Just had first time anal

[TBKahuna123]

9) Now slide it back to her anus, and put just your head it.

10) Slide back to her vagina. Put it in, but only the head this time.

11) Repeat this new movement about 10-20, once you feel a little precum about to rise do step 12.

Nooooo..... Bad idea! Don't ever put something in your ass then back in your vagina! That's a fucking infection just waiting to happen. No good can come of this.

I have a much easier technique. Lots of lube. Start with a finger. Move to two, insert penis. Slow and lots of lube. That's all it takes really, slow and lots of lube.

Again never go from ass to vagina. I can't stress how bad an idea that is.

 

[Sybarist]

TBK, that guys info must come from "all the things I need to know about anal sex I learned from cheap-ass porn"!!

First time me and hubby tried anal it came about from me bugging him, and things didn't go that well- I know now I was WAY too tense... We tried again about a year later and things went much better, heck I even enjoyed it, but we haven't done it since as he says it's not that big of a deal...

I think the whole appeal of anal sex does come from the brain and the whole taboo thing- "it's dirty and nice girls (or boys) don't want it" thing. Then once you try it you realize it's not a big deal and don't need to do it anymore.

Syb.

 

[justaguyinbama]

My ex enjoyed anal. She had done it before and introduced me to it. To me it is over rated. I mean it was enjoyable but I'd could do without it. If my partner wanted it then I'd do it but its not something I would try to convince my partner to do if she was unsure about trying it.

 

[Eilan]

I used this technique on a girl named Olivia, and I kept her cumming, and I was happy with the anal sex I got to perform!

I'm sure Olivia was happy with that massive infection you gave her. Would it have been from ass-to-pussy sex or not using condoms?

Edit--Sybarist, I noticed you just hit 100 posts. Congrats!

 

[Sybarist]

Thanks Eilan, got my avatar picked out and everything!!

 

[greenmands]

My GF and I tried it twice. Each time she started screaming 'harder, harder'. Both times she orgasmed so hard she fainted. Scared the living hell out of me till I made sure she was breathing and had a pulse. Afterward, she decided never again since she was sore each time for days. That she didn't enjoy.

 

[FurryFury]

Wha? Never again? Not that big a deal? Geez!

I don't get you guys. I like having as many options as possible.

The difference between fucking a puss that has some rough ridges to begin with and then although tight gets wetter and more expanding, occasionally squeezing on you or fucking an ass that starts tight and stays tight all the way down isn't fun and interesting enough to bring you back for more? Each night you get to decide which or perhaps if you have it in you, both, one after the other for hygienic reasons.

I've always loved fucking. I love ass fucking too. Asking me to only do one or the other would be like asking me to stick to one flavor of ice cream, it just isn't going to happen, ever.

Those are only two flavors, there are more and almost infinite variations of all of them. Oh the things we can do!

Fury

 

[Halo_n_horns]

hey all, I'm a bit new here to forum, and I was hoping y'all could give me a bit of insight into the world of the bum. My girlfriend and I just had anal for the first time last night - something that we both had agreed on trying for a few weeks now - and I was a little unimpressed. We took it very slowly, used lots of lube, and I kept her in control of the pace, and I dunno, I remember thinking to myself afterwards, 'can she even cum from this?' Because as stimulated as I was, I definitely got the sense that it was a terribly one sided event, which really soured the mood for me as well. I was wondering if it's one of things that gets better with time, or if she is supposed to achieve orgasm from just penetration, or if it just heightens other sexual stimulation.
thanks,

I'm not reading the whole thread so sorry if I'm regurgitating something here ...

SHE NEEDS to be the person who is really into it. That means she really needs to be in touch with herself sexually, figuratively and literally. The better she knows that part of herself and her sexuality as a whole, the more pleasure you'll both derive from it. If she's just giving the old "hhmm and hah" routine, then she's not all that interested to begin and the two of you won't get much out of it.

BOTH OF YOU should check out https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=327313
as well as The Blank Manual https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=243894
and go from there.

Keep us informed.

 

[asian_princess]

Wha? Never again? Not that big a deal? Geez!

I don't get you guys. I like having as many options as possible.

The difference between fucking a puss that has some rough ridges to begin with and then although tight gets wetter and more expanding, occasionally squeezing on you or fucking an ass that starts tight and stays tight all the way down isn't fun and interesting enough to bring you back for more? Each night you get to decide which or perhaps if you have it in you, both, one after the other for hygienic reasons.

I've always loved fucking. I love ass fucking too. Asking me to only do one or the other would be like asking me to stick to one flavor of ice cream, it just isn't going to happen, ever.

Those are only two flavors, there are more and almost infinite variations of all of them. Oh the things we can do!

Fury

can't imagine anyone reading this who didn't indulge in some backdoor nookie last night!! those are some hot hot word you wrote there Fury...

also, can't for the life of me imagine why but having an insatiable craving for ice cream...

 

[Sybarist]

Wha? Never again? Not that big a deal? Geez!

I don't get you guys. I like having as many options as possible.

Furry, I never said it was MY choice to never do it again.

I still work on trying a repeat performance, but until then there are lots of other things you can use to fill in for PIA sex right? He doesn't think those are "no big deal" let me tell you......

 

[FurryFury]

can't imagine anyone reading this who didn't indulge in some backdoor nookie last night!! those are some hot hot word you wrote there Fury...

also, can't for the life of me imagine why but having an insatiable craving for ice cream...

*snickers*

Glad you enjoyed my words Asian Princess!

*grins*

Back door and icecream umm!

Fury

Furry, I never said it was MY choice to never do it again.

I still work on trying a repeat performance, but until then there are lots of other things you can use to fill in for PIA sex right? He doesn't think those are "no big deal" let me tell you......

