I am straight but sucked my first (and only) cock(s) 2 weeks ago.

[SailorC272002]

BTW. I am 25 divorced male.

And I am not gay so stop trying to convince yourselves otherwise.

I am 100% all american lady killer.

You should have had your buddies do you. Because if they are as narrow as a few other people on this board, their could be some nasty issues in your future.

And I am willing to bet that they will just brush off the fact that their dicks were getting sucked. Somehow, somepeople would not consider that gay, bi or whatever label. To me if a guy is sucking your dick you are in the same label category. No judgement on my part whether any of the labels are negative.

 

[dkrazy1]

i think unregestered dude said it all.....
Dont be so worried about what other people lable you as.. it's about finding yourself. which in some cases can be an extreemly hard thing to do (trust me I know) but at the same time i have to agree with suck dick, your bi, or atleast curious... inibreation brings out the "real you", weather your a hopless romantic, or a shy bashfull guy who can't start conversations with girl unless youve had a few beers in you.
with men averaging in size from 5.5 - 6inches, i find it hard to believe that BOTH of your friends where pushing 7-8 for the one, and the other "much bigger" WOW... one lucky circle of friends, maybe you should offer again while your al sobber and see what they say. maybe the guy that was wackin it while watching has a curiosity he has never confesed to.

 

[John Roberts]

Dealing with the issue of bi-sexuality can be a complex issue.
the inner turmoil it sometimes provokes can be damaging to the individuals self image. As a male Bi-sexual I find I still
sometimes find myself filled with self doubt. One thing I am certain of,
I love women, and if I had to make a choice to give one or the other up I would give up men. For me it does not feel right to be totally with men...I have experimented to put to rest my duality. Guess what!....it is still there just not as confusing and I do not loathe myself anymore.
JR

 

[His Whimsicality]

So i'm a Bigot?
All that shows is how ignorant you are. People like you always demand tolerence, but where's your tolerance of my opinion?

AHAHA... ahem. You do know what happens if you put a "-" before a "-", yes? It becomes a "+"!

In case you still don´t get it: You can also be tolerant by being intolerant to the intolerant (= the bigots like you) because that will keep intolerance in check, but you can´t be tolerant by being tolerant to the intolerant, because the result will be more intolerance.

 

[OpposingBalance]

Um, okay.
What the fuck is all this shit about "labels" anyways?
Its not a fucking label, its a definition.

ho-mo-sex-u-al-i-ty n
1: the manifestation of sexual desire toward a member of one's own sex
2: erotic activity with a member of one's own sex

bi-sex-u-al adj
1 b : sexually oriented towards both sexes<a ~person who participates in both heterosexual and homosexual relationships>

Like I said before, its not a "label" its a fucking definition.
Its not a "good" thing, nor is it a "bad" thing. Its just a "thing."
Get over yourselves.

If you're a guy, and you enjoyed sucking cock but still like or prefer women, then you're bi. If you don't like women, only men, you're homosexual. If you only like women, then you're straight.

 

[His Whimsicality]

If you're a guy, and you enjoyed sucking cock but still like or prefer women, then you're bi. If you don't like women, only men, you're homosexual. If you only like women, then you're straight.

And that would make the original poster straight, and not bi or gay as some black-and-white thinking people here would automatically believe (and that´s why my and a few other posters´ verbal attacks on them were justified imo):

"I have only been with girls in the past and will contiue to only be with girls in the future. It was fun and worth doing one time just to see what it was like."

To me that sounds like a straight guy who was just curious what it would be like, so a little bit of differentiation would perhaps do the "oh-you-are-so-different-from-us-heteros people" some good.

 

[joegen2]

Why Labels

The spectrum of sexuality goes from 100% homosexual to 100% heterosexual. There are many variations in between, if you hit 0% in the midlle you are labelled bisexual. There are very few 100% hetro or 100% homo and most of us will at some time in our past have thought about sex with the opposition or same sex dependant on your sexuality.

As the one and only Miss Lilly Savage says "in my opinion the diference beten a straight man and a gay man is about 12 pints of Lager!"

Anyhow thats my opinion, oh and I`m Bisexual and thougt he story was cool

 

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[James G 5]

bahhhhh to labels and definitions. Why dont we all just say that people are sexual beings and get rid of the extra baggage BS. I LOVE sex in all forms. THe one line I draw is degredation. That's not needed.

It's NOT?
I know LOTS of people who LOVE it
My current BDSM playmate loves NOTHING more than to be told what a slut & whore she is during play
< Shrug >
To each their own

 

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[sheath]

AHAHA... ahem. You do know what happens if you put a "-" before a "-", yes? It becomes a "+"!

In case you still don´t get it: You can also be tolerant by being intolerant to the intolerant (= the bigots like you) because that will keep intolerance in check, but you can´t be tolerant by being tolerant to the intolerant, because the result will be more intolerance.

It took me a while to figure this post out, lol.

But...VERY good point, Whimsicality.

