How many women have used a strap on on a man?

Starp-on

One night my girlfriend climbed on top of me as I was laying on my stomach and started to grind her pussy into my asscrack. I got a big hardon and was entirely aroused. We discussed it later and she said you just want to get fucked up the ass. I agreed. Then one afternoon we went to teh sex store in Coolidge Corner in Boston and bought a strap on. The drive home was filled with tension and it seemed like with an instant of us wlaking in the door she was lubing up my ass and her "silver space dick" as she called it (silver latex) and taking me. She rode me doggy style until she came hard, and then flipped me over to stroke me as she fucked my ass and made me come from my face to my belly button. It was one of teh most powerful experiences of my life, and I am glad that we had the initmacy to pull it off.
 
God damn, this is such a fantasy of mine! It has never happened though, don't know why... I've discussed it with a few partners, but never got round to it. Another fave is taking on a couple, being fucked up the ass by the guy while fucking or being blown by the chick. Makes me shiver just to think about it!

Crab
 
This is definitely a major fantasy of mine. I think it would be incredibly sexy to have a beautiful girl strap on a big cock and fuck me. Just the thought gets me turned on! If there's anyone in South Carolina interested let me know!
 
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sherzor said:
One night my girlfriend climbed on top of me as I was laying on my stomach and started to grind her pussy into my asscrack. I got a big hardon and was entirely aroused. We discussed it later and she said you just want to get fucked up the ass. I agreed. Then one afternoon we went to teh sex store in Coolidge Corner in Boston and bought a strap on. The drive home was filled with tension and it seemed like with an instant of us wlaking in the door she was lubing up my ass and her "silver space dick" as she called it (silver latex) and taking me. She rode me doggy style until she came hard, and then flipped me over to stroke me as she fucked my ass and made me come from my face to my belly button. It was one of teh most powerful experiences of my life, and I am glad that we had the initmacy to pull it off.


Nice to see my old thread come back to life! This is exactly how I got started! You can read about it in my story "Strap on and Me". From then on I was hooked. It is still my favorite thing to do, although now I like to have a hot cock in my mouth at the same time or take a real cock in my ass.

Thanks for posting!


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Crab said:
God damn, this is such a fantasy of mine! It has never happened though, don't know why... I've discussed it with a few partners, but never got round to it. Another fave is taking on a couple, being fucked up the ass by the guy while fucking or being blown by the chick. Makes me shiver just to think about it!

Crab

Time to make those fantasies a reality! What you need to do is buy a strap on so you have it ready when the opportunity presents itself.

BTW, I agree about a 3 some with a couple. There are a lot of women that get turned on by seeing two guys together! I am always happy to oblige. Love being in a 69 with her while he fucks me in the ass!


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mrglenn2001 said:
This is definitely a major fantasy of mine. I think it would be incredibly sexy to have a beautiful girl strap on a big cock and fuck me. Just the thought gets me turned on! If there's anyone in South Carolina interested let me know!


Hope you get to try it, mrglenn. Believe me it is even better than the fantasy. If you don't find anyone here to fulfill it for you, you might try adultfriendfinder.com. I have seen a couple of women on there looking to use their strap on.


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Thanx! I am very eager to try it so thanks for passing along that website! I'll let you know how my search goes!
 
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mrglenn2001 said:
Thanx! I am very eager to try it so thanks for passing along that website! I'll let you know how my search goes!


We want all the details!!!:D



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I enjoyed it when she did

I enjoyed it when one of my girlfriends fucked me in the ass.She did it several times over 2 years. Then I got cought fucking a man wife in the ass and he was alot biger than me in height but his cock was skinny and only 7 inches so It felt good instead of hurting me. so I was glad to have had previous experience with my girlfriend.My current woman puts vibratting eggs in each of our anal canals and we cum harder. Thanks Nicky9
 
Thanks for posting Nicky9. No question that a strap on will get you ready for the real thing. I think in some ways it makes you more open to the possibilities. Anal sex is the one thing that both men and women can experience.


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An ex-girlfriend of mine used one on me once. I really didn't want to but she said I needed to learn to trust her. She was pretty pissed that I didn't want to do it and I really cared about her so I let her. God it ripped me open so bad, I never had anything in there before. Needless to say, we broke up. Not really from that experience, but shortly after. But that's something I don't think I'd try again.
 
