It's simple. I love gags.

[LordHawk]

I don't like gags- they've always been a very hard limit for me (because of a severe suffocation fear that I have)... but the other day when I was playing with rope, I was inspired to take this picture:

http://forum.literotica.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=828897&d=1205022185

Growls softly. Now that is a beautiful picture. And the look in your eyes makes many thoughts run through a man's head.

 

[DVS]

Growls softly. Now that is a beautiful picture. And the look in your eyes makes many thoughts run through a man's head.

Oh, I agree, very much so. You're a natural!

Have you thought about the whiffle ball thing, I talked about earlier in the thread? It has holes in it, and that makes it easy to breathe, but you still have the "look" and even the "styfle" of the gag.

 

[LittleJade]

Growls softly. Now that is a beautiful picture. And the look in your eyes makes many thoughts run through a man's head.

*smile*

*curtsey*

 

[LittleJade]

Oh, I agree, very much so. You're a natural!

Have you thought about the whiffle ball thing, I talked about earlier in the thread? It has holes in it, and that makes it easy to breathe, but you still have the "look" and even the "styfle" of the gag.

Thank you.

*shaking my head*

No... I'm so bad that if I'm in bed, falling asleep, and the sheet comes too near my face, I freak out, wake up, and rearrange the blankets. It's just this massive hard limit I have... I can't explain it, really...

having inanimate objects in my mouth that aren't being controlled by me (ie- items that aren't attached to my lover, who can react to my fear, or items that I can't control to curb my fear), throw me into a very bad place.

 

[DVS]

Thank you.

*shaking my head*

No... I'm so bad that if I'm in bed, falling asleep, and the sheet comes too near my face, I freak out, wake up, and rearrange the blankets. It's just this massive hard limit I have... I can't explain it, really...

having inanimate objects in my mouth that aren't being controlled by me (ie- items that aren't attached to my lover, who can react to my fear, or items that I can't control to curb my fear), throw me into a very bad place.

Sounds like a trigger for a panic attack. I've been there. My nose is similar. If I can't breathe through my nose, I go over the edge.

These silly little mental phobias we have...it just goes to show you how complex the human mind is and aside from these phobias, how interesting it is to trigger the mind's sexual desires with sexually charged phrases, visual images (i.e. my hard cock in her face, just before I go behind her with the lube), the manual stimulation of sensitive body areas to highten the sexual arousal, to even denying that final sexual release, keeping someone on the very edge of an orgasm for a period of time.

All of these, as well as the different gags, are little triggers for the mind to pick up. They bring up a specific image or thought in the person's mind. They trigger feelings in the body, as well. All of this stimulation melts together into the scene where the dominant controls and the submissive reacts. How these stimulants are used is part of the Dom's style.

We're all different and so the trigger reactions are different, too. Some don't work, and some are phobias, but some are very effective, to say the least. Your picture was very effective.

 

[LittleJade]

Sounds like a trigger for a panic attack. I've been there. My nose is similar. If I can't breathe through my nose, I go over the edge.

These silly little mental phobias we have...it just goes to show you how complex the human mind is and aside from these phobias, how interesting it is to trigger the mind's sexual desires with sexually charged phrases, visual images (i.e. my hard cock in her face, just before I go behind her with the lube), the manual stimulation of sensitive body areas to highten the sexual arousal, to even denying that final sexual release, keeping someone on the very edge of an orgasm for a period of time.

All of these, as well as the different gags, are little triggers for the mind to pick up. They bring up a specific image or thought in the person's mind. They trigger feelings in the body, as well. All of this stimulation melts together into the scene where the dominant controls and the submissive reacts. How these stimulants are used is part of the Dom's style.

We're all different and so the trigger reactions are different, too. Some don't work, and some are phobias, but some are very effective, to say the least. Your picture was very effective.

You're an incredibly interesting person... and I enjoyed reading that post.

Thank you. *smile*

 

[TeachMeSir]

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[FurryFury]

<snip>Imagine the will power that went into not only keeping something in her mouth when she was pushed to her limit, but also knowing that as much as she wanted to open her mouth & moan or scream, once she did it would fall out & she would be punished. I don't know if I'd want to keep it in & be rewarded or be a brat and spit it out of my own accord to intice punishment!<snip>

IMO, that means the punishment is merely a game OR the wrong punishment if the sub is excited about making it happen.

 

[DVS]

IMO, that means the punishment is merely a game OR the wrong punishment if the sub is excited about making it happen.

