How to touch a girl...

[coppertop429]

Okay, so here's the deal. I have a male friend (not me, I swear, I'm female ) who has been dating his girlfriend for almost three years, and they're only just starting to get a little bit physical (she's kind of conservative and shy about that sort of thing). Basically, though, he's now allowed to touch her, um, "chest area" (through clothes). The other day he was asking me what feels the best, and for some reason I couldn't describe it....I tried getting my boyfriend to describe what he does but he was useless as well. Anything he does would have to start out subtley, I think, or she might not let him...but any advice for my friend? Thanks!

 

[coppertop429]

Okay, I know this isn't the most sexual question or anything, but I felt bad about not being able to give my friend real advice. Any advice would be welcome

 

[English Lady]

SLowly,gently and cautiously.


As long as he's subtle and really gentle I can't see there being much of a problem. ALso communication would be the key. Get him to ask her girlfriend what she feels comfy with.


hope that helps

 

[coppertop429]

SLowly,gently and cautiously.


As long as he's subtle and really gentle I can't see there being much of a problem. ALso communication would be the key. Get him to ask her girlfriend what she feels comfy with.


hope that helps

That does, thanks! The only problem with asking her is, well, she's kind of shy about that kind of stuff. I told him to talk to her about it and he said he didn't think she'd feel comfortable with it....(which Iknow isn't the greatest communication-wise, but she's learning...)...

He was asking me specific questions, like how to move his hand and where specificially, stuff like that. Any more specific feedback?

Thanks again for replying!!

 

[fgarvb1]

First thing he is going to have to do is to get her to RELAX!

While he is at it find out why she is so uptight and find out why she doesn't trust him to stop when she wants him to.

 

[handlebars69]

also tell him to make sure his hands are warm fist, i live up here in mass and i hate it when my bf touches my tits with cold hands

 

[Limbhugger]

Well, I think being a friend and all, you should just let him practice on you. Just strip down and let him have a go at your breast. And of course the entire time you need to verbally reinforce or correct his actions. And have you boyfriend there watching helplessly from a chair...Whoops sorry, my imagination took over.

Must...Write...New...Storrrrryyyyy.....

 

[NaiveOne]

Well, I think being a friend and all, you should just let him practice on you. Just strip down and let him have a go at your breast. And of course the entire time you need to verbally reinforce or correct his actions. And have you boyfriend there watching helplessly from a chair...Whoops sorry, my imagination took over.

Mmmmmm! I kinda like that idea.....

<looks down at hard nipples>

Okay, okay. I really like that idea.

 

[herecomestherain]

coppertop429 the following thread on How to Touch a Woman's Breasts could be helpful;

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=219322

It sounds like you friend has known this girl for some time, if they trust each other he may well be able to talk with her about things that aren't strictly "comfortable". A little ,tiny,baby push outside of your "comfort" zone by someone who cares about you is often just what's needed. Most folks can live through momentary discomfort or slight embarrasment, then move on to wonderful discovery. Good luck.

" The curious gain freedom and power and have more fun" Descartes

 

[coppertop429]

Thanks to everyone replying, it's great advice. Does anyone have other specific ideas (or descriptions, i guess) of what to do over clothing?

 

[NaiveOne]

Does anyone have other specific ideas (or descriptions, i guess) of what to do over clothing?

I can actually help ya here! When my guy and I were still in the makeout alot stage, before groping, he would touch and caress everywhere but my breasts! He would run his finger on my arms, over my shoulders, across my neck and chest above my breasts. Rub his hands all over my stomach, back and upper legs. All while kissing me very passionately. Finally, I was so turned on that I just placed his hand on my breast! Needless to say, he took the, uh, subtle hint.

Good luck! Let us know how it goes.

 

[Limbhugger]

I still like my idea better.

 

[freddyandeddy]

I got this tip from the cheesiest website on earth (I swear I'm not making this up and this is NOT a plug for them ) called "Advanced Macking" dot com. Located in their sample chapters, they called this technique "The Boob Touch," which involves you and a woman (preferably your lady, in this case) in a large gathering, whereby you speak in a low tone of voice, causing her to lean in to hear you. You then, holding your drink, rub your elbow and forearm against her breast and nipple area as you lean forward talking, which subliminally turns them on and stimulates her breast(s) and nipple(s).

The kicker? I've actually experimented with this and I'll be darned if my wife of 15 years doesn't get hard nipples and actually does respond sexually. The added bonus is that talking softly like this gets you close to her ear, which is also an erogenous zone.

 

[handlebars69]

can i ask why you go to such a website when you have a wife of 15 years?

 

[freddyandeddy]

Glad you asked. My wife and I run a (relatively) popular couples website and the person from Advanced Macking inquired about advertising on our site. After looking at his site, we actually recommended he spend his money elsewhere, as our audience probably wouldn't be a good demographic. After laughing my ass off, I decided to try the Boob Technique just for fun.

There ya have it.

 

[handlebars69]

ok

 

[Succulent-one]

Okay, so here's the deal. I have a male friend (not me, I swear, I'm female ) who has been dating his girlfriend for almost three years, and they're only just starting to get a little bit physical (she's kind of conservative and shy about that sort of thing). Basically, though, he's now allowed to touch her, um, "chest area" (through clothes). The other day he was asking me what feels the best, and for some reason I couldn't describe it....I tried getting my boyfriend to describe what he does but he was useless as well. Anything he does would have to start out subtley, I think, or she might not let him...but any advice for my friend? Thanks!

Just how old are you and your friend??? You don't sound 18 to me???

 

[coppertop429]

Re: Re: How to touch a girl...

Just how old are you and your friend??? You don't sound 18 to me???

Lol . Yeah, I could see how you'd think that. I am eighteen, though only just (I turned 18 this last September).

On a different note, thanks for all your guys's advice! It's really helped .

 

[Tendeuchen]

three years??? and they haven't done anything...and he can only now touch her breasts? omg...