Isolated BDSM Blurts: Facehugger Fetish

[seela]

I did not want to see that first thing in the morning today. Or any day, for that matter.

 

[Primalex]

I think I start to give every week a movie title now. Maybe this week is going to be:"The Good, the Bad and the Ugly". Although technically the movie refers to persons, while I would refer events.

I just learned today by chance that a colleague passed away. He was not part of my department, but we happened to work together occasionally, because we both got the same short end of the stick regarding some tasks. Agony unites.

But during a virtual meeting between my and his department, with an introduction part for a newcomer, we came upon the part of retirement and I joked that people are rather optimistic that they will get pension from the government - refering the costs for the government for dealing with Corona and the guaranteed payback in either taxes or reduced pensions. And they assumed I was refering the colleague who just passed away and which nobody of our team knew. So it literally went like:"Yeah, that A.N. passed away really means it can get anyone anytime." and everyone from our team like at the same time:"Wait, what? What did you say? Did you just say A.N. died?"

Overall, this is the third dead colleague over a time span of 16 years - so it's not shockingly many I guess. I don't know the exact details yet regarding A.N., but as far as I can tell, it was not Corona-related. Then a young man, half my age, had a deadly car accident at night a few years ago - he left the road and hit a tree. It was unclear if he didn't pay attention for some reason or if he was intoxicated or if it was maybe..on purpose. I liked him. He was very helpful and jovial, like a young Robin Willams.

And one guy my age, whose car broke down on the highway and who, unrelated to the broken car, just collapsed there on the curb due to a stroke.

I guess I should write some kind of synopsis or moral of the story, instead of just having it hang there without it - but it's a shitty year, so you get a shitty ending of a post. Shitty in unison. Sounds like a song title.

 

[seela]

My mushroom picking trip got canceled due to my ride being exposed to someone who was diagnosed with covid and now has to quarantine.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Had my first mammogram today. *back pats*

I had no idea there'd be so much ... handling.

 

[midwestyankee]

Had my first mammogram today. *back pats*

I had no idea there'd be so much ... handling.

Looking forward to the report on your first (next?) colonoscopy.

 

[gracie920101]

Had my first mammogram today. *back pats*

I had no idea there'd be so much ... handling.

I was soooo much skinnier when I had my first one. I think I wore a "nearly A" cup at that point. After probably 10 minutes of pushing, pulling and poking, I finally had to tell the lady "you can pull on it all you want but there's not going to be any more of it show up. That's all there is!".
She finally conceded defeat after a few more tugs and squishing the whole thing down to hold it while pulling my body and face sideways and plastered against the machine then ran behind her barrier and took the picture. I got to see it before I left and thought it was such a cute little thing!

P.S. Thank you for taking care of you.

 

[cookiecat]

Fingers crossed

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Thirded

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Watched a live reading of one of my favorite movies tonight, read by the original cast members who are still living. It was amazing and I was downright giddy.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

What was it?
That sounds so cool.

Fright Night! My brother and I watched this movie soooo many times growing up. Mark Hamill read for Roddy McDowall, who had passed away, and he was amazing of course. Chris Sarandon, Bill Ragsdale, Amanda Bearse and pretty much the whole original cast was involved. It was for a fundraiser, pay any amount you can to get access. A few weeks back they did the same thing with Princess Bride, which was also just a phenomenal thing to watch. Smiled the whole time for both.

 

[MeekMe]

I was dragged to a yoga class this morning. I didn’t really want to go as I didn’t sleep well and felt nauseous (and covid of course). It wasn’t a bad experience. And thankfully no one else showed up until the end. Once other people showed up for next classes I just couldn’t be relaxed, though. I’m sure it was written all over my face how uncomfortable I was.

The intention was good behind making me go, but it was forced and not enjoyable. I don’t want yoga to be added to the list of things I dislike.

 

[MeekMe]

One of my best friends does that to me. I love that she wants what’s good for me, but sometimes I need to sit and stew.

Fucking yes! Everyone is telling me to take my time but then start trying to make me do things for “distraction” and then it just feels like they want me to be normal so they don’t have to see me like this. I get they’re trying to help, but it’s really making me want to pull away because I’m not sure it’s really for my benefit and not just a way to make themselves feel better because they’re feeling guilt over what happened.

And now for a cycle of “it’s me, it’s them, but it’s probably really just me.”