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AngelOfDarkness said:
An ex-girlfriend of mine used one on me once. I really didn't want to but she said I needed to learn to trust her. She was pretty pissed that I didn't want to do it and I really cared about her so I let her. God it ripped me open so bad, I never had anything in there before. Needless to say, we broke up. Not really from that experience, but shortly after. But that's something I don't think I'd try again.


Just wondering whether or not she used any lube? :confused: If not, no wonder! The other thing is to take it slow the first time. Start with ONE well lubricated finger while she takes your cock or balls in her mouth. The main thing is to relax and from the sounds of it, you were NOT relaxed. Sorry it was not a good experience for you.


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strap ons et al

I have had great experiences with men, women and 2 people together over the years. A great strapon can easily be made from a large carrot and some material to tie it with.We have used deerskin, suede straps. Also guys, try doing yourself. It is wild. Feel the pleasure of fucking and being fucked at the same tim. I am happy to e-mail with anyone interested with suggestions on how to do both. It becomes easy with just a little practice. From my conversations over the years I have found most people are missing out on both forms of anal but learn, very quickly to love them.

I can be e-mailed at arteros@literotica.net
 
Strap-Ons / Anal Play.

To everyone who's been turned off by a bad experience...These are mine.

The first time I was penetrated like that, she didn't ask...She was giving me a blowjob, and started rimming me. I was very uneasy at first but I figured that if she voluntarily went there, than she must have really wanted to, so who was I to stop her? :) Besides, it felt too damn good, once I started relaxing, so I gave in and enjoyed it. When I started relaxing enough she slid a finger in me, then another, and I started cumming almost immediately. One of the most intense orgasms I've EVER had.

I was REALLY glad I had that experience, too. When my next girlfriend told me she'd always been curious about anal, but too nervous to try it, and felt too odd with other people to mention it before, I told her of my previous experience, and that as long as she was relaxed and I was gentle, she'd probably be fine, but if she felt the least bit uncomfortable, she needed to tell me, I also told her that if it'd make her feel better, I'd let her return the favor. that was the clincher.

We were both rewarded with LOTS of enjoyable anal sex. Though we never got a strap on we'd been planning on it.

My advice to anyone wanting to try it, when you have a willing partner, don't pass it up. relax. Lay back and enjoy.start with a lot of foreplay there to get used to the sensations, use LOTS of lube. You can even practice on yourself first if it'll make you more relaxed, when you're still just, uhh, curious. And guys, make sure you're not with someone who'll think you're a freak for suggesting it. People can be such prudes!

Another helpful tip that I learned this reading The Playboy Advisor when I was 14, and remembered all these years, a woman wrote in saying that her husband had been bugging her to try anal sex for years, and that for his birthday, she was thinking about letting him. They recommended that she use lots of lube (of course) and to tell him to place more emphasis on pulling back rather than pushing in due to the direction the sphincter muscle is designed to work.

Upon initial penetration, tell her you'll guide her in a little bit at a time until you're comfortable. Could take a few moments, but then she can begin slowly...

These are all tips I've used everytime I've had something up my ass, and I've yet to have a bad experience with it...Sorry for the book, but you can't stress the comfort level factor enough if you want to undo the myth that anal sex is always uncomfortable.

That's my .02 Hope to quit talking about it and actually start doing it again soon!
 
my ex wouldn't try?

I am a very open minded man....my ex didn't see my side..she couldn't see me being the wimp...want to try...I've always wanted a woman to work my tight hole slowly and stretch it with a small strapon at first.....take it slow..but willing...sorry i will
 
My girlfriend didn't use lube when she did it to me. She refused to. She was such an evil bitch when it came to sex. Of course I TRIED to relax, and I TRIED to be open-minded but it was just so... I dunno, maybe it's just not for me.
 
AngelOfDarkness said:
My girlfriend didn't use lube when she did it to me. She refused to. She was such an evil bitch when it came to sex. Of course I TRIED to relax, and I TRIED to be open-minded but it was just so... I dunno, maybe it's just not for me.


Maybe you just need the right partner...they need to provide both comfort and pleasure to start then you both can take it from there....Hate to see a bad experience ruin it for you..
 
