I need men...

[sophia jane]

Reading your question again, it occurs to me that maybe you're looking for specific actions a woman might perform that would tell a man he's got a hot one on his hands, rather than just general qualities like responsiveness or enthusiasm.

I was looking for both. So thanks for answering again (and what an answer!). Thanks to all the other guys who answered, too. You've helped alot with my character(s).
And given me some tips for RL, too.

SJ

 

[English Lady]

Ok...I'll try and compose myself long enough to type a message here, Dr M, Earl, QC and Joe W -wow, you've just turned EL to a quivering mass of horniness. Thank You.

I have only ever been with one guy in real life but I've had a little cyber experience with'em and men really do just like response. It amazes me how little I have to type to get a bloke off, in fact mostly it's one letter over and over again that does the trick*L*

Joe makes a good point, men like their ego's stroked along with their cock (or so I've found) so being very focused to the point of worship will get you extra points every time.

I also find men like noise, words and grunts and squeals and long drawn out moans, I guess that boils down to the point on being responsive.

Ok..now I'm just going togo read over someof them posts again

 

[Huckleman2000]

Agree with Dr. M. But also...

I like the woman to take the lead sometimes - I had a GF in high school that just seemed to love giving me blowjobs in the most inopportune moments.

Grinding on me. Nothing like a woman arching her back and working her hips to get the friction working for her. Bucking on me and arching her back so her nipples are in my face.

The vaginal contractions when she comes. If you all tell me that's faking it, I'll be so disappointed, 'cuz that sends me right over the edge. When I feel that, there's no way I'm holding back any longer. (So if it really is faking it, and you just want to get it over fast, just do that...)

Titty fucking in a jacuzzi. I'll sit on the edge, above the spot where you can get one of the jets working for you, and we're golden.

Two women and a vat of lube. Heaven.

 

[neonlyte]

for character research, that is.

What turns you on during sex?
A woman who knows what she wants. After the courting, the flirting, the foreplay - verbal and touching, I want her to let go of the reins and use me for her pleasure.

What do you like women to do?
I like to watch them undress, not playing the stripper, simply undressing, a slight air of self conciousness - she's doing it for me and she knows where it's going to end.
I like a woman who's not afraid to masturbate, her hand or preferably, my face.

What makes sex more exciting?
Delaying the inevitable. Spontaneous uncontrollable desire in the pitch dark of the night. The smell of a woman with sex on her mind. A hint dropped over breakfast that she needs me tonight. Knowing she's spending the day thinking of how she's going to fuck me drives me to the edge.

If you weren't that experienced sexually, but had an opportunity to try out some fantasies in a safe relationship, what would you want to try?
Anal

If you were able to introduce a new sexual experience to someone, what would it be?
Oral, and to have confidence in her body and to demand the things she needs from her partner.

 

[sweetnpetite]

Reading your question again, it occurs to me that maybe you're looking for specific actions a woman might perform that would tell a man he's got a hot one on his hands, rather than just general qualities like responsiveness or enthusiasm.

If so, I might suggest some of my personal favorites:

--Running her nails along your thigh (nothing like the feel of a woman clawing at your pants)

--Hair pulling. (I love it. It shows she's passionate and doesn't mind playing rough)

--Leg-riding. Any sort of hip action from a woman while we're making out drives me mad.

--Unbuttoning your clothes/chest kissing/nipple biting. (She's a fucking animal! Lucky you!)

--Masturbation. I'm a big fan of the lowly hand-job, probably the least respected sexual activity there is. I love that sense of helplessness I get when a woman takes my prick in her hand and starts to pump me. It's as good as a blowjob and without all the power politics.

--Extra Credit: taking your hand and putting it where she wants it. That just floors me

--Double Extra Credit: masturbating herself using your hand. That's where I redline.

My guy doesn't like *most* of that!

 

[TheEarl]

Another 2 pence

Being needed. Having a woman want me. Having a woman tell me that she wants me.

Just imagining being grabbed and pulled to her. She presses her lips against mine, her movements passionate, frantic, desperately hot in her desire. Releasing me for just a second to catch her breath, her chest heaving with each gasp as she murmurs, "I want you. Now."

