I Need to Have This Guy @ Work

[bytor2112]

Re: Re: Re: Zergplex Says

And you are a troll. ^_^ and as such this is the first and last post of your I am going to reply to, as well as telling all the people I know that your a troll and to add you to their ignore lists (due to this and several things you have said on the GLBT board). Have a nice day.

-Zergplex

but that doesn't change the fact that your picture is sooooo gay...

 

[EbonyVenus]

I am at a point where I really need input with this exciting, yet potentially volatile problem. Here is the story I'm hoping someone can help me with.

I started work a few months ago. I am separated (1 yr) from an insensitive idiot, thank goodness. I'm getting on well with my life and renewed sexual freedom and more confidence than I've ever felt in my life.

The thing is, I really want this man at work is married (1 yr) but flirts quite a bit w/me, explicitly sometimes. It seems that he's not satisfied for a few reasons, he always stays late wasting time, didn't go home on his anniversary right away. We worked late. He flirts like hell. He tells me he doesn't feel good when I'm sad. I love our connection - a very cerebral and passionate attraction. I feel shocks in my body sometimes just talking to him.

He says courageous things, yet I don't know if he'll ever act out on them. I don't know what to do to accelerate this. I flirt with him and let him know and he reacts positively every time. I wore a thong and bent down to pick something up and he couldn't breathe.

Besides a lot of positive feedback, I want to get some action. Should I challenge him like saying "Oh, you're all talk" playfully?

I don't know where to go from here.

Help???

I wonder if his wife thinks he is an insensitive jerk just like the one you left.
my advice is never shit were you eat < dont date co workers> and never take what belongs to someone else

If he was so good and honest and sweet would he be look at you cheating on his wife? Like you he always has the choice to leave her for something better but he hasnt, wonder why

Ebony

 

[Mary Hall]

but that doesn't change the fact that your picture is sooooo gay...

Go eat acid and die you troll

 

[pandoravampire]

Quote:

"Besides a lot of positive feedback, I want to get some action."

There you go-your two things you seek, lost of encouragement and permission from LIt members, and to get fucking the guy at the office.

So go fuck him.

simple isnt it?

If your inner cricket is telling you its wrong to steal another womans' man? thats coz your inner cricket knows just how capable you are of prioritising YOUR needs, over OTHERS needs. Your thinking with your clit.
I dont mind you thinking with your clit, but be honest about it ffs.

 

[Jaded Jayne]

I could give a laundry list of reasons why not. But you already know why not.

And....if you haven't done it yet, you will. Just one suggestion: have a resume prepared. You're gonna need it. And maybe some runnin' shoes under your desk.

 

[bytor2112]

Go eat acid and die you troll

sigh... once again..i am the undead...

please follow along you pipe dreaming loser...

 

[Mary Hall]

Your not worth it, say `ello to ignore fuckface

 

[ohio28]

If you do give in to your desires be prepared to leave if things go bad.

I was involved with a married co-worker whom I fell deeply in love with. This 2-year affair (very little sex, but lots of affection), has finally ended, but not before many were hurt, and I was threatened many times to be killed by her abusive husband.

Despite all of her sorrow and professed love for me, she stayed with him and I'm now alone. I left that job for another one. We rekindled once, but once I demanded that it be "all or nothing," she once again, choose nothing.

I learned a lot from that relationship, and gave more love than I ever had before, but ultimately...it wasn't worth it.

 

[Lust Engine]

If you do give in to your desires be prepared to leave if things go bad.

I was involved with a married co-worker whom I fell deeply in love with. This 2-year affair (very little sex, but lots of affection), has finally ended, but not before many were hurt, and I was threatened many times to be killed by her abusive husband.

Despite all of her sorrow and professed love for me, she stayed with him and I'm now alone. I left that job for another one. We rekindled once, but once I demanded that it be "all or nothing," she once again, choose nothing.

I learned a lot from that relationship, and gave more love than I ever had before, but ultimately...it wasn't worth it.

Sounds like the cruel voice of experience speaking there. So listen up!