 

[Primalex]

This reminds me of

https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x2pu0gs

 

[seela]

I wish I could be softer, cuddlier, more caring. More romantic. Have a tolerance for sappy.

 

[cookiecat]

Fucking yes! Everyone is telling me to take my time but then start trying to make me do things for “distraction” and then it just feels like they want me to be normal so they don’t have to see me like this. I get they’re trying to help, but it’s really making me want to pull away because I’m not sure it’s really for my benefit and not just a way to make themselves feel better because they’re feeling guilt over what happened.

And now for a cycle of “it’s me, it’s them, but it’s probably really just me.”

I can relate to this so much. Friends, family mean well but their intent feels self serving. When my reaction doesn't fit with their expectation, it's nothing but a let down.

I'm not the same person I used to be. I feel itchy trying to figure me out, so I suppose it's difficult for people in my life to trust I know what's best for me.

 

[MeekMe]

I can relate to this so much. Friends, family mean well but their intent feels self serving. When my reaction doesn't fit with their expectation, it's nothing but a let down.

I'm not the same person I used to be. I feel itchy trying to figure me out, so I suppose it's difficult for people in my life to trust I know what's best for me.

Ugh... my reaction has been poorly received. And the self serving. Geez, it just isn’t helping. I get it, they want to help or they think they’re helping.

I can’t put the smile mask on that easily these days. And I don’t appreciate guilt trips or people trying to make me feel like they could have saved me had I only reached out to them. It’s not how it works.

Good luck figuring it out.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

This election has made me sick. I’m so disappointed.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

For the first (and likely only) time in my life. This Buckeye is proud to say to the state of Michigan: Go Blue!!

 

[Blue]

This election has made me sick. I’m so disappointed.

Me too.

It's a tragicomedy from the outside.
It's got me wondering how long it'll be until the USA experiences its own Suez Crisis.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

It's a tragicomedy from the outside.
It's got me wondering how long it'll be until the USA experiences its own Suez Crisis.

People talk about us heading for a second civil war, but I really think most Americans are too lazy for that.

There’s a shift coming with American millennials and Generation Z. We just have to get the boomers out of power. Greed and unchecked capitalism are more important than people to so many and I truly believe we are shifting left. It’s funny what the idiots proclaim to be “communism” is really just a little liberal. Positive change is coming - I’m optimistic. Although, my optimism was shaking on Tuesday night. We need to flip the senate in 2022.

This morning, though...waking up to see Georgia going blue was amazing! Stacey Abrams is a hero!

 

[seela]

Yesterday I fixed a leaking toilet, today I fixed a coffee grinder. I'm starting to think there's nothing I can't do.

 

[midwestyankee]

This week has been the longest month of the year. TGIFF.

 

[Primalex]

It's so tasty, I'm gonna die!

I have a new favorite Indian food delivery.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

People talk about us heading for a second civil war, but I really think most Americans are too lazy for that.

There’s a shift coming with American millennials and Generation Z. We just have to get the boomers out of power. Greed and unchecked capitalism are more important than people to so many and I truly believe we are shifting left. It’s funny what the idiots proclaim to be “communism” is really just a little liberal. Positive change is coming - I’m optimistic. Although, my optimism was shaking on Tuesday night. We need to flip the senate in 2022.

This morning, though...waking up to see Georgia going blue was amazing! Stacey Abrams is a hero!

Completely agree on Abrams. She has shown us the way forward (work your ass off to overcome suppression).

I’’m optimistic, like you, on millennials and Gen-Z (waaay more liberal, and no, people don’t, by and large, switch parties once they’re locked in), but a little less solid on the demographic destiny idea after seeing the gains the orange racist cheerleader made among Latino and Black men. Dems gotta microtarget more and talk to voters in simpler, relatable themes, not advanced policy points (yes, that sounds condescending, but the truth for people who have shit to do to survive, which mostly doesn’t include politics).

Anyway, life is all about expectations, isn’t it? Go back two years and say, “Hey, your candidate is gonna oust orange man and win back Wisconsin, Michigan and Pennsylvania, as well as Georgia!” Rolling orgasms all around!

 

[gracie920101]

Hurricane prep finished. In the rain. Of course.

I found out we got 14" of rain last month but it really hasn't stopped. I'm going to have to break out a new set of water wings.