I Wonder . . . .
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BlackCashmere
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I wonder why I was made with so many flaws...
RoyceConnors
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BlackCashmere
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Our flaws make us unique, your flaws made you more beautiful.
Awww...ty so mych...
mnbreastluver
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I wonder how do they get deer to cross the road only at those yellow road signs?
MedicalMuse
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I wonder if you know just how fabulous your flaws are.
On another note:
I also wonder when his feet are going to stop growing..
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lurkingguy1978
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I wonder why I always lose my way in my own head.
I wonder why I can't be satisfied by simple things.
I wonder why I can't be satisfied by simple things.
beachbaby179
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I wonder if I could be happy taking two or three steps back...
BlackCashmere
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curvyangel1969
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I wonder when it will go away.
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I wonder why I'm so shy in real life, yet a little bolder here.
BlackCashmere
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Im also much quieter in real life...
TasteTheRaynebow69
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I wonder whether nature or nurture wins out in integrity or if we are all truly battling for resources.
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Tallulah82
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I never regret the things I do. I see my mistakes as a lesson to be learned. I only regret the things I didn't do, the opportunities that passed me by.
Always better a Oops, than a What If...
Unless, of course - you're regretting playing with the brakes cable on your neighbours car- because that is just some evil shit and you need to go apologise to him whilst he is still in hospital!
I never regret the things I do. I see my mistakes as a lesson to be learned. I only regret the things I didn't do, the opportunities that passed me by.
Always better a Oops, than a What If...
Unless, of course - you're regretting playing with the brakes cable on your neighbours car- because that is just some evil shit and you need to go apologise to him whilst he is still in hospital!
It's not just me that would be affected
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Tallulah82
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It's not just me that would be affected
I understand that. I'm not saying just make flippant decisions and to hell with everyone else. Don't ever make a decision that you couldn't face the consequences for. You have to take full responsibility for your own actions, regardless of the reasons that pushed you.
But. At the end of the day, this is YOUR life. You are the main person in your life. You are not a secondary character.
I fully respect those who spend their lives putting everyone else first, and if that makes them happy - then that's great. But if they are spending their life unhappy, for the sake of another person's happiness - is that how to spend your limited time on earth?
Maybe I'm too selfish in this, but I refuse to wake up one day and find that I have lost valuable years that can never be regained. I have actually kinda done this - and I won't do it again. I'll do what I can, when I can, for other people. But I'm important too.
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^^^^ Sounds like good, calm advice...
Something I found helpful when I was at a crossroads in my life, many years ago, was thinking about how I'd feel in a year, five years, ten years, if I went for the safe 'do nothing' option. It did help clarify things a lot.
Something I found helpful when I was at a crossroads in my life, many years ago, was thinking about how I'd feel in a year, five years, ten years, if I went for the safe 'do nothing' option. It did help clarify things a lot.
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curvyangel1969
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I wonder what the point was. I'm not that boring dang!
And butting in the conversation. The only good advice my mother ever gave me was live your life in a way that makes you happy. No one else will do it for you.
And butting in the conversation. The only good advice my mother ever gave me was live your life in a way that makes you happy. No one else will do it for you.
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