it has bothered me for a long time

[horny_brunette]

Hey everybody! I am new here but i think ppl who answer the questions are very knowledgeable and extremely helpful. As a matter of fact, i have a question of my own. When i am really aroused and getting close to come, i feel as if i were to have a pee. This sensation immediately makes me control myself which in turn results in preventing me from coming.
I want to know if it is natural and girls>>tell me please>> has it actually happened to you? I mean taking a pee on a man when coming and if yes>> what was his reaction? and guys>> has it happened to you that a girl took a pee on you? If yes, how did you react?
You would make me very happy if you answered at least some of my questions.

 

[silverwhisper]

not a woman, but yes, that's a natural reaction. if you're at all anxious about it, next time you pleasure yourself, do it in the shower or something and you'll see, it isn't urine.

actually using urine in sexplay, often called watersports, isn't the most popular fetish and therefore, reactions to it may be very, very polarized.

ed

 

[Weird Harold]

Hey everybody! I am new here but i think ppl who answer the questions are very knowledgeable and extremely helpful. As a matter of fact, i have a question of my own. When i am really aroused and getting close to come, i feel as if i were to have a pee. This sensation immediately makes me control myself which in turn results in preventing me from coming

Check out this thread: https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892

The sensation you describe is one I see often in relation to a G-Spot orgasm or a "Squirting" (female ejculation) discussion. If you ARE a "squirter" then it isn't urine but "ejculate" -- basically the same secretions that lubricate you naturally.

The best way to soothe your fears, is to consult an OB/GYN and see if this is a normal "squirter" sensation for you or if you have a urinary tract problem that is causing you to pee intead of ejaculate.

From previous discussions it sounds like a normal condition that you should just let happen and enjoy. If you do, it will be easy to tell if it is pee or not and decide if you need to see an OB/GYN or Urologist.

 

[horny_brunette]

thanks

Thank you for both your replies.
I'm not into watersports. I just wanted to know if someone accidently took a pee during sex (maybe it's not possible at all. I will go for a shower idea.
Thanks once again.
Good job.

 

[Weird Harold]

Thank you for both your replies.
I'm not into watersports. I just wanted to know if someone accidently took a pee during sex (maybe it's not possible at all. I will go for a shower idea.
Thanks once again.
Good job.

It is possible to accidentally pee during sex -- at least for a woman it is -- but it shouldn't be something that happens every time unless there is a medical problem causing it.

"Squirting" or "Female Ejaculation" however is something that would happen more often than not and is often described as a "need to pee just before orgasm." This is NOT "watersports," it's just a bigger wet-spot than non-squirters have to deal with.

 

[mistymoon]

relax and enjoy

hey there.....the feelings of having to pee when you are about to cum is very common. The reason for that as stated before is the G spot orgasm or pelvic orgasm. The G spot is the uteral sponge...yep, it located right near your urethra. the tube from which you pee from.

The next time you are enjoying your self with someone or pleasing your self. Pee first. You deserve to enjoy yourself and this way you know you have emptied your bladder and are GOOD TO GO GIRL!!!!


enjoy!!!

 

[pinkstarfish]

I want to know if it is natural and girls>>tell me please>> has it actually happened to you? I mean taking a pee on a man when coming and if yes>> what was his reaction? and guys>> has it happened to you that a girl took a pee on you? If yes, how did you react?You would make me very happy if you answered at least some of my questions.

He loved it.

Women's physiology has put the clitoris just above the urethra (which is what you pee from) and the urethra is just above the vaginal opening; so it is smack in the middle of a mass of nerve endings - the very ones that respond to stimulation and create the physical side of arousal. Many feel a wish to pee when these areas are stimulated, but most don't actually let go, but I have since I was a young girl and first discovering masturbating.

Also, a full bladder stimulates the g-spot when penetrated and already engorged.

