Judgy Pants 😮

[Shi_One81]

Do you feel you are or would be judged for posting on certain threads throughout the Lit boards?

This is something I struggled with for years on here, should I or shouldn’t I post? If be had some salacious posts I’ve made thrown back in my face and was most definitely judged. Has that happened to you? Or are you the one doing the judging?

Discuss…

 

[AnalCreampieGiver]

When I first started coming here, I felt that way but now I don't really care if they judge me or not and with a username like mine, they're going to judge unless they're into it lol

 

[Shi_One81]

When I first started coming here, I felt that way but now I don't really care if they judge me or not and with a username like mine, they're going to judge unless they're into it lol

That’s how I’ve gotten as well. I don’t give a fuck anymore but now I’m wondering how many connections I missed out on from being afraid to post. The world may never know…

 

[Justabaldguy70]

Don’t be afraid to post as people can read a sentence and take it many different ways. That has happened to me and a humorous sentence was taken out of content. It happens

 

[lacandy]

Absolutely!

I think that after so many years of being here people see me as a certain way, so in my head I feel like I have to “stay in my lane”. Which I guess is weird because that’s why I come to Lit because I ALWAYS maintain the “good girl” appearance in real life and want to stray from that..I haven’t done a great job of that I guess.

I wonder too if the women here feel this way more than the men?

 

[TomTeacher19]

I don't want to speak for anyone else so I'll avoid the men vs women question, but I have definitely felt judged and definitely been judged many times here for posting in some of the threads and even as I've gotten more comfortable there still are some I avoid. I don't know that I think it's a Lit specific thing - the world is full of very judgemental people everywhere unfortunately.

 

[cdstefi]

If people want to judge, let them, ignore and move on. Just express what you want to and appreciate those who like it. Life's too short to give a fuck what judges and haters think!

 

[Shi_One81]

Absolutely!

I think that after so many years of being here people see me as a certain way, so in my head I feel like I have to “stay in my lane”. Which I guess is weird because that’s why I come to Lit because I ALWAYS maintain the “good girl” appearance in real life and want to stray from that..I haven’t done a great job of that I guess.

I wonder too if the women here feel this way more than the men?

I wonder this as well. I know when someone used their judgy pants on me a few years ago it was another woman.

It was just a thought rolling around in my head this morning when I was on the Fetish and Sexuality board.

 

[hotoldrguy]

I really do not worry about being judged anymore. Life is too short. There are always judgy people around on line and IRL. Fuck em

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

I do what I want.

There are threads I avoid but mostly cause I know the sense of humor and/or type of energy I bring ain’t what they’re about and I try to be respectful, unless it’s REALLY funny.

But as others have touched on, if I can’t be true to myself here where the fuck can I be?

 

[Playwithmee]

Do you feel you are or would be judged for posting on certain threads throughout the Lit boards?

This is something I struggled with for years on here, should I or shouldn’t I post? If be had some salacious posts I’ve made thrown back in my face and was most definitely judged. Has that happened to you? Or are you the one doing the judging?

Discuss…

I never judge just embrace, and this is a place you should feel safe to explore your every desire. Leave those who judge behind.

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

Absolutely, 100% fear the judgement of posting in certain areas of Lit so I don't. Even though this is an "open minded and safe place" for all things erotic, that doesn't always work that way. Since I've played it mostly safe, I don't believe I've encountered it personally. However, I've definitely seen people get treated poorly for what they've posted and what they've shared.

 

[MrMakersMark]

Everyone judges. All the time.
Anyone who claims not to isn't being honest with themselves. Or they just haven't spent enough time in reflection to be aware they are doing it.
It's inadvertent. It's just part of being a member of our shared species.

The issue isn't with judgement.
Judgement from one individual to another, especially between people who are essentially strangers, is irrelevant.

The problem with an individual judging another, especially in open forums like this one, is the often malicious attempt to isolate, influence or cause harm to another based on their character, actions or feelings.

Make your judgements carefully and in silence, then choose to associate or disassociate.

 

[Azuldrgon]

Do you feel you are or would be judged for posting on certain threads throughout the Lit boards?