S.

 

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[James G 5]

degredation as in nonconsensual, demoralizing or debasing. BDSM is a class all in it's own with different levels of consent. I was talking more of rape, abuse and molesting.

Ok, we agree

 

[SlickTony]

Cant you try sexual things without being labeled?

Probably not. It's interesting how this is so much more true when it comes to sex than anywhere else. It's like saying that selling your old sofa in the Greensheet makes you, once and for all, a used furniture dealer.

 

[Zmey]

I'm kind of curious ... but I'm to chiken to do anything about it... I know one thing though, if I ever bring my self to sleep with a man, he has to be 100% gay

There are also men and women who are gay, but are in heterosexual marriages. They would be happiest and more completely fulfilled in a same sex relationship, but they did what everyone expected of them before they realized they were gay. I have known men who were married and then left the marriage and lived a gay lifestyle. They almost always admitted that they were really gay all along. Having straight sex did not make them straight. It's not that easy to discover oneself when the culture paints only one picture of how you should love and live--man, woman, house , child, etc.

excellent point there mr.Unregistered

 

[emmessemm]

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[James G 5]

Amazing, the minds so simple that they cannot distinguish experiencing bisexual activity from being bisexual. That's like saying you're Italian because you ate lasagna.

Originally posted by SlickTony
Probably not. It's interesting how this is so much more true when it comes to sex than anywhere else. It's like saying that selling your old sofa in the Greensheet makes you, once and for all, a used furniture dealer.

Bravo to both of you for very excelent summations of people's attitudes towards sexual labelling!

 

[Zurich]

no

when you're shit faced and watching hetero porn it's one thing jackin' your own with another dude present , but to SUCK wang is gay IMO.

 

[littlepriest01]

I Don't have a problem with gay people. I have lived with them in dorm rooms before. They're just as cool as any other person. But I am sorry to say that your experience makes you bi. Yes, you do love women. But if it turns you on to suck cock..you are gay. If you are sexually attracted to men, which you are if you turns you on to suck cock, then you are bisexual. And I agree with whoever it was that was talking about all of these people that hate "labels" but then turn around and call other people biggots. If I don't have a problem with gay people, which I have already expressed that I have not, than I am not a biggot. So from a non-biggot person, you are bisexual. There is nothing wrong with that, but you just need to learn to accept it yourself. How do you expect all of us to except it if you can't?

 

[littlepriest01]

And while he has only done this once, (twice if you count both cocks), it may not make him a bisexual. But the fact that he was turned on by it, and wanted the other guy to cum, makes him bisexual. It wasn't just that he wanted his friend to be happy. It was that he wanted his friend to cum by his doing. He is bisexual.

 

[drew62]

Does the fact that I get aroused and get off by reading stories and fantasizing about sucking cock make me bisexual or just bi-cursious?

 

[Wizard]

You try anchovies. You suck cock, you're gay.

Not that there's anything wrong with that.

Yep..........Gay.........

 

[SlickTony]

Does the fact that I get aroused and get off by reading stories and fantasizing about sucking cock make me bisexual or just bi-cursious?

Hell, I like reading stories like that, they do arouse me, and I don't even have one. It simply means that you have a good imagination.

 

[sheath]

All these labels are making me dizzy...

Why can't we just say, "He's a man who loves sex, in any and all forms..." and leave it at that?



Putting people in nice little boxes with cute little labels like "bi" and "gay" is a very good way to make an insecure world neat and orderly. And it is a complete farce, in my opinion. People like what they like...they are what they are...and adding labels is simply a way to make sense of things that don't necessarily have to make sense at all.

By the way, I'm considering fucking a woman because my man wants to see me do it. I think that simply means I'm intent to please. What do you think?

Go ahead. Label the fuck out of me. It won't change one damn thing about ME. But maybe it will make YOU feel better.

S.

..............damn...that was a rant.................

 

[Marklar]

Baiting

I think there is something to be said for the poster who started off with the important distinction of sexual ORIENTATION vs. sexual BEHAVIOR.

How on earth would one know whether the experience was good/worthwhile/worth repeating or not if you didn't try.

I know, but resist the oversimplification your dying to type about not having to jump off a bridge or kill somebody to know....

I am far from an expert, but I beleive modern psychological thought (and certainly there is more than one camp) attributes varying degrees of hetero- and homosexuality to everyone.

Some people beleive that those that are quickest to "label" any sign or consideration of "deviation" are those that are most fearful to face it??? Does introspection frieghten some so that they just shut off inteligent discourse by saying it it ______blank_____?

Everybody, at some point, must think about it. There are differences between thinking about it (or even trying it) and deciding it's nt for you, vs. doing it and liking it and wanting more.

Most important, He is what he thinks he is.

And if I read it over, beyond saying he is straigt, he didn't ask for anyone to let them know based on two paragraph description whether they thought otherwise...

I applaud people who have the courage to explore...

And once again, think of orientation vs. behavior...