The way I read it, she was excited, but knew opening her mouth to moan or scream in reaction to that excitment would mean dropping the bit. If she dropped the bit, she would be punished. That was her delema.

I also see your point about it being merely a game, but I don't understand what you mean by the wrong punishment, because the punishment itself was never mentioned.

As for using punishment in a game, I do that quite often. I think this goes back to something that has plagued me in some of my recent posts. A lot of people on this forum consider punishment in it's purest form...to repremand someone and/or their actions.

Just as in the old days of our childhoods, to be punished wasn't fun at all. But as I use the word, it can be fun, to a point. And, I have also recently said that maybe I should include the word "play" in front, when I'm talking about punishment in that way so to make the distinction.

Just like in my last post, I think words can be used to stimulate someone, depending on the situation. And the word punishment is in that group. I'm not sure how TeachMeSir meant to use it in that post, but why does punishment always have to have that singular definition?

I never punish in real life. Partly because I'm not in a 24/7 relationship, but also because I don't consider myself to be on a higher level than my play partner, such as a daddy or Master. I consider myself on equal terms as my partner, in that respect. But, that doesn't mean I won't take control or be the dominant person I enjoy being. It's the Ying and Yang.

She accepts my dominance and she gives me her submission. We share each other and what we both enjoy. And, in that time, I'll challenge her with tasks or skills she must learn. If she doesn't perform to my expectation, she is "punished".

We consider it punishment, because it is usually in the form of pain, such as a paddle or whip, or some form of torment. But, the way I administer it is within the sexual mindset of play. Then, she is given another chance to perform and if the result isn't satisfactory, she is punished again.

It's a version of the carrot and the stick. And using the word punishment gives it the mental image I want it to have. It is a form of correction, but not because of something she did in real life that displeased me, like a rule she broke, or a word she wasn't suppose to say, or a temper tantrum or brat attack, or any other reason one might consider punishment necessary.

Shoot...I'll take a submissive over my lap and spank her, just because she has a very spankable ass. And if she asks me why she was spanked, I'll tell her it was her fault, for having such a tempting behind. It's her fault for having such a sexy body. It's her fault for looking and acting so submissive that it makes me feel that much more dominant and powerful.

It's never my fault. I'll always make it her fault. But, it's all within the act of play. Play punishment might sometimes be very harsh or on the edge of the pain threshold for a specific submissive, but it's never used without some other form of sexual stimulation that will ultimately end up in orgasm. Maybe it's just me, but I like to cause pain. I don't like to do it just for the sake of pain, so I incorporate it into play. I still get to have my fun, no matter what.

It's also probably more than likely that she's tied up and can't stop me from doing it.


Sorry, if I went overboard with this. Lately, it seems I've been pretty wordy with some of my posts. Consider it just a little punishment.

 

[FurryFury]

No problem DVS, I merely meant that if someone wants to make punishment come to them, the so called punishment isn't really punishment to them at all.

Now, as I've said before that's fine if both parties are on board with the idea that the punishment is a fun game for both people.



I'd much rather be spanked because we both enjoy it than because I was "bad." Cause that's BS, I'm rarely, if ever, bad.

 

[TeachMeSir]

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[DVS]

...I'd much rather be spanked because we both enjoy it than because I was "bad." Cause that's BS, I'm rarely, if ever, bad.

You're rarely, if ever, bad? Did you forget that little disclaimer that's often used? You know...the :coughliecough: one?

If not, don't you think you should warn anyone who might be near you right now to stand back? No need to test God's aim with that bold of lightening. The least you can do is give him a clean shot.

 

[FurryFury]

You're rarely, if ever, bad? Did you forget that little disclaimer that's often used? You know...the :coughliecough: one?

If not, don't you think you should warn anyone who might be near you right now to stand back? No need to test God's aim with that bold of lightening. The least you can do is give him a clean shot.

LOL!

I'm not worried. That's how very good a girl I am!

 

[DVS]

You're probably right. Truthfully, I don't think I would spit it out. I'd rather be "punished" as a way to learn than as a game I instigated (for i don't believe that a game would be "punishment"?). And if I honestly felt that my limit was being pushed and I had to spit it out I trust that my Master would do whatever he felt best to make me more as he desires, without actually dismissing my efforts.

I know that others find this a harder limit and in no way suggest that anybody push themselves beyond comfort. If it's not for them & they and their PYL have agreed that the limit won't be pushed than it shouldn't be. For me it is a limit I want my Master to push, while other limits I have are pretty much set for now. But then again, who knows?

