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Like hmmmmm nooo love it -- grin thanks Jenn and chin up. smile.
 
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Jenn,

This is such an erotic shot. My mind wanders and wavers as I look at it. I would be conflicted, should I just sit there and admire your beautiful body or should I dream of laying underneath of you as you sit on me, my hands tracing that lovely curve of your back,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
 
Thank you so much Jen, another fantastic pic....oops, I amnot meant to be jerking off am i....oh well.
 
Seems appropriate to take a new pic and post it... Hope you like.

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Very nice, and very, um, stimulating.

What a great way to start the day . . . . . seeing you is even better than a beautiful sunrise, and more stimulating than coffee . . . . . a lot more!
 
Yeah I know, it just feels that way sometimes. However, this shot came out pretty good. I've gotten it framed and plan on giving it to my bf for his birthday in November. We'll see though how the email photo goes. I still haven't heard from him yet, maybe he's out or maybe he just doesn't like getting nude photos of his girlfriend. If he out, then that's good, if it's the other... then I'm afraid he's out.

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This is such a beautiful shot! I love your style and technique. You are quite and inspiration.
 
He didn't really like it too much... I'm in the process of reaccessing now. While I really do like him a lot, he's funny and makes me feel special, I'm afraid that in the long run, this just can't work. So.... We'll see I guess, but as of right now, it's not looking good for a long term arrangement.

I'm such a fussy bitch aren't I?

No, you're not. Like most sensibly smart people (male or female) why just settle? I refuse to. No one should when it comes to "who you are" and if he cannot simply accept this part of your life, well...his loss. Hell, what's the big deal? You aren't posting pics to find a fuck buddy...it is just playful, sexy fun! I would GLADLY allow the woman in my life to do this if it turned her on. Send me sexy, erotic self-taken photos of yourself ANYtime. I'd eat that up...figuratively speaking, of course! ;)
 
Hi Jenn,

I don’t want to beat this to death. You’ve seen the advice from the others here. We all want to help. It’s almost like you’re a part of our lives and we want what’s best for you. I hope we don’t sound like over-protective parents, and you’re sitting there rolling your eyes at our diatribe. ;-) For what it’s worth, you sound like you’re already aware this relationship doesn’t have a long-term future. That’s your decision and yours alone. The comments you’ve relayed such as “can you get the pictures back”, “no nude beaches”, and “I just don’t want other guys jerking-off to you” expose an underlying insecurity that will only grow more pronounced. As Margaret Mead said, “Jealously doesn’t show how much you love someone, it shows how insecure you are”. As always happens, the tighter he tries to hang-on, the harder you’ll fight to get away. While there may have been things in his past that have caused this insecurity, or he’s just too broken to fix from prior relationships, you and you alone should decide what’s best for you. Of course there’s lots of free psychological advice here… ;-) Be happy Jenn, you deserve it! A thousand times thank you, for sharing your beauty and talents with us. We are better for the experience!
 
Hi Jenn,

I don’t want to beat this to death. You’ve seen the advice from the others here. We all want to help. It’s almost like you’re a part of our lives and we want what’s best for you. I hope we don’t sound like over-protective parents, and you’re sitting there rolling your eyes at our diatribe. ;-) For what it’s worth, you sound like you’re already aware this relationship doesn’t have a long-term future. That’s your decision and yours alone. The comments you’ve relayed such as “can you get the pictures back”, “no nude beaches”, and “I just don’t want other guys jerking-off to you” expose an underlying insecurity that will only grow more pronounced. As Margaret Mead said, “Jealously doesn’t show how much you love someone, it shows how insecure you are”. As always happens, the tighter he tries to hang-on, the harder you’ll fight to get away. While there may have been things in his past that have caused this insecurity, or he’s just too broken to fix from prior relationships, you and you alone should decide what’s best for you. Of course there’s lots of free psychological advice here… ;-) Be happy Jenn, you deserve it! A thousand times thank you, for sharing your beauty and talents with us. We are better for the experience!

What he said.

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Emmmmm , SweetHeart,
I am enjoying todays picture and wishing for a shot a little lower showing you juicey lil ole kittie. :p :devil:
Good Morning Darlin. I am glad to see you posting more.
 
