Isolated BDSM Blurts: Facehugger Fetish

[DeepGreenEyes]

A day or two late, but I want to wish all of the posters, visitors or lurkers on these BDSM boards (I usually use “Litsters,” but “Litizens” is so much more creative) a fantastical 2021.

This place has meant a lot to me over the years, and that is solely because of the people. Yes, humans will always lament changes in any organization, town or message board. But no matter the changes, the people at these two boards have always been characterized by the unifying and laudable qualities of respect, kindness, acceptance and the exploration of kink in its boundless forms. (And certainly, depictions of oral servitude, dreams, earworms and what’s for dinner.)

I wish you all a wonderful year filled with joy, pleasure, possibilities and kinky fuckery.

 

[seela]

Constructing a crossword is so difficult, you guys.

 

[Moochienanu]

Am I seriously that difficult to understand?!!?

I feel like clarifying a conversation that didn’t involve you in the first place twice is twice more than enough.

Just fucking read people.

READ!

 

[Bramblethorn]

Am I seriously that difficult to understand?!!?

I feel like clarifying a conversation that didn’t involve you in the first place twice is twice more than enough.

Just fucking read people.

READ!

I understood you fine!

 

[gracie920101]

Am I seriously that difficult to understand?!!?

I feel like clarifying a conversation that didn’t involve you in the first place twice is twice more than enough.

Just fucking read people.

READ!

It has to be pictographs for some to understand.

Waaahhhh! I don't wanna!

And yes, I understood you and (but I actually read the post and didn't drool on the pics)

 

[seela]

Come on, DHL, you can do it! I believe in you!

 

[Primalex]

Come on, DHL, you can do it! I believe in you!

TIL that the D in DHL doesn't stand for Deutsche, but that the Deutsche Post just bought an American company which happened to have also a D at the beginning due to the founder's names.

 

[seela]

TIL that the D in DHL doesn't stand for Deutsche, but that the Deutsche Post just bought an American company which happened to have also a D at the beginning due to the founder's names.

I’m sure if it actually meant Deutsche, they would have brought me my stuff on time!

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Georgia!

“Move, Mitch. Get out of the way!”

 

[twister947]

Georgia!

“Move, Mitch. Get out of the way!”

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

Georgia!

“Move, Mitch. Get out of the way!”

I don’t want to jinx it, but yessssss. SBSWFGD.

(Some Basic Shit Will Finally Get Done.)

 

[soltiera]

I feel so incredibly stupid when I inadvertently stumble into the middle of someone else's conversation. It's not the first time I've accidentally done this. I really need to learn when to shut up.

 

[MeekMe]

The recent events (in the US) should really stir something in me. I’d like to say I’m outraged and shocked, but I just feel kind of ‘meh’ about it all. Is this burnout? Maybe.

 

[Primalex]

The recent events (in the US) should really stir something in me. I’d like to say I’m outraged and shocked, but I just feel kind of ‘meh’ about it all. Is this burnout? Maybe.

Good news.

It's not burnout.

It's serenity.

God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
courage to change the things I can,
and wisdom to know the difference. -- The Serenity Prayer

 

[MeekMe]

Good news.

It's not burnout.

It's serenity.

God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
courage to change the things I can,
and wisdom to know the difference. -- The Serenity Prayer

Serenity is not a word often associated with me. Thinking about it in this way is more pleasant than the thought of being so desensitized I don’t really have any strong feelings towards a terrorist attack lovingly helped along by law enforcement.

I read that the best way to stop a coup is to not comply. I kept thinking to myself, how would this apply to me? I can’t imagine a scenario where I am in a position to not comply and help stop it. I feel a bit naive after seeing some law enforcement helping and law makers actively encouraging the situation.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=VYOjWnS4cMY

 

[DesMoines]

I am a slave

I am a slave to my Mistress
She owns me totally I am nothing but her property

The aching my balls feel from being stretched
The humiliation I feel when men at the gym see my shaved balls with the rings stretching them or the fear that people at work will hear my rings or see the bulge

All these are nothing if my Mistress gets even the smallest amount of joy from any of it.

Thank you Mistress D.