The Earl

 

[sweetnpetite]

God invented cock so women would have something to worship while not in Church.

 

[sweetnpetite]

I was looking for both. So thanks for answering again (and what an answer!). Thanks to all the other guys who answered, too. You've helped alot with my character(s).
And given me some tips for RL, too.

SJ

If your story is half as hot as this thread- it'll be a good one!

 

[sophia jane]

If your story is half as hot as this thread- it'll be a good one!

Lol! I hope so! I'm making a little file with all these wonderful answers. I have a feeling I'll use some of these ideas on more than one story.

SJ

 

[sweetnpetite]

Being needed. Having a woman want me. Having a woman tell me that she wants me.

Just imagining being grabbed and pulled to her. She presses her lips against mine, her movements passionate, frantic, desperately hot in her desire. Releasing me for just a second to catch her breath, her chest heaving with each gasp as she murmurs, "I want you. Now."

The Earl

So boys like to be ravished too, hu?

 

[rgraham666]

So boys like to be ravished too, hu?

I can think of worse fates.

 

[Guest]

Wow, gentlemen.

Damn!

Reading all your posts is quite a turn-on because quite often men do not express themselves to their women in that manner.

But oh, how we wish you would.

You see how this thread has affected all the women who replied. Sometimes women hold themselves back during sex because they don't want you to think they are immoral or odd or whatever.

And I'm talking married women.

If you haven't, please whisper those lusty suggestions to your partner during sex. It you're too shy to say it out loud, leave her a sexy note - hide it in her briefcase, her panty drawer, under her pillow, whatever.

I'm sure she'll be affected - you'll probably be jumped at first opportunity.

 

[rgraham666]

(Scribbling down note)

Going to remember that one!

 

[sophia jane]

Damn!

Reading all your posts is quite a turn-on because quite often men do not express themselves to their women in that manner.

But oh, how we wish you would.

You see how this thread has affected all the women who replied. Sometimes women hold themselves back during sex because they don't want you to think they are immoral or odd or whatever.

And I'm talking married women.

If you haven't, please whisper those lusty suggestions to your partner during sex. It you're too shy to say it out loud, leave her a sexy note - hide it in her briefcase, her panty drawer, under her pillow, whatever.

I'm sure she'll be affected - you'll probably be jumped at first opportunity.

I absolutely agree. Men, in RL, often don't share this kind of thing with women. If nothing else, help her "find" this thread sometime! I know it would be alot easier to be wild knowing that the guy I'm with isn't going to think badly of me for it.

SJ

 

[TheEarl]

So boys like to be ravished too, hu?

Mmm, nothing better. I want someone who won't act like she'll break if I ravish her, someone who'll give as good as she gets and then some.

<notes down SSS's idea about leaving notes>

The Earl

 

[sweetnpetite]

I absolutely agree. Men, in RL, often don't share this kind of thing with women. If nothing else, help her "find" this thread sometime! I know it would be alot easier to be wild knowing that the guy I'm with isn't going to think badly of me for it.

SJ

First time I said "Fuck Me!" (during sex!) the reply was "What did you say?"

Hint: that's not the right reply-- unless you want her to be more inhibited.

 

[sophia jane]

First time I said "Fuck Me!" (during sex!) the reply was "What did you say?"

Hint: that's not the right reply-- unless you want her to be more inhibited.

LMAO! I had a similar experience. In fact, several times with different things, I 've had that kind of reaction. That's terrible isn't it?

SJ

 

[rgraham666]

First time I said "Fuck Me!" (during sex!) the reply was "What did you say?"

Hint: that's not the right reply-- unless you want her to be more inhibited.

Jesus! Even a social dyslexic like me knows the answer to that statement is "Of course, anytime."

Guys. They're always so worried about being in control.

 

[Guest]

First time I said "Fuck Me!" (during sex!) the reply was "What did you say?"

Hint: that's not the right reply-- unless you want her to be more inhibited.

Ouch.

If a woman manages to gasp "Fuck me!" in the midst of incredible sex I hope the guy gives a positive response (and then takes her up on it. Wildly.)