 

[Gil_T2]

Hey everybody! I am new here but i think ppl who answer the questions are very knowledgeable and extremely helpful. As a matter of fact, i have a question of my own. When i am really aroused and getting close to come, i feel as if i were to have a pee. This sensation immediately makes me control myself which in turn results in preventing me from coming.
I want to know if it is natural and girls>>tell me please>> has it actually happened to you? I mean taking a pee on a man when coming and if yes>> what was his reaction? and guys>> has it happened to you that a girl took a pee on you? If yes, how did you react?
You would make me very happy if you answered at least some of my questions.

When my lady & I got together I discovered she can squirt & have massive "G" spot orgasms which start with the "I think I need to pee" feelings but if you go before you start you can forget the pee feeling & go with the pleasure your feeling & a lot of your worries are covered in Mr G's thread on the how 2 boards.

Good luck.

 

[Gil_T2]

Hey everybody! I am new here but i think ppl who answer the questions are very knowledgeable and extremely helpful. As a matter of fact, i have a question of my own. When i am really aroused and getting close to come, i feel as if i were to have a pee. This sensation immediately makes me control myself which in turn results in preventing me from coming.
I want to know if it is natural and girls>>tell me please>> has it actually happened to you? I mean taking a pee on a man when coming and if yes>> what was his reaction? and guys>> has it happened to you that a girl took a pee on you? If yes, how did you react?
You would make me very happy if you answered at least some of my questions.

When my lady & I got together I discovered she can squirt & have massive "G" spot orgasms which start with the "I think I need to pee" feelings but if you go before you start you can forget the pee feeling & go with the pleasure your feeling & a lot of your worries are covered in Mr G's thread on the how 2 boards.

Good luck.

 

[horny_brunette]

you are great

I only want to say that I do appreciate your replies. They are very informative and useful. I have a feeling that I will find many answers here for the questions I have always been afraid to ask. Thanks for making it possible.

 

[Gil_T2]

None other than that great Macedonian scientist-cum-philosopher, Aristotle, wrote about women's vaginal expulsions which did not have the appearance or aroma of urine and did not stain the sheets.

In 1950, a German obstetrician, Dr. Ernest Grafenberg found a spot within the vagina which he immediately named after himself: the G-spot. He found that stimulation of the G-spot could lead to expulsion of fluid from the urethra. "Large quantities of a clear, transparent fluid expelled not from the vulva, but out of the urethra in gushes," gushed Dr. G.
"At first, I thought that the bladder sphincter had become defective by the intensity of the orgasm. But," he continued, "the fluid was examined and it had no urinary character (rather it was) secretions of the intra-urethral glands correlated with the erotogenic zone along the urethra in the anterior vaginal wall." Sounds like squirting!

http://www.drsusanblock.com/editori...irtingindex.htm
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[Qina]

Hmm, I've noticed the same problem as well and often had to hold back. My BF is very concerned with the mess we make and I'm not so sure he'd think it a good thing if I turn out to be a squirter

 

[Gil_T2]

Hmm, I've noticed the same problem as well and often had to hold back. My BF is very concerned with the mess we make and I'm not so sure he'd think it a good thing if I turn out to be a squirter

QINA he should be happy that your a squirter just take some extra towels to put under you & problem over, although we go through a lot of towels each week it's no big deal except that it show your turned on.

Go the the how to boards & search out Mr G's try this thread & read it through.

 

[horny_brunette]

just read Mr G' messages and think they are brilliant

Hello again, guys
I was reading and rereading Mr G's messages and my personal opinion is that he sounds very very professional If he is right in what he says and I have no reason not to believe it I will be in heaven here on Earth.
PS. I have sent the description of this technique that Mr G describes to my bf. Hopefully, he will make use of it. I keep my fingers crossed (especially because I have big problems with orgasms>> maybe it's the result of my upbringing....you know sex is a sin....avoid it... you are a catholic girl.... it works like a kind of mental barrier for me .... my mum always avoided sex and i started to associate it with pain and complete lack of pleasure). It has changed a lot but some concepts still are deeply rooted in my mind.

