ultramarineblue
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This may sound simplistic, but the only way to get strong is the challenge your limits. And the concept is the same whether you are talking strength of body, strength of mind, or strength of will. You have to struggle against a heavy load, or you will not get stronger.
Strength of body is the easiest. Lift heavy shit. The other two are more complex.
And always remember that "heavy" is relative to you. I can squat 135# all day long and it'll impress no one. But if MIS does that at 105# bodyweight, it's a bit more impressive.
I think I feel pretty weak in all of those ways lately. As far as doing the body part, I just want to make sure I do it safely. The difficult thing right now is that I don't have money for a gym membership and I don't really have any weights. I also wouldn't really know what to do with the weights if I had them.
Don't compare yourself to others. Try to accept yourself even if you are attempting to change or "better" yourself. On days when you don't live up to your own expectations, forgive yourself and realize that every day is a new chance.
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I've been able to do that before but lately I'm having trouble getting back to doing that again. It would be easier if I could manage to live up to my expectations of myself most days. Then the days that I don't would be easier to take.