This is something I struggled with for years on here, should I or shouldn’t I post? If be had some salacious posts I’ve made thrown back in my face and was most definitely judged. Has that happened to you? Or are you the one doing the judging?

Discuss…

I'm too old to care either way.
*hugs @Shi_One81 *

 

[HeavyBalls]

Do you feel you are or would be judged for posting on certain threads throughout the Lit boards?

This is something I struggled with for years on here, should I or shouldn’t I post? If be had some salacious posts I’ve made thrown back in my face and was most definitely judged. Has that happened to you? Or are you the one doing the judging?

Discuss…

Sadly a recurring fear...

 

[Neanderthal247]

Do you feel you are or would be judged for posting on certain threads throughout the Lit boards?

This is something I struggled with for years on here, should I or shouldn’t I post? If be had some salacious posts I’ve made thrown back in my face and was most definitely judged. Has that happened to you? Or are you the one doing the judging?

Discuss…

No


I am usually the Judgemental one, but I learned to let people be and mind my business

 

[cdstefi]

I know most sane people stay away from the Politics Board, but it's so infested with incel Proud Boy wannabes, Trumpies and homophobes, I've taken to just dropping pics of my ass into particularly obnoxious threads.

Let em judge and call names like the kindergarten-level intelligences they are, I don't give a fuck and enjoy getting a rise out of them

 

[Grant55]

Do you feel you are or would be judged for posting on certain threads throughout the Lit boards?

This is something I struggled with for years on here, should I or shouldn’t I post? If be had some salacious posts I’ve made thrown back in my face and was most definitely judged. Has that happened to you? Or are you the one doing the judging?

Discuss…

After my first post/ thread here, it was all up hill.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I don’t mind if someone judges me.
Sometimes I post in far off, provocative threads on Lit just to see if anyone is stalking and judging me.
So far, no one is.

 

[kathyisgr65]

Do you feel you are or would be judged for posting on certain threads throughout the Lit boards?

This is something I struggled with for years on here, should I or shouldn’t I post? If be had some salacious posts I’ve made thrown back in my face and was most definitely judged. Has that happened to you? Or are you the one doing the judging?

Discuss…

Yes and I have...done ppl start threads w the specific purpose of shaming and harassing u for answering honestly...

 

[Shi_One81]

I don’t mind if someone judges me.
Sometimes I post in far off, provocative threads on Lit just to see if anyone is stalking and judging me.
So far, no one is.

I started doing the same lol
I’m fucking posting in Fetish and Sexuality judgement be damned!

 

[Wonderer67]

I started doing the same lol
I’m fucking posting in Fetish and Sexuality judgement be damned!

Good for you, who gives a fuck what other people think?

go for it!

 

[Seokrocks]

I started doing the same lol
I’m fucking posting in Fetish and Sexuality judgement be damned!

I’m only judging you for not posting in my inbox! **though maybe it would help if I messaged you first.

 

[Deadfreak]

It IS called Literotica so I figure anyone who is on here is in touch, touching or finding their sexuality traits.
I see forums as a big ole "Adult" shop. I know some people are doing just about everything in that back section, I see folks shopping in the anal section. There's a section for every type of couple and there's a spot for solo masturbation. Some people are looking at lingerie and some the "good" handcuffs. Some people like movies and I'm just here for the hetro vanilla magazines because I was born in the 70s.

I totally enjoy chatting and joking with everyone I've seen in line for the checkout and we shouldn't be judged because everyone has a thing.

 

[kathyisgr65]

It IS called Literotica so I figure anyone who is on here is in touch, touching or finding their sexuality traits.
I see forums as a big ole "Adult" shop. I know some people are doing just about everything in that back section, I see folks shopping in the anal section. There's a section for every type of couple and there's a spot for solo masterbation. Some people are looking at lingerie and some the "good" handcuffs. Some people like movies and I'm just here for the hetro vanilla magazines because I was born in the 70s.

I totally enjoy chatting and joking with everyone I've seen in line for the checkout and we shouldn't be judged because everyone has a thing.

Don't assume anything..