 

[Bandit58]

Hmm, I've noticed the same problem as well and often had to hold back. My BF is very concerned with the mess we make and I'm not so sure he'd think it a good thing if I turn out to be a squirter

Sex is supposed to be messy and sweaty and all that good stuff
Gil is my partner and yes I am the one who makes the mess but it feels wonderful, all we do is get two or three towels under me and "go with the flow"

One time he was fully dressed and I'd been playing with myself and told not to orgasm until he told me I could - it was over half an hour before he sat down on the couch between my legs and did the gspot thing and I actually did squirt - all over him! He had to change all his clothes, I had truly soaked him and he was delighted

 

[Qina]

Go the the how to boards & search out Mr G's try this thread & read it through.

I read that one about a week ago and left it up for my BF to see. We tried it last night and failed miserably. He kept saying "You're gonna pee on me" and only did it for about a minute. I told him all the reasurances and suggestions I remembered form the post, but he didn't seem all that interested. The only reason he tried was 'cause I wanted him too. I'm deffinately gonna keep trying to convince him though

 

[swjunckie]

Oh my

I read that one about a week ago and left it up for my BF to see. We tried it last night and failed miserably. He kept saying "You're gonna pee on me" and only did it for about a minute. I told him all the reasurances and suggestions I remembered form the post, but he didn't seem all that interested. The only reason he tried was 'cause I wanted him too. I'm deffinately gonna keep trying to convince him though

Qina,

Sounds like your BF is a little to worried about other things than getting comfortable with sex and such. You know if he's worried about wet spots, towels, even crib, yes crib protectors will help (you know the absorbent pads that you put under potty training kids).

you know half the men on this board, well more than half, all of us in touch with your sexuality and yes, sex can be messy when good, would love to work on this with you.

I wish you luck on both fronts.

 

[swjunckie]

Hello again, guys
I was reading and rereading Mr G's messages and my personal opinion is that he sounds very very professional If he is right in what he says and I have no reason not to believe it I will be in heaven here on Earth.
PS. I have sent the description of this technique that Mr G describes to my bf. Hopefully, he will make use of it. I keep my fingers crossed (especially because I have big problems with orgasms>> maybe it's the result of my upbringing....you know sex is a sin....avoid it... you are a catholic girl.... it works like a kind of mental barrier for me .... my mum always avoided sex and i started to associate it with pain and complete lack of pleasure). It has changed a lot but some concepts still are deeply rooted in my mind.

brunette,

I'm thinking you're making great progress. I know we're all waiting to see what happens after your trip to the shower. We all want a special report

See my advice about the "bed protection", no not a bed condom, but that might be an idea for really messy sex..... where was I...

Oh yeah, bed protection advice I game qina.

Good luck!

 

[Lyrical Fool]

Every time I get close to orgasm, I feel like I have to pee.

Only I don't. I've yet to actually urinate during an orgasm.

I think it has to do with location of nerve endings (see above posts), but for me, it's perfectly normal.

 

[Gil_T2]

Every time I get close to orgasm, I feel like I have to pee.

Only I don't. I've yet to actually urinate during an orgasm.

I think it has to do with location of nerve endings (see above posts), but for me, it's perfectly normal.

PEOPLE IT'S NOT PEE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's a clear liquid that is lube like in feel,odourless & not a bad taste.

 

[Lyrical Fool]

Since you're into such big letters and stuff, let me break down my response for you.

Originally Posted by Lyrical Fool
Every time I get close to orgasm, I feel like I have to pee.

FEEL LIKE I HAVE TO PEE.

As in, the sensations are similar?

Note the lack of any mention of any sort of bodily fluid.

I don't need someone educating me on my own body, but thanks for the effort.

 

[ewopper]

Hmm, I've noticed the same problem as well and often had to hold back. My BF is very concerned with the mess we make and I'm not so sure he'd think it a good thing if I turn out to be a squirter

if you need a second opinion come see me