How to turn my girlfriend into a slut
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Paul_Chance
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How to Raise The Freak Flag
Over the years I have come to the conclusion that most people has a freak hidden down inside. (LOL - and I mean that in a good way.) I've read the various posts and thought there seems to be one thing you haven't done. I agree that you can't get someone to fly a freak flag (i.e. sex with another partner for your enjoyment) if it isn't somewhere down inside of them. Like most folks, I have my own kinks and quirks when it comes to sex - and I've found the best approach is this - simply sit down with them, explain your fantasy to them, explain why it turns you on, and see where it goes from there. Do this in an intimate and secure setting and be open to their response. You'll never get the answer if you don't get the question out there. The higher a question flies the freak flag, the longer it may take to get it out there and get an answer. So, you float the question, and then you float it again and again. If you get a definitive "NO YOU FREAK" - LOL - then you have to decide which is more important - your freak flag or your partner. Give it a try.
Over the years I have come to the conclusion that most people has a freak hidden down inside. (LOL - and I mean that in a good way.) I've read the various posts and thought there seems to be one thing you haven't done. I agree that you can't get someone to fly a freak flag (i.e. sex with another partner for your enjoyment) if it isn't somewhere down inside of them. Like most folks, I have my own kinks and quirks when it comes to sex - and I've found the best approach is this - simply sit down with them, explain your fantasy to them, explain why it turns you on, and see where it goes from there. Do this in an intimate and secure setting and be open to their response. You'll never get the answer if you don't get the question out there. The higher a question flies the freak flag, the longer it may take to get it out there and get an answer. So, you float the question, and then you float it again and again. If you get a definitive "NO YOU FREAK" - LOL - then you have to decide which is more important - your freak flag or your partner. Give it a try.
roomfor1more
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You ask if there is a way you can make your girlfriend more slutty and the reality is there is not a way. By letting her know your desire is about as far you can take it and the rest is up to her. This means the decision to be more slutty is her is hers to make and how far she will take it. Should she decide to take it farther then you will need to be prepared to deal with the consequences, including the possibility of loosing the relationship. Having had similar situations the reality of the decision does not hit you until after it happens and the more you can think about if this is something you want the better off you will be.
Gods_Favorite
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Thanks for the advice Paul Chance and roomfor1-more I appreciate it.
