"If I knew then...."

[Riles]

You know how the saying goes, so let's hear it! What wisdom would you impart on youthful you if you could?

Funny and humourous or serious and stern, whatever the message may be, share with us your life lessons learned.

 

[ZipBlockBloodie]

If I knew then, that I was gonna have to wear glasses I would not have stared at the computer for hours on in.

 

[kinkymale69]

I would simply tell myself to throw away those sexual restrictions and go for what you desire. Spend time giving pleasure (I do now!), be honest about your fetishes/desires/likes.

Always end an argument with a cuddle, and always give the opponent the last word.

Boring eh?

 

[Jinxi Minxi]

If I knew then, what I know now, I'd go back and do it all over again, but this time, as a MUCH better person.

 

[gadgetman]

If i knew then, what i know now... I'd be living in the other side of the country!!!

 

[Riles]

I would simply tell myself to throw away those sexual restrictions and go for what you desire. Spend time giving pleasure (I do now!), be honest about your fetishes/desires/likes.

Always end an argument with a cuddle, and always give the opponent the last word.

Boring eh?

Who are we to judge?

Though I'm not sure about the "ending arguments with a cuddle" bit. Sometimes a slamming door is much more satisfying. -wink-

 

[luvzmature]

If I knew then what I know now I would have believed in myself at a much earlier age...

 

[gadgetman]

If I knew then what I know now I would have believed in myself at a much earlier age...

Amen brother...

 

[Mrs.H]

I would have become forgiving and happy at a much younger age.

 

[ElegantlyElle]

If I knew then what I knew now...I don't know what I would have changed or if I would have. Everything I've done has led me to where I am now. If i wasn't here I wouldn't have a fiance that understand my needs/wants/desires as good, or better, than I do. I wouldn't be marrying the man of my dreams. I wouldn't be trying to conceive a child.

I sometimes wish I would have finished college, but what would I do with a degree in religion now. I certainly wouldn't be using it.

 

[Aquagal]

If I knew then what I know now then I wouldn't have believed sex is only for procreation.......never looked back.

 

[Riles]

If I knew then what I knew now...I don't know what I would have changed or if I would have. Everything I've done has led me to where I am now. If i wasn't here I wouldn't have a fiance that understand my needs/wants/desires as good, or better, than I do. I wouldn't be marrying the man of my dreams. I wouldn't be trying to conceive a child.

I sometimes wish I would have finished college, but what would I do with a degree in religion now. I certainly wouldn't be using it.

The journey is sometimes more important than the destination, isn't it?

 

[Riles]

"If I knew then what I know now,"

....I would have chosen to write my number on paper instead of a wet napkin! -pout-

 

[ElegantlyElle]

The journey is sometimes more important than the destination, isn't it?

Amen, sister. I think a lot of people forget that the journey is just as important as where you end up in life. Do I have regrets? Oh, hell yeah. I regret not having sex with anyone but my fiance. I regret not standing up to my mom more. I regret not eloping. I think regrets make you more thanful for all the good things that have happened.

 

[DayMaker]

I would have become forgiving and happy at a much younger age.

Yup. What she said. Couldn't have put it better myself.

 

[Riles]

Amen, sister. I think a lot of people forget that the journey is just as important as where you end up in life. Do I have regrets? Oh, hell yeah. I regret not having sex with anyone but my fiance. I regret not standing up to my mom more. I regret not eloping. I think regrets make you more thanful for all the good things that have happened.

Ummmm. It's just MY opinion, but if you already regret not having had the experience of 'others', I might just think twice about walking down the asile. That's a nasty little 'regret' that can sink it's teeth in deep, and WILL come back to renew it's hold when you and hubby are butting heads.

Just saying. Sow the oats before the deed is signed.

Edit to say:

I'm not talking about cheating or leaving s/o. That's what it read like, and that's not what I'm saying....I think you need to have a talk with him. That's what I'm saying.

 

[janeyl]

If I knew then what I know now...I'd have never wasted all those years doubting myself and my abilities...I'd have made a different choice at 18...and I'd have had a very different conversation 3 years ago...

 

[cookiejar]

If I knew then what I know now ... I'd have kicked his cheating ass out a year earlier.

 

[gadgetman]

If I knew, what i know now... i wouldn't have gotten married at such an early age... Though the most wonderful daughter any father could ever ask for came about.... I should have gone with my instincts.

 

[Riles]

"If I knew then..."

...I would have told him how much he meant back when it might have made a difference.

 

[ElegantlyElle]

Ummmm. It's just MY opinion, but if you already regret not having had the experience of 'others', I might just think twice about walking down the asile. That's a nasty little 'regret' that can sink it's teeth in deep, and WILL come back to renew it's hold when you and hubby are butting heads.

Just saying. Sow the oats before the deed is signed.

Edit to say:

I'm not talking about cheating or leaving s/o. That's what it read like, and that's not what I'm saying....I think you need to have a talk with him. That's what I'm saying.

We've already talked about it. It's something I have to accept, because he's way more important to me than more sexual experience. No one wanted me before him, so screw them.

 

[Riles]

We've already talked about it. It's something I have to accept, because he's way more important to me than more sexual experience. No one wanted me before him, so screw them.

Okay then. I'll wish you ever-lasting happiness and the ability to never take for granted that which you cherish most.

 

[justuandmekiddo]

I would have finished college.

 

[kinkymale69]

Who are we to judge?

Though I'm not sure about the "ending arguments with a cuddle" bit. Sometimes a slamming door is much more satisfying. -wink-

Okay then. I'll wish you ever-lasting happiness and the ability to never take for granted that which you cherish most.

Yes - I guess you are right....

 

[sunshinegirl05]

If I knew then....................

I would have been more focused on school and not quit.

I wouldn't have let him control my life

I would have waited to get married.

I would have been more open and spoke up more