Or maybe the guy can even hold back a bit and force his woman to ask for what she wants - isn't that sexy?

But having to explain a sexual audible? So uncomfortable.

I remember a comedian talking about this - can't remember who it was, exactly.

She said her partner demanded to know what she was saying during sex. So she carefully (and in a flat voice) deadpanned, "I said, Oooh - baby - ahh."

Kinda removes the passion, doesn't it?

 

[TheEarl]

First time I said "Fuck Me!" (during sex!) the reply was "What did you say?"

Hint: that's not the right reply-- unless you want her to be more inhibited.

I've done something similar - an ex said the word pussy to me (in a normal conv rather than in bed). I'd never heard her say the word before and it threw me slightly, which made her retreat a bit.

Tip to ladies: If you're going to open up, then just suddenly throwing a bit of profanity in, that we've never heard you say before, out of nowhere, is the best way to elicit a confused look.

Mind you, during sex, I wouldn't have thought "Fuck me!" was too unexpected.

The Earl

 

[Liar]

Mind you, during sex, I wouldn't have thought "Fuck me!" was too unexpected.

Mind you at the wrong time, a "Fuck me!" might make me wonder if she hadn't noticed that was what I was already doing.



On the other hand, a totally unexpected "Unless this bus is arriving late, you will get to fuck me in less than 27 minutes." whispered on the way home from a few beers at a downtown pub, is one of the most defining turn-on moment of my life so far.

 

[Guest]

. . . On the other hand, a totally unexpected "Unless this bus is arriving late, you will get to fuck me in less than 27 minutes." whispered on the way home from a few beers at a downtown pub, is one of the most defining turn-on moment of my life so far.

Delicious.

 

[Softouch911]

Damn!

Reading all your posts is quite a turn-on because quite often men do not express themselves to their women in that manner.

But oh, how we wish you would.

You see how this thread has affected all the women who replied. Sometimes women hold themselves back during sex because they don't want you to think they are immoral or odd or whatever.

And I'm talking married women.

If you haven't, please whisper those lusty suggestions to your partner during sex. It you're too shy to say it out loud, leave her a sexy note - hide it in her briefcase, her panty drawer, under her pillow, whatever.

I'm sure she'll be affected - you'll probably be jumped at first opportunity.

I'd like to suggest that, unfortunately, the ladies here don't really represent all women -- the women here are more alive, more willing to fantasize, more willing to experiment, more willing to communicate, and more willing to think of sex as an enjoyable activity than is true in a cross-section.

So, just imagining of course, what happens next if you say:
"Let's role play" Her: I feel weird doing that.
"Tell me a fantasy." Her: I don't have any.
"Let's try another position." Her: I like this one.
"Would you do xxxx for me." Her: I wouldn't like that
"Let's have sex, let's play." Her: I'll see if I can get in the mood.

Any suggestions? I'd use the old caveman club routine but fuckin' a lump of dough aint' what I had in mind. And I had a guy last week tell me to try a hooker. That ain't what I have in mind either.

Sorry to rant -- but I've had it with that kind of crap. Next time no ladies without a Literotica ID card!


Softie -- soft in the head, that is

 

[Belegon]

I am going to chime in with the crowd on the responsiveness thing...during sex I want you to give in to impulses and I want positive feedback. A little negative is ok, and if I hurt you do please tell me, at least if you didn't like it. Or I suppose if you did. You can not be "too dirty" or "too slutty" during sex. I hold with the old bit about the perfect woman being a lady out of the bedroom and a wanton slut in it. Don't be afraid, well, not usually. If we are roleplaying, don't break character. Use your voice, I love hearing my name as I admit to being a little narcissistic. I like loud but I like soft too. A purr can be as sexy as a growl. Eye contact. Evil little all-knowing grins.


outside of the act...

I like little touches at perhaps somewhat inappropriate times. Reach down and grab my ass when we are walking next to each other in public. I will most likely pretend to ignore it, but it will work. The old "hand in the back pocket of my jeans" thing worked on me in high school and it still does 20 yrs later.

Eye contact again. In this case, long smoldering stares. I love to do it to you and I love it being returned.