I do occassionally like to be a bit "cheeky" though. As long as he knows that it is simply bratty behaviour and my way of enticing him to use me and in no way do i mean it disrespectfully. I am lucky to have a Master who accepts this occassionally, and I am very aware that it is only approiate in certain situations otherwsie it could be seen as "topping form the bottom".

No offense to anyone at all, here. And, TeachMeSir, I think you did a fine job of explaining your post. But, something in it just triggered something in my mind, here. And that's not a bad thing, so don't worry. I'm usually harmless at a distance.

I guess I'm just different or maybe the word is unique. I don't care about titles such as Master or Dom. I only use them to be understood by others. Equally, I don't need slave and submissive as a pyl, but those words can be sexually stimulating when used in play, so I do like to have them available.

I'm just a guy who likes what he likes. I don't really adhere to any rules of Gor, or BDSM hierachy or such. If it means I'm not following the rules of a Dom and submissive relationship and should consider myself just a top and my partner just a bottom, that's more than fine with me. I would never care if someone tried topping from the bottom. I'm confident in my skin to take control, in such a situation. I'd probably enjoy it, too. And, I don't think it would even damage the scene.

But, I'm always socially correct in that I aim to please my partner. Pleasure is my game. I just take a painful path to it, sometimes. My partners all know what I expect from them, in the beginning. I'll always be truthful and make sure they understand what they're getting into. Because I don't do things the way some people do, I kind of like that. I'm a rogue, perhaps. Or is that more correctly Rogue?

 

[DVS]

LOL!

I'm not worried. That's how very good a girl I am!

Just the same, there are to be thunder storms in your area, today. Might I suggest to at least stay inside, out of the storm? God works in mysterious ways. He might not get you now, thinking you will eventually come to your senses and fess up. But, I think by tonight, he'll assume you aren't going to change your ways and...well, thunderstorms do have lightening in them. I'm just giving you a friendly "heads up" and nothing more. If you prefer to tempt your fate, so be it. I hope he aims squarely for your ass. Kind of like a strong violet wand.

Could you be sure to post tomorrow, so we know he spared you?

 

[FurryFury]

LMAO!

Sure thing!

 

[TeachMeSir]

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[DVS]

DVS,
I have read many of your posts & have to say that while you may be harmless at a distance I don't know that I would put anything past you up close!

Have you read my stories? Don't be fibbin' to me, now. Just so you know, get me close to an electrical socket and I can shock the hell out of 'ya.

Just kidding. I really don't have to be that close. I have some very long extension cords.

Repeat after me...Electricity is our friend. Electricity is our friend. You there, in the back. LOUDER! Electricity is our friend. Electricity is our friend.

Very good people. Very good. Now, don't forget who taught you this phrase.

But, other than my little fetishes, I'm very vanilla.

 

[FurryFury]

Reporting in:

God either has terrible aim, isn't after me or doesn't exist.

Film at 11:00 (of Georgia Dome.)

 

[DVS]

Reporting in:

God either has terrible aim, isn't after me or doesn't exist.

Film at 11:00 (of Georgia Dome.)

Proof that miracles to happen.

 

[TeachMeSir]

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[DVS]

Electricity is our friend. Electricity id our friend. ELECTRICITY IS OUR FRIEND!

Are you sure about that?

Electricity is my friend. We get a long quite well. Electroplay is almost as much of a favorite of mine as anal sex, spanking and bondage. Oh, I can't choose. I love them all equally! Electricity is my friend. Bondage is my friend. Spanking is my friend. OK, I think you get the idea...


Watch out...ZZZZAP! Ha Ha, gotcha when you weren't looking!

 

[FurryFury]

Proof that miracles to happen.

Gee and here I thought it was proof that I'm a good lil girl.

Damn

 

[DVS]

Gee and here I thought it was proof that I'm a good lil girl.

Damn

Were you in or near the Georgia Dome, when all of that was going on? If so, maybe God was just testing his aim for a later date.

I've said it before...if you want to be a good girl, you need to come visit my dongeo...I mean...come visit my home. I'll beat the good girl out of you...I mean I'll bring the good girl out in you.

 

[FurryFury]

Were you in or near the Georgia Dome, when all of that was going on? If so, maybe God was just testing his aim for a later date.

I've said it before...if you want to be a good girl, you need to come visit my dongeo...I mean...come visit my home. I'll beat the good girl out of you...I mean I'll bring the good girl out in you.

Sounds good to me!

I wasn't within a hundred miles of the place btw. It's in the South though and of course, so am I!