How should I finish a handjob?

[Biglover1234]

No doubt about it with the head in your mouth and keep jerking his cock and swallow

 

[Nellie60]

I prefer to see it explode after good hand action

 

[Experimentalist]

Hands jobs are just the preliminary. You want to please your man, use that beautiful mouth of yours, and blow his mind. Finish him off by deep throating him and letting him cum in your mouth. Ecstasy for him, pleasure for you. Hand jobs just aren't enough IMP

Excellent perspective.

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

omggggg hot

It really is. Sharing is caring

 

[SusanHoward]

If I’m in control, I like to keep my eyes locked onto his (if he hasn’t closed his own) until I’ve swallowed every drop.

 

[Gazzspeed]

If I’m in control, I like to keep my eyes locked onto his (if he hasn’t closed his own) until I’ve swallowed every drop.

The perfect way to finish!

 

[Chefbgrif]

no right or wrong way to finish...

Well correction, the right way is too actually finish it, wrong way is to stop and leave him hanging...lol, no pun intended. But you can stroke him with a reverse grip ( thumb towards his body) and as you pull up give a twist a little and slide back down and repeat. Or just do a basic hold and stroke (thumb up towards ceiling) and move up and down. I like to add teasing, licking lips while you stare at his penis. Or make like your going to suck it but then not. Like open your mouth and go towards it but then don't suck it. Using your other hands to gentle massage his testicles will be a nice addition to your stroking, but some guys are super sensitive and might not like their family jewels from being tugged on. Anal play is another area best "asked" before you decide to put a finger in his derier. Again some love it others refuse it. As for the finish, you can let him unload on your face, chest or in your mouth. I prefer never to waste it, so for me, I either lick my hands clean or his stomach. But a straight shot into your mouth will save on clean up, especially if your in a car. But just some suggestions, basically different strokes for different folks. Lol talk it over and see what's preferred, gets rid of the guess work. Hope I helped a little. Good luck.

It sounds like you’ve given this a lot of thought and practice. As they say, “practice makes perfect.” My thought is, if you’re making me cum, you’re technique, whatever one you use, is perfect.
Want to PM you but it wasn’t an option. If you opt, I’ love to chat.

 

[Nellie60]

no right or wrong way to finish...

Well correction, the right way is too actually finish it, wrong way is to stop and leave him hanging...lol, no pun intended. But you can stroke him with a reverse grip ( thumb towards his body) and as you pull up give a twist a little and slide back down and repeat. Or just do a basic hold and stroke (thumb up towards ceiling) and move up and down. I like to add teasing, licking lips while you stare at his penis. Or make like your going to suck it but then not. Like open your mouth and go towards it but then don't suck it. Using your other hands to gentle massage his testicles will be a nice addition to your stroking, but some guys are super sensitive and might not like their family jewels from being tugged on. Anal play is another area best "asked" before you decide to put a finger in his derier. Again some love it others refuse it. As for the finish, you can let him unload on your face, chest or in your mouth. I prefer never to waste it, so for me, I either lick my hands clean or his stomach. But a straight shot into your mouth will save on clean up, especially if your in a car. But just some suggestions, basically different strokes for different folks. Lol talk it over and see what's preferred, gets rid of the guess work. Hope I helped a little. Good luck.

I like this description of what Erica likes to do, technique wise and afterwards.

I love seeing a woman add spit in the beginning and run up to the finale, I thinks its erotic and sexy with lots of edging and verbal teasing.

 

[NoObjection]

Definitely with your tongue, your mouth and a big smile. : )

 

[Live4themoments]

I am one of those whose head gets really sensitive. When I cum she would either continue jerking me but stop short of her hand hitting the head (so just the shaft). The other thing is keeping her hand on the base of my shaft and just squeezing her fingers in the same rhythm of the contractions. Either way it would have my cum shooting out then dripping down her fingers and palm. After it stopped she would gently coat my softening cock, then take it in her mouth to clean it off. Totally hot!

 

[Nellie60]

Reminds me of the cum running all over her hand and down his shaft after an explosive hand action in the time I watched an ex masturbate another man. Totally hot!!

 

[VerbalAbuse]

the question was asked in 2013. I figure they had their hj by now.