Secrets. Things you say that you know make me think of something but other people don't know it. Holding hands underneath a table.

 

[elsol]

*burp* It's 1:30 in the morning... I haven't slept all day so what harm could there be in a little honesty.

What turns you on during sex?

Female orgasms make me feel like the THE GOD OF FUCK! (A great name of a band, by the way.)

That's purely psychological, actually during sex, I like when she 'tries' to take control, and it only gets her put on her stomach with me taking her from behind... and knowing that she liked the whole 'Uh... excuse me, you're lying on the altarTHE GOD OF FUCK!, I'm in charge!'

What do you like women to do?

To be expressive... hard to think that you're the THE GOD OF FUCK! if she's not screaming, blushing... etc.

Physically... I call it the last drop.

Immediately 'after' sex, the SO guides me to my back, take my dick with her thumb on the bottm, presses down with the thumb and upward... drawing the last drop out, and then she sucks, licks me clean.

She thinks she gets Tiffany's, Chocolate of the Month, Phantom of the Opera tickets because I'm a 'wonderful guy'.

PASHAH!!!!

It's my dick talking...

ElSol: Damn... I gotta get ze girl a valentine's day gift. How much should I spend? I am on a budget.

ElSol's Dick: What's a budget, boss?

ElSol: That's where we don't spend that much money on her.

ElSol's Dick: We're talking about ZEEE GIRL... the one that does the little tricky at the end?

ElSol: Yeah.

ElSol's Dick: Think Big!

ElSol: I'm on a budget.

ElSol Dick: Listen, I'm the one that does the fucking around here, not you... so STOP fucking with me. I said THINK BIG! and this is definitely one of those times that I do the thinking for both of us.


What makes sex more exciting?

More female orgasms...

In truth, anything that shows that I have control... thus tying her down, changing positions at MY will... etc, etc.

I'm a sexual control-freak, more control during sex that I have the better the sex is... that's the basis of the female orgasm thing.

I am in control of her pleasure.

If you weren't that experienced sexually, but had an opportunity to try out some fantasies in a safe relationship, what would you want to try?

I don't have sexual fantasies... per se.

I don't consider the MFF thing to be a sexual fantasy... it's just an extension of the prime directive, "I want to fuck girls!"

It's interesting that most people confuse my stories for my sexual fantasies, I've even had offers of making them come true.

It's really tough to look at a woman and say "You don't understand... that's the dark side of my mind; if I walk that path, I may never come back. That's not fantasy, darling!"

If you were able to introduce a new sexual experience to someone, what would it be?

Sex.

I consider it a public service for a male that understands sex and can fuck good to take an inexperienced female on for a six-month period... but no more than six months.

It solves a couple of very annoying problems.

1) It prevents her falling into the grip of some useless motherfucker who doesn't know the difference between fucking her and fucking her over... if this isn't prevented she can get hangups and other problems with sex.

Do you know how frustrating it is to undo these fucking hangups? Every time I stumble over one these women, I have a driving need to go beat the fuck out of some dumb asshole that should've kept it in his pants for the sake of the rest of us.

Really good sex early in a woman's sexual experience makes it easier on me (and the other guys) to get really good sex from her.

2) The love thing...

You can put the well in well-fucked woman before she takes her clothes off... so I don't want to fucking hear "He loves me" or "I love her" if she's NOT getting hers.

It's like Valentine's Day, it's one day a year and it's fucking the simplest of simples... do something SHE likes.

Thus I bought the SO some Phantom tickets, which is her favorite show all time.

5 minutes of crying... lots of bragging to every female she know 'about what a wonderful' guy I am... and I come out of the whole situation smelling like fucking roses and for what? Cause I'm willing to sacrifice one night out of the year to do something she likes?

PASHAH!!!

I'll probably have wood during the entire show thinking about what wonderful pieces of lingerie she bought to make the night 'extra special'.

----

Hmm... definitely need to get more sleep if I'm going to post here.

Damn, I'm an egotistical bastard some time... (Hmm... all the time really, I just hide it better when I've gotten sleep.)

*shrug*

Sincerely,
ElSol