How many people have you had sex with?

I have had more partners than I would like to admit. very permiscuous as a teenage girl in the 70's. As a grown woman maybe 15 in 30 years. I will not tell the total as I think I have everyone beat. Not proud of this.
 
Haven't ever thought about it enough to keep count. However the women are in much greater number than the men
 
Just one, and we've been together since just after I turned 18. I'm 32 now, and itching to get some more experience under my belt (no pun intended ;) ) if he's okay with it. Just gotta figure out how to ask.
 
37m and my number is 12. I am now in the midst of a time of celibacy of my own choice as mentioned earlier in the thread.

4 long term relationships

2 one niters that I was sober enough to remember. I used to drink. ALOT. And there was at least 6 times that I woke up not remembering who she was and how I got to where we ended up.

Learned the hard way that asking "Did we uhhh...." is NOT the smartest question to ask a women you just woke up beside.
 
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60+

Stopped counting in the early nineties. Three long term relationships, including one open and shared, and two extended periods of promiscuity. So, ball-park it around 60+. Mostly enjoyable, except the two who tried to kill me. And one of them was really enjoyable.
 
6, thats all, but I am happy with it.

Some terrible ones...but some awesome ones too!
 
10 total, And I am 40.

I was a little promiscuious as a teen (6), was with the same man for 13 years, and 3 since getting divorced 9 years ago
 
37m and my number is 12. I am now in the midst of a time of celibacy of my own choice as mentioned earlier in the thread.

4 long term relationships

2 one niters that I was sober enough to remember. I used to drink. ALOT. And there was at least 6 times that I woke up not remembering who she was and how I got to where we ended up.

Learned the hard way that asking "Did we uhhh...." is NOT the smartest question to ask a women you just woke up beside.

Never ever NEVER ask that...lol. Guys don't like hearing that question either by the way
 
I have absolutely no idea and I certainly can't remember all of them...........but I seem to remember the ones I missed.:(
 
Still counting I hope...

So I am 41, married for 22 years and my number when I met sissyhubby here was 156 when I was 19. My best friend and I had helped each other make a list about a week before I met him, so I am sure of the number. I didn't remember all their names, but I remembered every location and situation and can still tell you who was an A fuck and who didn't make the grade.

Since getting married, my personal number has increased by 62 if all blowjobs and naked activity leading to orgasm is counted. These 62 are all noted in a single book I keep, so I remember all their names and emails. and dates of encounter.

If we include all the shared sex I have had with Sisssyhubby that has not included a penis for me to sit on....well, that adds another 40 people to the list who were Sissy's playmates in front f me. Felt like sex to me, so we can count that if ya want to.

And - oddly enough- I have never felt "promiscuous" as so many here have said they were "in their teens"...with a number like "4 guys". What??? I just cannot identify with that point of view, happily enough. :)

BTW- the first 156 were all male and the subsequent count is about 75% male, 25% female with 4 LTR mixed in the bunch.

Sissy wants to know: does the cream-pie on Thursday cancel out the blowjob on Tuesday? If so, his numbers are in the negative.
 
4-one was my long-term boyfriend who also lost his virginity to me, one was a really great friend and the best lover, one was a mistake and one was a non-issue
 
4 guys I have actually had sex with, 3 others I gave blowjobs to, and one female for a grand total of 8 and I am 33.
 
My number is eight (include "we only ever did oral/naked fingering & groping" and that goes up to eleven) - and three of them only did it because I paid them. All of them (except one of those three who may not count) in the six years since I graduated college.

So, my number has always been lower than I wanted and came later in life than I wanted.
 
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