 

[Nellie60]

Ha ha!! Meanwhile thousands of hjs from various ladies later still asking!

 

[Trubbycat]

Preferably not with a look of total disgust

 

[VerbalAbuse]

yes, please, I need one so badly

 

[Mrs_and_mr]

I dated a girl who would sometimes give me a handjob and suck on the head a little. She could feel when I was going to cum and she would grip my cock in such a way that when I came it didn’t just shoot out it was more like a very heavy gush and it would rum down my cock and she would lick my cock like a popsicle licking the cum off that’s running down then collect it on her tongue and kiss me. It was messy but awesome.

 

[newhere2learn]

Personally, I like it when she feels my cock getting thicker knowing I'm cumin soon, then using one hand to squeeze it by the base then use the other hand to wank it really fast until I explode then not stop until I can't take it

Same. Current GF has taken to finishing me by hand and seeing just how much I can spray. Kissing me hard as Im close, then going fast, tight grip... Seems to work

 

[Nellie60]

I dated a girl who would sometimes give me a handjob and suck on the head a little. She could feel when I was going to cum and she would grip my cock in such a way that when I came it didn’t just shoot out it was more like a very heavy gush and it would rum down my cock and she would lick my cock like a popsicle licking the cum off that’s running down then collect it on her tongue and kiss me. It was messy but awesome.

My 2nd girlfriend unfortunately didn't do that "lick his cock like a popsicle" that would have been hot seeing her lick up the thick cum running down his shaft and right hand.

But she's done it to me a few times

 

[Nellie60]

Same. Current GF has taken to finishing me by hand and seeing just how much I can spray. Kissing me hard as Im close, then going fast, tight grip... Seems to work

Mmm...just how I like it! And sometimes she will just looked into my eyes and go fast!

 

[newhere2learn]

Mmm...just how I like it! And sometimes she will just looked into my eyes and go fast!

Hot isn't it? Current GF has taken to doing it that way, and she actively gets a kick out of it

 

[Nellie60]

Hot isn't it? Current GF has taken to doing it that way, and she actively gets a kick out of it

It wasn't just looking into her beautiful eyes!

Just seeing her facial expressions, the heavy breathing and her soft moaning and occasional dirty whispers and yeah nothing more exciting than seeing a woman get really turned on and "getting a kick out of it"

Its very hot!!

 

[Raybies93]

I have been lurking on these forums for a while, but this is my first time posting here. Anyways I am curious, how do most guys like to be finished off when getting a handjob? And do most guys want you to stop right when they start to ejaculate, or keep going until it stops shooting out?

In my last relationship, I only did handjobs. Right after he would start to ejaculate, he would make me stop moving my hand completely, and just hold his penis near the bottom while he was cumming. I know that in porn though, most guys seem to keep masturbating their penis until they finish ejaculating. I tried a few times to keep stroking my ex like that while he was cumming but he would always grab my hand to keep it still, and said guys really don't need or want to be stimulated while they're ejaculating.

So, I thought I would ask here to see what most guys prefer (or what your partners prefer, for my fellow women), so that next time I do give a guy a handjob I'll be a bit better prepared lol. Appreciate the advice!

sometimes my cock is so hypersensitive when I cum I just stop stroking

 

[UtilityCurve]

Hands jobs are just the preliminary.

Hand jobs just aren't enough IMP

Utter nonsense. While there's much to love about a girl last-second taking a cock in her mouth at the moment of ejaculation, there's also an equal joy in showing her your pleasure in her hand(s).

Your cum is for her, after all. Your pleasure in releasing it is just icing on the cake.

 

[Rascal1357]

Hands jobs are just the preliminary. You want to please your man, use that beautiful mouth of yours, and blow his mind. Finish him off by deep throating him and letting him cum in your mouth. Ecstasy for him, pleasure for you. Hand jobs just aren't enough IMP

Keep stroking until he finishes cumming and then gently stroke until you see the last drop.

 

[newhere2learn]

It wasn't just looking into her beautiful eyes!

Just seeing her facial expressions, the heavy breathing and her soft moaning and occasional dirty whispers and yeah nothing more exciting than seeing a woman get really turned on and "getting a kick out of it"

Its very hot!!

Hard agree. The way she starts working herself up to another orgasm, just by getting me off, hot as fuck