How long is your typical sex session?

[J64stephenson]

we call it " brisket banging". low and slow we are foodies can you tell!

So not a flash fry? More of a simmmmmmmmmer.

 

[LMWM321]

Good penetrative sex is subjective, but my wife says

Too short: Less than 3 minutes is inadequate.

Adequate: 3 to 7 minutes is sufficient.

Same.. Since menopause, my wife finds that penetrative sex goes from being enjoyable to uncomfortable after about 7 or 8 minutes. The problem is my girth. I'm 6 1/4" around which is ridiculously thick and I'm usually hard as glass, thanks to 5mg of Cialis, taken daily for BPH. These sound like boasts, but they are not - they’re actually problems.

The moment I get the sense that she's getting sore, I will pull out and will offer to continue the penetration using her skinnier dildo (4.5" around). She'll use a clitoral suction toy while I animate the dildo with very shallow and slow strokes. I love my role as the Dildomëister.

After she's done with her dildo and suction toy, she'll often encourage me to finish on her breasts or feet, both of which I'm totally fucking nuts for. All counted, we're usually done in about 30 mins.

 

[Shanes_OralOrations]

Same.. Since menopause, penetrative sex goes from being enjoyable to uncomfortable for my wife after about 7 or 8 minutes. The problem is my girth. I'm 6 1/4" around which is ridiculously girthy and I'm usually hard as glass, thanks to 5mg of Cialis, taken daily for BPH. These sound like boasts, but they are not… they’re actually problems. The moment I get the sense that she's getting sore, I will pull out will offer to continue the penetration using her skinnier dildo (4.5" around). She often uses a clitoral suction toy while I animate the dildo with very shallow and slow strokes. I love my role as the Dildomëister.

After she's done with her dildo and suction toy, she'll often encourage me to finish on her breasts or feet - I'm totally fucking nuts for my wife's feet and breasts (have I said that before?). All counted, we're usually done in about 30 mins.

Is it a dryness issue? I assume you've tried to lube things up.

 

[LMWM321]

Is it a dryness issue? I assume you've tried to lube things up.

Oh definitely a dryness issue. And we use tons of high quality lube. Have for years. Plus, my wife has been using estradiol creme for several years. We still have great sex, but no longer have marathons.

 

[Shanes_OralOrations]

Oh definitely a dryness issue. And we use tons of high quality lube. Have for years. Plus, my wife has been estradiol creme for several years. We still have great sex, but no longer have marathons.

Well, that's too bad but sounds like you're finding way to adapt and still have a great time. Glad to hear it!

 

[xXxplorher]

Typically, I make a point out of...

(oops)

 

[Leana_M]

If you check the time before, during, or after sex, it's clear that you're bored.

The ideal duration doesn't matter, whether it's 2 minutes or 4 hours and 56 minutes, as long as all partners are satisfied.

 

[Goldenh123456789]

It’s much longer if hubby isnt involved !

 

[xXxplorher]

If you check the time before, during, or after sex, it's clear that you're bored.

The ideal duration doesn't matter, whether it's 2 minutes or 4 hours and 56 minutes, as long as all partners are satisfied.

Wrong. The ideal amount of time is... precisely... 23min and 34sec.

 

[Zolitair]

Usually about half an hour.... depends.... if i go bareback I need around 15 minutes to make her cum twice before I blow my load... if I am using a condom I need at least 30 minutes up to 45..... made a woman cum 6 times in thatvperiod before I cum in her!!!
And yes usually I am not watching the clock, but it's right there next to the bed and checking it after I am done to see if I have time for a second go!!!

 

[xXxplorher]

If you check the time before, during, or after sex, it's clear that you're bored.

The ideal duration doesn't matter, whether it's 2 minutes or 4 hours and 56 minutes, as long as all partners are satisfied.

Whut?!

No.

If you're going to make an argument about it then... substantiate your goddamn point.

{He's checking the clock because the current activity might NOT be worth continuing.]

 

[Hmm72]

It’s much longer if hubby isnt involved !

Oh hell yeah…

 

[xXxplorher]

Oh hell yeah…

What, that's... you're fucking CELEBRATING it...??

I'm done, man.

I don't... I do not understand people

 

[Jennifer37]

For me about 5min. 10 every once in awhile. Husband just can't last but 2 or 3 minutes.

 

[CX726577]

Usually at least 45 min but many times 60+. The Mrs is a machine LOL

 

[EmmAgain]

When it’s just hubby and me? Forty minutes for the ‘full’ session (making out, oral, vaginal, anal), 20 minutes for the ‘express’ session (skip the anal, cut the making out and oral to bare minimum).

It all depends on what else is going on. I expect that having little ones on the scene will mess with these carefully crafted routines. At that point I guess it’ll mainly be, get what you can, when you can!

 

[Sgts19]

Should take into account how long you've been married?

In our case 48 years married sex 20-25 min usually. One and done now days
48 years ago 3 times a day every day, ahh the good old days with a double header thrown in every so often

 

[Submissivepat]

If I was in some type of bondage equipment maybe two to three hours but usually an hour. Yes, multiple partners.

 

[Lamia03]

at least 3 hours—this includes foreplay, oral (for both of us), sex in various positions, & breaks. In no particular order.

 

[JC1981]

I can go for about 45 mins to an hour. But, my fiance gets sore. So I try not to take that long.

 

[Samtran123]

Normally our session lasts for about 25/30 minutes. This in
Udes foreplay, oral and vaginal. On days on which we add anal, it lasts a little longer.

 

[Kissjoanie]

For me about 5min. 10 every once in awhile. Husband just can't last but 2 or 3 minutes.

I hope you take of your self . How often do you and your husband have your sessions?

 

[drobert44]

I hope you take of your self . How often do you and your husband have your sessions?

At least 30 minutes, want her to cum

 

[Greedy_lion]

1-3 hours. It’s my cardio.

 

[kccasey]

All my sexual life, I have not been able to reach orgasm consistently with women. Masturbation sessions could go for an hour or two before orgasm. Even with my wife, I could not reach orgasm very often. She has a hair trigger, could cum very fast, and then was done. No matter if I was still ready to go or not. Once she got her nut, the fucking was done.
Now, things are different. I have become the bottom slut for two male lovers, separately. Both of them fuck me long time. #1 takes viagra when I am on my way over. Then proceeds to fuck me and orgasm 3 times. This usually last a couple of hours. I have sucked him off for one of those orgasms several times. First time I sucked to orgasm was with him. I really like the sensation of him Cumming in my mouth, and I swallowed his nut. #2 is a black man with a 9" cock. He bragged to me before we met, that he wanted to fuck for 3 hours. Guess what, he did it too. His goal was to give me anal orgasms, several, he accomplished that too. Fucked me for 3 hours straight, with short breaks for water and catch our breath. Then he would say, "you ready"? and I would spread my legs and say oh yeah. Only been with him once but will be again if he will ask.