 

[Primalex]

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[DeepGreenEyes]

Im officially medicated thanks to stress...

I don't know how to feel about that.

I felt that way. Then someone pointed out how absurd it would be if we stigmatized people for taking, say, meds for high blood pressure, or wearing a cast on a broken foot. “What!!!?? A CAST!!??? Are you fucked up??? Or just weak???!!” “PUSH THROUGH that high blood pressure!!!” Hehe. No different.

 

[Blue]

The recent events (in the US) should really stir something in me. I’d like to say I’m outraged and shocked, but I just feel kind of ‘meh’ about it all. Is this burnout? Maybe.

I had, and still have, the same experience. Unfortunately I don't have much insight about why, just doesn't seem like that big of a deal even with all the hubbub.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

No, you're absolutely right. And I've had that exact same conversation with people. I'm more just annoyed that all these circumstances outside my control have had such a significant impact on me. I'm not explaining it well but it's almost like other people are smoking and I'm getting the cancer? Does that make any sense?

Yes, it absolutely does. What’s a definition of stress I read once? Something like, “responsibility for something without the ability to act on it”? There’s been a lot of that kind of feeling lately. Going along on Mr. Toad’s wild ride (with Mr. Toad also smoking a lot).

The recent events (in the US) should really stir something in me. I’d like to say I’m outraged and shocked, but I just feel kind of ‘meh’ about it all. Is this burnout? Maybe.

It’s hard not to get burned out while under siege, but I think that is part of the playbook. It’s a widespread experience in the past four years in America (and of course Black Americans and others of minority or marginalized status, have experienced it for centuries). A quote from political scientist Lisel Hintz of Johns Hopkins, who studies authoritarian movements, sums it up nicely: “The goal of competitive authoritarians is to get people to just give up.”

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

Hey. I’m glad you’re back.

Thanks.

 

[soltiera]

The recent events (in the US) should really stir something in me. I’d like to say I’m outraged and shocked, but I just feel kind of ‘meh’ about it all. Is this burnout? Maybe.

I had, and still have, the same experience. Unfortunately I don't have much insight about why, just doesn't seem like that big of a deal even with all the hubbub.

The way you're feeling is completely logical. It seems we all have a Trump hangover.

It’s hard not to get burned out while under siege, but I think that is part of the playbook. It’s a widespread experience in the past four years in America (and of course Black Americans and others of minority or marginalized status, have experienced it for centuries). A quote from political scientist Lisel Hintz of Johns Hopkins, who studies authoritarian movements, sums it up nicely: “The goal of competitive authoritarians is to get people to just give up.”

I think part of it is burnout, but the other part is that any thinking human saw this coming. Trump knew he was going to lose. He spent the last year crafting a narrative to undermine the election. When the election took place, there was a collective sigh of relief that the end of the circus was in sight, but he persisted in his fantasy (supported tacitly and overtly by members of his party). Everybody knew something would happen on January 6. It wasn't hidden. I think they underestimated the damage his rhetoric would do. Now we all have to see what the fallout from his actions will be.

Hey. I’m glad you’re back.

Ditto

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

I think part of it is burnout, but the other part is that any thinking human saw this coming. Trump knew he was going to lose. He spent the last year crafting a narrative to undermine the election. When the election took place, there was a collective sigh of relief that the end of the circus was in sight, but he persisted in his fantasy (supported tacitly and overtly by members of his party). Everybody knew something would happen on January 6. It wasn't hidden. I think they underestimated the damage his rhetoric would do. Now we all have to see what the fallout from his actions will be.



Ditto

(Thank you. )

That’s a good point. As with so many things Trump, it was one of the least surprising shocking things ever.

 

[cookiecat]

Im officially medicated thanks to stress...

I don't know how to feel about that.

Fingers crossed it evens you out.

I had, and still have, the same experience. Unfortunately I don't have much insight about why, just doesn't seem like that big of a deal even with all the hubbub.

Hi Blue. Nice to see you.

I need to work the word hubbub in to my conversations more.

Hey. I’m glad you’re back.

Double ditto, DGE.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

Double ditto, DGE.

Blurt:

When you sign up for bdsmlr, you need to watch out, or it might distract you from other, less important things.