I understand working with a reluctant partner on some things. Yes, there are plenty of other things to do. Good luck Sybarist in your quest!

Fury

 

[ickle_stace]

Uhh sorry about that.

*zips his fly*



Blah blah blah, man it's always us "pressuring" you isn't it? Sad thing is, yeah it usually is and every woman who's been "pressured" into it doesn't like it. Why? BECAUSE THEY'VE BEEN PRESSURED INTO IT!

If you really want it and your girl just isn't into it, you can do one of two things. Slowly build up and "coax" her into it. There is a difference. If/When it finally happens it will be her choosing it to happen, not her giving in. Trust me this is much more fulfilling. The second thing you can do is just fucking deal with it! If she is absolutely against it, then just let it go and be happy you're getting laid int he first place!

The problem is the guys who pressure their girlfriends into anal sex don't knwo what the fuck their doing anyway. Stace, you should NOT get sick from anal sex, so obviously he was doing something wrong. This is classic inexperienced male lover at work here. Hell I know, I did it too! I ws young and dumb once. Maybe that's why I'm on a tirade.

Sorry, lost my head for a minute there. I'm just sick of hearing the same lame story over and over. Assholes fucking it up for the rest of us decent guys.

EDIT: Assholes fucking it up? Wow that's such a bad unintentional pun I have to leave it!

well, the vaginal sex was awful aswell anyway, i would just lay there and wait for it to be over. if he didn't scare me so much i'd have not still have been with him. but all he ever did was put me down, he'd tell me how ugly and fat and worthless i was, and how much better his ex was than me (i was a virgin when i met him, she was a self confessed slapper who had slept with 30 guys before she was legal and cheated on him with 6 guys while he was with her for 3 months). and he used to tell me he'd kill me and stuff if i left him. and well he was a very scary guy, used to hurt me and stuff sometimes.

if he wanted something i gave in for fear of being upset or hurt. I was never really interested in anal sex anyway, but he made me do it, and i hate him for it, and i felt so ill.

maybe one day i'll try it with the right guy, but not if he's pressuring me into it.

I just started seeing a new guy, and he's lovely he makes me feel like a princess (calls me one too hehe) and he makes me feel wanted, and for the first time in my life i don't want the sex to end hehe i think one day i might try it with him, he's never tried it, but he says if i really don't want to, he'd be happy with that, and i think that trust would make me consider it, so i can see what its supposed to be like, and he can see what he thinks too.

 

[FurryFury]

well, the vaginal sex was awful aswell anyway, i would just lay there and wait for it to be over. if he didn't scare me so much i'd have not still have been with him. but all he ever did was put me down, he'd tell me how ugly and fat and worthless i was, and how much better his ex was than me (i was a virgin when i met him, she was a self confessed slapper who had slept with 30 guys before she was legal and cheated on him with 6 guys while he was with her for 3 months). and he used to tell me he'd kill me and stuff if i left him. and well he was a very scary guy, used to hurt me and stuff sometimes.

if he wanted something i gave in for fear of being upset or hurt. I was never really interested in anal sex anyway, but he made me do it, and i hate him for it, and i felt so ill.

maybe one day i'll try it with the right guy, but not if he's pressuring me into it.

I just started seeing a new guy, and he's lovely he makes me feel like a princess (calls me one too hehe) and he makes me feel wanted, and for the first time in my life i don't want the sex to end hehe i think one day i might try it with him, he's never tried it, but he says if i really don't want to, he'd be happy with that, and i think that trust would make me consider it, so i can see what its supposed to be like, and he can see what he thinks too.

Hey, I know how you feel about that first guy. No one should have to deal with that sort of treatment and it happens all too often. *hugs*

It does make us appreciate the good ones when they come along though doesn't it?

Sounds like you found a good one for you and that is wonderful.

Fury

 

[Kinksville]

My ex loved being ass-fucked

I miss that *sigh*.

I was lucky, she liked it and liked it a lot. She also would come very quickly and very hard when we were doing it like that.

She was a lot more experienced than I was at the point that I met her and knew what she liked and how to do it.

It made it a lot easier when it came to doing things like that.

I second the suggestion to look at the Blank Manual, also check out www.puckerup.com

If it was your first time, then definitely give it a second chance. My first time was exciting because I'd always wanted to try it but in terms of sensation was no big deal.

Later it became if not THE favorite thing then definitely one of the favorite things that we did together.

 

[ickle_stace]

Hey, I know how you feel about that first guy. No one should have to deal with that sort of treatment and it happens all too often. *hugs*

It does make us appreciate the good ones when they come along though doesn't it?

Sounds like you found a good one for you and that is wonderful.

Fury

thanks, he is a good one, i just hope he likes me enough hehe

 

[neonflux]

here! here! my sex educator was about to come out - thanks for beating me to it!!!

Nooooo..... Bad idea! Don't ever put something in your ass then back in your vagina! That's a fucking infection just waiting to happen. No good can come of this.

Again never go from ass to vagina. I can't stress how bad an idea that is.

For anyone doing anal with a woman, even within the confines of a monogamous relationship, safe play is a must in order to avoid giving her a STED (sexually transmitted enteric disease)... we all have bacteria in our colons that can turn nasty when they find their way into other parts of our body...

If you want to go straight from anus to vagina then use a condom for anal - if you're practiced, you should be able to take it off quickly before reaching your other goal... (of course, if your in a non-monogamous situation, it's probably a good idea to use different condoms for both).

Enough of my lecturing, I have tried anal penetration before and disliked it intensely (even anal play with my ex of 14 years - a woman) but for some very specific reasons am suddenly intrigued by the possibilities with a new male partner. Thanks for the tips, advise, resources and experiences offered here.