how to squirt

rugbygirl357

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When im with a guy i cum and orgasm, but never squirt. They say every girl can she just has to want it and hit the right spot. Help i want to so bad ive been masturbating since i was like 2 and still haven't. And yes i have had great sex and great oral given to me,. Why can't i squirt?
 
rugbygirl357 said:
When im with a guy i cum and orgasm, but never squirt. They say every girl can she just has to want it and hit the right spot. Help i want to so bad ive been masturbating since i was like 2 and still haven't. And yes i have had great sex and great oral given to me,. Why can't i squirt?
There's absolutely nothing wrong with you. It's not a matter of wanting it and hitting the right spot - for most women, squirting/gushing/female ejaculation comes from certain types of stimulation and being in a specidic physical state (e.g completely relaxed). Most women who ejaculate discover it with lots of time and experience.

Read this to get the facts before you go any further, then the thread Yang posted might be helpful.

And don't listen to people who imply there's something wrong with women who don't ejaculate - they're usually men who watch too much porn and are dumb enough to believe most of the women on the screen aren't faking it.
 
and BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR

You might just get it. Some women squirt and some don't. Some do sometimes and not others. The biggest complaint or asking for help I'm getting from PM's these days IS : ""OK I squirted which was GREAT but now I'm gushing EVERY time we have sex. We can't do it in the car or the living room floor or the inlaws rec room because I GUSH such a mess. HELP !!! HOW DO I STOP???""

The women who do this naturally well that's who they are and anybody bedding them have to accept that. Trying to gush during sex may be fun on occasion but every time?? If you are going to spray a cupful or more all over the place you can NEVER have impromtu sex anywhere you get the urge ever again. You should be concentrating on the orgasms NOT the mess this one aspect of sex can sometimes produce. IMHO.
 
Mr.G said:
You might just get it. Some women squirt and some don't. Some do sometimes and not others. The biggest complaint or asking for help I'm getting from PM's these days IS : ""OK I squirted which was GREAT but now I'm gushing EVERY time we have sex. We can't do it in the car or the living room floor or the inlaws rec room because I GUSH such a mess. HELP !!! HOW DO I STOP???""

The women who do this naturally well that's who they are and anybody bedding them have to accept that. Trying to gush during sex may be fun on occasion but every time?? If you are going to spray a cupful or more all over the place you can NEVER have impromtu sex anywhere you get the urge ever again. You should be concentrating on the orgasms NOT the mess this one aspect of sex can sometimes produce. IMHO.

One person I was with squirted so much we had to flip the mattress over before going to sleep, even with using the several towels underneath her that we did.
 
short_circutz said:
One person I was with squirted so much we had to flip the mattress over before going to sleep, even with using the several towels underneath her that we did.
I can't imagine several towels not soaking up less than 15 ounces of fluid (the max. researchers have found women to ejaculate) if they're folded and removed from the bed in a reasonable amount of time. With so much "ejaculate" or the distance squirting we see in porn, the fluid is likely at least partly plain old urine (though true ejaculate may be diluted, or a special type of, urine anyway). There's nothing wrong with it being partially or all urine either, as long as everyone's enjoying themselves, of course.

And waterproof mattress covers do exist - they're plastic or rubber-like, inexpensive, and they sell them for people w/ allergies, bladder-control issues and such. We've always used one to keep allergens and sweat out of our mattress. I'd imagine that'd be a lot more hygienic than flipping a wet mattress over and risking mold.
 
rugbygirl357 said:
When im with a guy i cum and orgasm, but never squirt. They say every girl can she just has to want it and hit the right spot. Help i want to so bad ive been masturbating since i was like 2 and still haven't. And yes i have had great sex and great oral given to me,. Why can't i squirt?
good... someone already pointed you in the direction of mr. g's thread . I know for a fact that his technique can work quite well. I also know for a fact that a lot more than 15 ounces of fluid can be produced, at least if you keep going over and over. what that fluid is, I dunno... I didn't have my chemistry set with me. it didn't look, smell or taste like urine, tho.
 
SweetErika said:
And don't listen to people who imply there's something wrong with women who don't ejaculate - they're usually men who watch too much porn and are dumb enough to believe most of the women on the screen aren't faking it.
Blasphemer! :mad:
 
I know how you feel. I'd love to be able to squirt too, instead of the sort of sad little dribble that I get.
 
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