YES! I DO! I can see this morning's sun does ur lovely body extreme justice!As for the BF Jen just go with your heart on it; no one is worth having who does not appreciate you for who you really are, if you have to 'hide' the real you then you will be a miserable person! I know all will go well for you; you are a quality person and will find the right long term one!:rose:

Seems appropriate to take a new pic and post it... Hope you like.

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He liked the picture, he likes me... he thinks I'm sexy and all that, he just thought I was indiscreet in sending that sort of picture through email. As he said, anyone could see me like that. I told him that wasn't really a problem with me, I didn't mind, but he said it was one for him, he didn't want to share me with other men.

I told him that he wasn't sharing me with anyone, but just the fact that someone else might see me nude bothers him. I asked about going to a nude or topless beach and he just laughed like I'd made a great joke. I just kind of smiled at him and then asked what he thought about one of my old boyfriends being a photographer and maybe photographing me naked. He just asked if I was able to get the pictures back when we broke up. Continuing to smile, I nodded that I had but asked if it bothered him that I had done that.

Well, he said, as long as you got the pictures back, I guess not, I just don't want some other guy jerking off looking at pictures of you, that's all.

The conversation went along like that, no contentions or real emotional moments, but I kind of felt like someone just let the air out of my balloon. I really think this one is over, it'll take a while for it to run it's course yet, but the excitement has gone out of the relationship. I was really hoping to be able to share this side of myself and now know that I can't... not with him.

This is an important part of who I am and so decisions have to be made. I don't feel a need to just end it, but I think it's time to start opening myself to other possibilities.

Seems appropriate to take a new pic and post it... Hope you like.

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Jennifer,

I'm very sorry this fun guy doesn't have the ability to accept you fully as you are. We've all come to know you pretty intimately on this thread (though surely there are parts of you you've chosen not to share here), and I think we've all seen enough to know that you are... quite amazing on many levels, in addition to being profoundly erotic and beautiful. Someone totally worthy of acceptance on the deepest and most intimate levels. There is nothing that matches being seen, known and fully appreciated by one who can accept every aspect of ourselves. I wish that for you most sincerely.

Now, the photo you posted... Jen... you keep claiming to get older, and while I'm sure that you are, chronologically, your photos somehow continue to get more and more beautiful. This is one of your best ever. Totally delicious. Thank you.

Nathan
 
Seems appropriate to take a new pic and post it... Hope you like.

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Lovely, thanks for sharing. Sorry about the boyfriend thing. While he may have let the air out of the relationship, it is worth noting the number of people here whom adore you and appreciate you.

Certainly real time always wins out, but I'm guessing other things besides the pictures weighed in on your feelings.
 
Thanks guys...

You always make me feel so good. I'm not quite giving up yet on my relationship, but I have drawn a mental line in the sand. We'll just see how he deals with all this. He may come around a little or not. If not, then I'm afraid that I have to agree with your assessments, he'll have to go no matter how nice he might be. He's a sweet guy which I really like, but he also needs to be a little bit of a bad boy sometimes. He just hasn't figured out when that is.

Oh well, there's nothing I can do about that. Sometimes I also get this feeling that he sort of thinks I live to serve his needs. It's not a major thing yet, but I think that sort of fits in when his attitude about other guys seeing me. It's kind of a control thing.

I like control sometimes, but I'm never "the little woman"... I find that demeaning and just won't tolerate.

So I guess as some of you have surmised, it's not just this one thing that's affecting my decision, but a number of nuances that are coloring my opinion.

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There!! You did it again. Jenn, your intelligence jumps out again. :)
I only wish you were close enough to give you real life kisses and huggzzz.
Spicey
 
He didn't really like it too much... I'm in the process of reaccessing now. While I really do like him a lot, he's funny and makes me feel special, I'm afraid that in the long run, this just can't work. So.... We'll see I guess, but as of right now, it's not looking good for a long term arrangement.

I'm such a fussy bitch aren't I?

I do not think you are fussy at all. After several of your posts, I think you have his basic tendecies down exactly correct. I totally understand how you are feeling...
Thank you for continuinig to share with us. You are an incredibly unique person and I appreciate your honesty here.
 
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