How to make him cum less quickly?

[pisces_girl]

finally reporting back on this! switching it up helped. he ate me out as i gave him oral. the 69ing was very enjoyable. we both pleased each other so well. from there we moved into doggy, then me sitting on him with my back to him. finally, i rode him. but not too fast at first! i made sure to be conscious towards how he was responding... i alternated rhythms until we both pretty much came around the same time. we were both panting by the end.

 

[nfrrdscnnr1]

tell him

Tell him he is ONE VERY lucky, fortunate guy!!!!!

 

[blulilacgrl]

There are some ways to halt an ejaculation. I admit that I am wary of giving these techniques because, well I would hate to see anyone get hurt by not being careful. So I will say this...

I caution you to be careful when using these techniques. I don't use them very often. Halting the ejaculation can in some cases, and especially if done too often and roughly, cause issues.

That being said, here are the techniques and please I always encourage further research before trying out.


PC (pubococcygeous) Muscle Contraction

This is simply squeezing your pelvic floor muscles, around the scrotum, penis and anus as you feel ejaculation approaching. An easy way to practice this is to interrupt your urine stream when you are going to the bathroom.

Perineum Pressure

Pressing on the perineum, a spot midway between the scrotum and the anus, will help to stop ejaculation because this spot reaches through to the prostate gland. It is the prostate that contracts and expands during orgasm and then expels the ejaculation fluid. Ask your partner to apply this loving pressure for you.

Testes Tug

When a man nears orgasm his scrotum rises up closer to his body. You can delay ejaculation by gently pulling your testes down and away from your body. Your partner can also do this for you.

Penis Tip Squeeze

Squeezing your penis just below the head or glans can help to stop oncoming ejaculation. It necessitates withdrawing completely from your partner during intercourse, but is an excellent way to begin practice on your own with masturbation. ** this does take a little bit to master as it requires proper placement of fingers**

These are also great tips to keep in mind while giving oral to a guy. The key is to remember to be careful and gentle. It may take a few times to master the proper touch and technique but they can be fun if used judiciously. (I know slightly off topic, but that's why I learned most of these moves. [laughs])

Good luck

 

[photobuff56]

Try a thick condom that may help him.

 

[fit2betied]

Have to agree with a lot of what has been shared here. Personally You male lover needs to service you better and get you closer to the edge before you climb on top and ride him. I didnt seen it but are you having him wear any protection? Sometimes the extra layer of latex can keep him from being over stimulated and have him last longer.
My last suggestion for your pleasure. would be look into getting a "Sybian" rider. It will take you over the edge and to limits you have never experianced!!! Please send photos!!!!! Good luck

 

[fgarvb1]

Well.

Back in the day when I knew I was going to be fucking a real hoty. I made sure to toke up some... say split one between the two of us and consume enough alcohol fast enough to get a little numb.

Now some 69-ing never hurt or even a Blow Job in foreplay.

Either way it was on!

Had a girlfriend once who loved to ride above all else.

Those were the days.

 

[Tmmldr]

This has happened a few times while with a guy- while on top I get into a rhythm of rocking back and forth or grinding into him really hard and a little fast. And it feels good in all the right spots to the point that I clench the shit out of him to feel all the ridges and hardness of his dick, but he cums way too quickly. I don't know if it's a premature ejaculation problem... I'm pretty sure it's not. But I really enjoy being on top and fucking that way. I'm wondering, if I slowed down or got off of him mid-fuck would that delay his ejaculation? Or what would happen? Is the best solution to try a different position or change what I'm doing? The goal is to prolong the sex so that I can cum.

Obviously your problem is that you are just way too hot.



Seriously, I agree with the comments about getting him off before doing the cowgirl. Also you might try viagra. When I've done it it makes me hard for a long,long time. Doesn't matter if I cum.