How to tie up DW

[Bluth]

I need someone to point me to a prior thread, or elsewhere that would show with pictures different ways of tying a woman up.

DW seems to enjoy this (and likes a bit of gentle choking too), but we have only done it with some success. We have two long ropes (nice soft ones), as well as rope handcuffs.

We are both a bit overweight, which makes things a little trickier. My problem is lack of creativity...

we have tried various incarnations of hog tying. This is fun for me in that she enjoys letting me fuck her face. We have had some trouble with finding the right tightness to where she isnt entirely uncomfortable. We also got an erotic bondage video, but it was almost too educational (i.e. killed the mood rather than enhanced it), and they repeated the mantra of needing scissors for safety etc too often.

What i really want is a few different positions where the method of tying her up leaves good access to being able to fuck her hard, which the hog tying obviously does not accomplish. also looking for scenarios that are not overly complicated... i just want to tie her up and fuck her... not create a piece of art

sorry to be so noobish... im sure DW will appreciate your suggestions.

 

[Zoots_owner]

Is anything wrong with tying to the bed, for example? Including one or more objects in bondage can make for a lot more flexibility, and can be more comfortable, especially when maintained for a fairly long time.

 

[Bluth]

for many, thats probably a great idea. But our bed frame is king size, and is more like a wooden futon frame... no bedposts, nothing that sticks up ...

 

[Zoots_owner]

With those sorts of beds, I string ropes underneath the matress. Lifting the matress up to do it is kind of a bother, but once they're in place you can leave them there indefinitely.

 

[SweetErika]

for many, thats probably a great idea. But our bed frame is king size, and is more like a wooden futon frame... no bedposts, nothing that sticks up ...

If your bed frame has legs or a mattress, you're good. You can tie lengths of rope to the legs of the bed, then pull them up to secure her extremities. You can also thread a length of rope or two under the mattress - her body weight should hold the rope there.

I enjoy these rope tutorials. You might also want to see what's available on YouTube and elsewhere.

 

[Bluth]

lol.... not trying to give you a hard time.... that sounds great (re: leaving them tied to the bed) except we got kids, so I dont want to have to explain to them why there are ropes tied up to our bed

nevertheless, I will give it a try tonight

searching around, it seems this type of configuration would give "easy access "

http://www.japanese-rope-bondage.com/japanese-rope-bondage.jpg

 

[Zoots_owner]

we got kids, so I dont want to have to explain to them why there are ropes tied up to our bed

You may be able to tuck them under the matress discreetly... that worked for me, whenever I remembered to actually DO it.

 

[SweetErika]

Sorry, double post.

 

[rthnck]

I would stroll through the ropes and cuffs picture thread to find some ideas

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=375300

 

[infinity706]

Well you could just have her bend forward and tie her left wrist to her left ankle and her right wrist to her right ankle. That's the position a spreader bar puts you in if you're interested in just tying her up and fucking her hard.

 

[coastal-boy]

http://www.twistedmonk.com/

a decent site for learning

 

[coastal-boy]

you don't want long pieces of rope...common mistake...you want several pieces in the 8-12 foot range. Watch the video tutorials.