How long is your typical sex session?

[J64stephenson]

we call it " brisket banging". low and slow we are foodies can you tell!

So not a flash fry? More of a simmmmmmmmmer.

 

[LMWM321]

Good penetrative sex is subjective, but my wife says

Too short: Less than 3 minutes is inadequate.

Adequate: 3 to 7 minutes is sufficient.

Same.. Since menopause, my wife finds that penetrative sex goes from being enjoyable to uncomfortable after about 7 or 8 minutes. The problem is my girth. I'm 6 1/4" around which is ridiculously girthy and I'm usually hard as glass, thanks to 5mg of Cialis, taken daily for BPH. These sound like boasts, but they are not - they’re actually problems. The moment I get the sense that she's getting sore, I will pull out and will offer to continue the penetration using her skinnier dildo (4.5" around). She'll use a clitoral suction toy while I animate the dildo with very shallow and slow strokes. I love my role as the Dildomëister.

After she's done with her dildo and suction toy, she'll often encourage me to finish on her breasts or feet, both of which I'm totally fucking nuts for. All counted, we're usually done in about 30 mins.

 

[Shanes_OralOrations]

Same.. Since menopause, penetrative sex goes from being enjoyable to uncomfortable for my wife after about 7 or 8 minutes. The problem is my girth. I'm 6 1/4" around which is ridiculously girthy and I'm usually hard as glass, thanks to 5mg of Cialis, taken daily for BPH. These sound like boasts, but they are not… they’re actually problems. The moment I get the sense that she's getting sore, I will pull out will offer to continue the penetration using her skinnier dildo (4.5" around). She often uses a clitoral suction toy while I animate the dildo with very shallow and slow strokes. I love my role as the Dildomëister.

After she's done with her dildo and suction toy, she'll often encourage me to finish on her breasts or feet - I'm totally fucking nuts for my wife's feet and breasts (have I said that before?). All counted, we're usually done in about 30 mins.

Is it a dryness issue? I assume you've tried to lube things up.

 

[LMWM321]

Is it a dryness issue? I assume you've tried to lube things up.

Oh definitely a dryness issue. And we use tons of high quality lube. Have for years. Plus, my wife has been estradiol creme for several years. We still have great sex, but no longer have marathons.

 

[Shanes_OralOrations]

Oh definitely a dryness issue. And we use tons of high quality lube. Have for years. Plus, my wife has been estradiol creme for several years. We still have great sex, but no longer have marathons.

Well, that's too bad but sounds like you're finding way to adapt and still have a great time. Glad to hear it!