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How many people have you had sex with?

in the last 18 years 1.

in the 22 years before that more them I wish to admit.
 
Tiffany_Leggs said:
I'm 25 and I've had sex with six different guys. The first one was with a much older guy when I was younger...his wife had walked out on him and his kid and one thing lead to another, you know? The second was my neighbor after one wild party at his place, the third was the preacher at our church, who i am with right now. The other three were at the church excursions and he shared me with the rest of the deacons for a week or so.
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Lol.. what the hell? What kind of church is this?
 
I'm 39, and as far as I can work out, somewhere in the mid thirties; most were short or one night relationships way back in my youth.
 
SweetErika said:
I'm gonna have to go with a cult.

Or maybe a troll.

Either way, it's messed up.
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Really? Having sex with 4 guys on a church trip isn't something I'd bat an eye at. Just because they're church leaders doesn't mean they don't have sex unless they're Catholic. :D Of course, maybe I'm biased because I've fucked as many as 15 guys in a week before. I would hope there were condoms involved, though.
 
SweetErika said:
I'm gonna have to go with a cult.

Or maybe a troll.

Either way, it's messed up.
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You aren't lying! That's just appalling.


infinity706 said:
Really? Having sex with 4 guys on a church trip isn't something I'd bat an eye at. Just because they're church leaders doesn't mean they don't have sex unless they're Catholic. :D Of course, maybe I'm biased because I've fucked as many as 15 guys in a week before. I would hope there were condoms involved, though.
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I'm guessing that they were all married as well. The point being, this kind of behavior is in direct violation of what is expected of clerical leaders:

8 In the same way, deacons[a] are to be worthy of respect, sincere, not indulging in much wine, and not pursuing dishonest gain. 9 They must keep hold of the deep truths of the faith with a clear conscience. 10 They must first be tested; and then if there is nothing against them, let them serve as deacons.

11 In the same way, the women are to be worthy of respect, not malicious talkers but temperate and trustworthy in everything.

12 A deacon must be faithful to his wife and must manage his children and his household well. 13 Those who have served well gain an excellent standing and great assurance in their faith in Christ Jesus.
Footnotes:

1 Timothy 3:8 The word deacons refers here to Christians designated to serve with the overseers/elders of the church in a variety of ways; similarly in verse 12; and in Romans 16:1 and Phil. 1:1.
1 Timothy 3:11 Possibly deacons’ wives or women who are deacons
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inimitable said:
Lol.. what the hell? What kind of church is this?
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Given the failings of nationally known ministers and tele-evangelists, a human church.

I've seen some pretty hypocritical tight groups of churchmen (and women), and it doesn't surprise me at all that Tiffany is in the middle of one where sex is not a sin.
 
bailadora said:
Did you miss verse 12? Are you being deliberately obtuse?
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Yeah, I read it. People tend to use faithful and monogamous interchangably. I also don't see anything indicating wrongdoing. Sex on a church trip doesn't mean there was cheating. It could just as easily be a convenient way they're keeping it from the rest of the church rather than going to the other person's house where it would probably lead to lots of gossip. Even at some of the more liberal churches, there'd still be stuffy people that would either leave the church or pressure the clergy to resign over having kinky sex. I'm sure most people that go to sex clubs don't disclose that information to everyone in their lives, either.
 
I used to hear about church-camp sexual shenanigans from high-school friends and acquaintances who attended these camps every summer. Although I take pretty much every post in this thread with a grain of salt (on teh Interwebz, we can all have thousands of sex partners), I also wouldn't be surprised if this "church" group actually existed. :)
 
infinity706 said:
People tend to use faithful and monogamous interchangably. I also don't see anything indicating wrongdoing. Sex on a church trip doesn't mean there was cheating. It could just as easily be a convenient way they're keeping it from the rest of the church rather than going to the other person's house where it would probably lead to lots of gossip. Even at some of the more liberal churches, there'd still be stuffy people that would either leave the church or pressure the clergy to resign over having kinky sex. I'm sure most people that go to sex clubs don't disclose that information to everyone in their lives, either.
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As I understand it, the church couples faithfulness with monogamy. By biblical definition, marriage = one man, one woman and sexual fidelity to each other.

Although we might cringe at the thought, most of us would probably admit that one's marriage sheds a good deal of light on one's character. Paul apparently held similar feelings. But the meaning of the condition that the overseer be the husband of but one wife (literally, a "one-woman man") continues to provoke discussion, and some of the interpretations bear a closer look.

1. The qualification prohibits polygamists from holding this office. However, this is not likely to have been Paul's intention. Monogamy was by far the norm of that day. Polygamy was generally regarded as abhorrent and did not need to be mentioned in such a list. (Source: Bible Gateway)
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The train of thought goes that what one does in one's personal life has bearing on the life of the church. If a leader (who is responsible with guiding, shepherding and teaching Christian beliefs, values and morals) doesn't believe in the tenents he/she is charged to uphold, then he or she has no business holding that office.

I'll freely admit, I haven't reconciled my modern views of marriage/relationships with biblical definition. Then again, I don't hold a position of leadership, nor would I accept such given the conflict of my beliefs. If I can't walk the talk (most of the time), I'm not going to add to the charge of hypocrisy that is quite often (and unfortunately, well deserved) leveled at many self-proclaimed Christians.
 
infinity706 said:
Yeah, I read it. People tend to use faithful and monogamous interchangably. I also don't see anything indicating wrongdoing. Sex on a church trip doesn't mean there was cheating. It could just as easily be a convenient way they're keeping it from the rest of the church rather than going to the other person's house where it would probably lead to lots of gossip. Even at some of the more liberal churches, there'd still be stuffy people that would either leave the church or pressure the clergy to resign over having kinky sex. I'm sure most people that go to sex clubs don't disclose that information to everyone in their lives, either.
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Nobody is saying sex is wrong. Nobody is saying sex on a church trip, or with church people, is wrong. Nobody is saying sex with other church people automatically means cheating.

What we ARE saying is it's highly unlikely that the pastor, deacons, choir director, etc., are single and would say passing around a woman is a good practice that's consistent with their religious beliefs and supposed morals. I said it sounds like a cult because the only times I've heard of people being shared sexually in religious settings have been in cults. That doesn't mean it doesn't happen in churches that aren't cults, but the way Tiffany phrased her posts make it sound awfully cult-like to me.

And, yes, I know plenty of poly and sex-positive folks, and I am familiar with the churches they typically attend. Some of them have met new romantic and sexual partners at their churches, which is great. I'm sure some of them have had sex with their fellow congregants during church trips, which is also great. But what they're doing is all above-board and consistent with their beliefs as well as the beliefs of their churches.

Of course Tiffany could easily resolve all of this confusion and curiosity with one post that answers what kind of church she attends, whether the men she's fucking are cheating on other partners or not, and what policy said church has on [church leaders/elders in particular] sharing women sexually. I find it interesting that she hasn't expounded on her posts, personally.
 
SweetErika said:
Of course Tiffany could easily resolve all of this confusion and curiosity with one post that answers what kind of church she attends, whether the men she's fucking are cheating on other partners or not, and what policy said church has on [church leaders/elders in particular] sharing women sexually. I find it interesting that she hasn't expounded on her posts, personally.
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Eh, even pervs like me might take a day off from Lit. At least give the girl a couple of days before you start calling shenanigans on her lack of posting activity. :D
 
Do Blow Jobs Count??

Are we counting blowjobs....giving, and/or getting?? It will make a difference in my pitiful numbers....:D
 
22 years old, and I've been with two guys. One of them I wish I could deny, and the other was my first love .
 
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