the ultimate buzz and ego boost is to give girls orgasms..fair enough it doesnt happen every time but still! xx
 
Madcapsule said:
I really cant see why!! Perhaps they dont wanna be too dominant..hmm I dont know I guess its who you hang around with. It's one of those things, I mean as a 20 year old guy Ive not had many women, but since I started out with girls I've found the ultimate buzz and ego boost is to give girls orgasms..fair enough it doesnt happen every time but still! xx

Just so long as you're doing it for the right reasons, i.e. to give them pleaure and not to try and improve a score!!

Too many guys thing an orgasm is everything and it's not!!!! It's nice, but I enjoy sex just as much without!
 
28/f

Alone - 2 to 3 minutes
With someone, it really varies - average would probably be 15-30 min, but I almost always do, I've never had a problem cumming. If the man I'm with has any clue about what he's doing, I'll cum a minimum of 3-4 times - more if we're in tune with each other.
 
Lol well Ive been with few women to make a score, but still...I just know the importance of sex being a two way thing..and some guys dont consider that..
 
You're right of course, some guys don't consider the girls pleasure, but then most do in my experience although sometimes they need a nudge!!! I've found asking for something works wonders!
 
CurlyWurly said:
You're right of course, some guys don't consider the girls pleasure, but then most do in my experience although sometimes they need a nudge!!! I've found asking for something works wonders!


Fair play :) Here's to Male Intuition!! :devil:
 
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CurlyWurly said:
Hey, you're mostly on the ball, we're not that complicated!!!

I feel you might have a different version of complicated than I..difference..gender ;)
 
f/35

Alone....anything from 2 minutes to half an hour....depends on how turned on I am.....

With a partner...depends on the partner and what exactly we're up to ;)
 
Madcapsule said:
I feel you might have a different version of complicated than I..difference..gender ;)

Maybe, although I've always considered myself a fairly easy to understand person!!
 
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