I'm smitten with a Vanilla.

[Yang4yin]

I'm smitten with tapioca.

 

[coy_one]

Well, as time has gone on, it appears that Vanilla is not so vanilla afterall.

 

[rida]

Well, as time has gone on, it appears that Vanilla is not so vanilla afterall.

it was chocolate chips!!!!



sorry ... could not resist

 

[SubKekiLee]

Well, as time has gone on, it appears that Vanilla is not so vanilla afterall.

Thats a GREAT thing Coy One... I am happy for you ..

 

[FurryFury]

Good for you and him!

 

[twysted73]

Before you get caught up.....

Allow me, if you will, to be the harbinger of doom.

(well...not really a harbinger..more like a candygram of doom)

" They are not like us unless they are us."

I suggest: Telling him all of it. Every last shred. "I like this, this, this, and on my period, I really love this and this. Your turn."

Yes, I said to ask him to reveal himself instead of suggesting you ask him if he can handle it.

Vanillas get so caught up in the moment they never think about the consequences later when the honeymoon phase ends they realize that they aren't nearly as kinky as you are.

Save yourself the heartache.
If he's not already kink-inclined.....well I hope the best for you but I've seen too many situations like these to be overly optomistic.

Slainte`

 

[SweetGigi]

Well, as time has gone on, it appears that Vanilla is not so vanilla afterall.

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!! This is great!!!!!!! Oh, M, I am so happy for you. I was just talking to Hunt about all this the other day and he said you were pretty happy with things... but this... this just tops the cake!!! With all you've been thru you deserve to be totally and completely happy in life. I know you won't settle and it appears now you don't have to!


Congrats darlin'

 

[Breaker_Morant]

I wondered who dredged this thread out of oblivion. Congrats, coy!

 

[lilly85]

..............

 

[coy_one]

Allow me, if you will, to be the harbinger of doom.

(well...not really a harbinger..more like a candygram of doom)

" They are not like us unless they are us."

I suggest: Telling him all of it. Every last shred. "I like this, this, this, and on my period, I really love this and this. Your turn."

Yes, I said to ask him to reveal himself instead of suggesting you ask him if he can handle it.

Vanillas get so caught up in the moment they never think about the consequences later when the honeymoon phase ends they realize that they aren't nearly as kinky as you are.

Save yourself the heartache.
If he's not already kink-inclined.....well I hope the best for you but I've seen too many situations like these to be overly optomistic.

Slainte`

I appreciate the concern - but I already have. On our first date, no less.
I let him know what I like.... and that's when he asked me how I got "fucked up". But, as time has gone on..... he has enjoyed the fact that I'm so open sexually.
It has allowed him to cross some personal boundaries, I think he normally would never have been brave enough to....

He knows what I'm all about. I've never hidden it from him, but have been rather brazenly honest.

 

[coy_one]

it was chocolate chips!!!!



sorry ... could not resist

NP - more like spicy Italian.

 

[FurryFury]

I love getting updates!

 

[rida]

NP - more like spicy Italian.

should know a couple of things about that!

italian-japanese married to an italian-american ...

congrats

 

[mitchell67]

re; springtide

I'm also happy for you, coy one. I am glad that you have found someone.