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I broke up with Eric today. He doesn't understand, but I do. He's not the one.

Somewhere he's seeking me and me him.

I'll know in my bones when we've found each other. I really did love Eric, but not at the cost he wanted. I feel so much better now that this is resolved.

That's a sure sign I've made the right choice even if the painful one right now.

Sorry to hear your relationship with Eric didn't work out. It's very sad when you realize that the person you had such high hopes for is not "the one" after all.

But you're an intelligent, creative and attractive woman. I'm sure there are other men out there who will be attracted to you, and who will be a better match for you.
 
I broke up with Eric today. He doesn't understand, but I do. He's not the one.

Somewhere he's seeking me and me him.

I'll know in my bones when we've found each other. I really did love Eric, but not at the cost he wanted. I feel so much better now that this is resolved.

That's a sure sign I've made the right choice even if the painful one right now.

Jenn,

I hope the pain of such a decision passes quickly. Been there, done that. Kudos to you for being true to yourself. I firmly believe that there is one right person out there for all of us. I just hate waiting....:D
 
I really did love Eric, but not at the cost he wanted. I feel so much better now that this is resolved.

That's a sure sign I've made the right choice even if the painful one right now.

You're right about that, it is painful now but it will be much less now then if you had waited. It's really good you were able to recognize it before you were into it too long too. Good luck to you, surely you will find that guy that will be all you want him to be and until then well you have plenty of guys here that fit that bill ;)
 
I think you did the right thing by breaking up with him. As you said, the relief you felt afterwards just confirms he's not the one for you. Also, I agree, he is out there looking for you just as you are for him, hang in there ;)
 
I broke up with Eric today. He doesn't understand, but I do. He's not the one.

Somewhere he's seeking me and me him.

I'll know in my bones when we've found each other. I really did love Eric, but not at the cost he wanted. I feel so much better now that this is resolved.

That's a sure sign I've made the right choice even if the painful one right now.

sorry it's over and glad you are relieved
 
I feel bad...

poor Eric....
but he just wasn't going to get the best out of a perfect situation...

now...

some OTHER guy is going to get a chance to live in HEAVEN!

So... that is a GREAT THING!
 
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I broke up with Eric today. He doesn't understand, but I do. He's not the one.

Somewhere he's seeking me and me him.

I'll know in my bones when we've found each other. I really did love Eric, but not at the cost he wanted. I feel so much better now that this is resolved.

That's a sure sign I've made the right choice even if the painful one right now.

Sorry you're feeling pain, but glad you resolved this for yourself. Feel better, darlin'.
 
Hi Jenn,

We always tend to mold ourselves to the other person. Some do it in a slight way, and some do it in a way that loses their original identity. A slight compromise is one thing, but as you said, the cost was too high in this case. Break-ups are often difficult, but you seem confident that this was the correct decision. Hugs for any pain this may cause, roses :rose: for your decision to remain the wonderful person you are, and kisses :kiss: just because we care...
 
I broke up with Eric today. He doesn't understand, but I do. He's not the one.

Somewhere he's seeking me and me him.

I'll know in my bones when we've found each other. I really did love Eric, but not at the cost he wanted. I feel so much better now that this is resolved.

That's a sure sign I've made the right choice even if the painful one right now.

:rose:
 
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I broke up with Eric today. He doesn't understand, but I do. He's not the one.

Somewhere he's seeking me and me him.

I'll know in my bones when we've found each other. I really did love Eric, but not at the cost he wanted. I feel so much better now that this is resolved.

That's a sure sign I've made the right choice even if the painful one right now.

Our hearts are with you, Jen. Even when it's the right choice, it still hurts.

Thinking of you...

Nathan
 
This has been a facinating mini-therapy session Literotica Style. Glad that you feel better about the situation now Jenn. Cheers.
 
Hi Jenn,

Just checking-in to see how you're doing... We miss you, and hope all is well. :kiss:
 
Hey all,

I know this request is not "cool" per se, but I'm such a big Jennifer01 fan and I've missed her, and some of her posts. Does anyone have some of those more explicit shots she's posted, the bj series for example? I'd love to see them and promise not to make them go viral.

Your right on that one Your being very uncool about it ... It's Jenn's thread and those are Her photos not the worlds to share .. enough of the Ladies have had their picts stolen and reposted else where .. You are one gut less wonder play4fun
 
Hi Jenn,

We always tend to mold ourselves to the other person. Some do it in a slight way, and some do it in a way that loses their original identity. A slight compromise is one thing, but as you said, the cost was too high in this case. Break-ups are often difficult, but you seem confident that this was the correct decision. Hugs for any pain this may cause, roses :rose: for your decision to remain the wonderful person you are, and kisses :kiss: just because we care...

There's a tough balance between compromises/sacrifices and totally changing one's identity for your special other that is hard to find and maintain. Jenn, I wish you best of luck in coping with the loss, because while it sounds like it was the right thing to do, it doesn't change the fact that you love him and love ain't a light switch. It takes time for that sort of stuff to fully resolve in one's own mind. My good energy and wishes and all that good stuff goes out to you and I hope you can find someone who can appreciate you for you. I know you will =)
 
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Jen, hey - you made the right decision honey! From my experience if you have to change who you are then you actually become lost in the relationship and loose that part of you that IS you. The right one will not require you to change; nor will he control you; you will compliment one another and hopefully live happily ever after with your wonderful LIT family!!!:rose:Hell, who knows 'the ONE' maybe here on LIT! LOL:heart:
 
I know you often take sabaticals but it's been a while since you visited, Jenn! I hope all is well with you, darling.
 
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