My wife loves fuck me with strap-on. From the very beginning we have used a lot of lube. At first a finger sized toy felt like a lot. Gradually I learned how to relax and it has become more and more pleasurable. It's not that I have stretched. It was learning to relax and to control my muscles. I am now able to take pretty large toys. Her favorite is about 2" in diameter and about 8" long.
We usually begin by her putting it on and having me suck her pussy and cock. Usually she will tell me to get myself ready and will select a smaller toy for me to lube and "warm-up" with. Sometimes she hand fucks me with it and sometimes she tells me to do myself while she "makes" me suck her. When she gets ready she will fuck me. She seems to like all positions although her favorites are with me on my knees or back.
Just writing this has me incredibly horny. I am going to the bedroom to lay her strap-on on her pillow.
 
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arteros said:
I have had great experiences with men, women and 2 people together over the years. A great strapon can easily be made from a large carrot and some material to tie it with.We have used deerskin, suede straps. Also guys, try doing yourself. It is wild. Feel the pleasure of fucking and being fucked at the same tim. I am happy to e-mail with anyone interested with suggestions on how to do both. It becomes easy with just a little practice. From my conversations over the years I have found most people are missing out on both forms of anal but learn, very quickly to love them.

I can be e-mailed at arteros@literotica.net

Thanks for the contribution arteros. I agree completely, one of the best feelings is fucking and being fucked at the same time. One of my stories "Literotica Author Benefits" is about just such a situation.

As with anything, practice is important. Take it easy the first time and use lots of lube.

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Thank you!

Thanks to Chromefreak for all the suggestions. I think this kind of sex play is becoming more commonplace. It truly is the one thing that men and women can experience equally.

Fireman and Submale - hope you get to try it. Believe me it is fantastic!

Angel of Darkness, I agree with Angel of Flames - you just need the right person with the right attitude. No matter how much you try to relax and be open minded, the first time with no lube is going to turn anyone off.

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hbcacouple said:
My wife loves fuck me with strap-on. From the very beginning we have used a lot of lube. At first a finger sized toy felt like a lot. Gradually I learned how to relax and it has become more and more pleasurable. It's not that I have stretched. It was learning to relax and to control my muscles. I am now able to take pretty large toys. Her favorite is about 2" in diameter and about 8" long.
We usually begin by her putting it on and having me suck her pussy and cock. Usually she will tell me to get myself ready and will select a smaller toy for me to lube and "warm-up" with. Sometimes she hand fucks me with it and sometimes she tells me to do myself while she "makes" me suck her. When she gets ready she will fuck me. She seems to like all positions although her favorites are with me on my knees or back.
Just writing this has me incredibly horny. I am going to the bedroom to lay her strap-on on her pillow.

hbcacouple, you are my kind of couple! Hope the power of suggestion works for you tonight! I too have learned to relax and take larger ones each time. My favorite position is on my back so I can look into her eyes as she slides it into me!!! Would love to get together and try it with you two sometime. I am in Laguna Beach.

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I just saw another thread about "Toys in Southern California". Hmmmm, I wonder if this is more prevalent here than elsewhere?


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I have had it done to me a few times and i love it, i like to have my lady lie on her back while i slid down on her strap-on my cock where she can see it and then when its all good i lean backon my hands rise up and ride her good. that was one time but i would love to try it some more with the right lady .....a lady that it would keep her wet to see me rideing her bought cock and when i cant stand it any longer i would lick her wetness till she just had to have us both in her mmmmmm damn ...... ladies talk to me in oklahoma.:p
 
does_it_all said:
I have had it done to me a few times and i love it, i like to have my lady lie on her back while i slid down on her strap-on my cock where she can see it and then when its all good i lean backon my hands rise up and ride her good. that was one time but i would love to try it some more with the right lady .....a lady that it would keep her wet to see me rideing her bought cock and when i cant stand it any longer i would lick her wetness till she just had to have us both in her mmmmmm damn ...... ladies talk to me in oklahoma.:p


Thanks for your post does_it_all. Only someone who has felt that strap on slide into their ass and seen the look on the woman's face really knows. When you talk about having "both of us in her" I assume you mean the strap on and your cock. That is what is so great about a strap on. It gives you so many more possibilities. I have done just what you described. After riding her strap on for a good long time, climbing off and licking her wet pussy and then sliding my cock in her ass (or pussy) while fucking her other hole with the dildo. Heaven for everyone!


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