Kathy's safe place

[ChesterLester6996]

So since this is my safe place im gonna talk..
Why do I lurk on someone who broke my heart?
I heard it referred as pain shopping..
And I don't know how to stop hurting myself..
Vulnerable moment
Don't make fun of me

I would never consider making fun of you.

 

[kathyisgr65]

I would never consider making fun of you.

Ty

 

[ChesterLester6996]

Ty

We all have things in our life that hurts us and we still choose to do it.

If anyone says that they don't then they are lying to themselves.

You are more than welcome gorgeous.

 

[kathyisgr65]

We all have things in our life that hurts us and we still choose to do it.

If anyone says that they don't then they are lying to themselves.

You are more than welcome gorgeous.

Ty..

 

[ChesterLester6996]

Ty..

My pleasure

 

[kathyisgr65]

My pleasure

So
. how's ur weekend going?

 

[ChesterLester6996]

So
. how's ur weekend going?

It's good thanks. Just dodged a hurricane but otherwise good.

How's your weekend?

 

[kathyisgr65]

It's good thanks. Just dodged a hurricane but otherwise good.

How's your weekend?

Holy shit..
Good thing...it missed u
Mines going alright..
Couldn't sleep and got stuck in my head..
But im better now

 

[ChesterLester6996]

Holy shit..
Good thing...it missed u
Mines going alright..
Couldn't sleep and got stuck in my head..
But im better now

Glad to hear.

Yes we caught a good bit of rain and wind but it luckily died down before hitting us.

 

[kathyisgr65]

Glad to hear.

Yes we caught a good bit of rain and wind but it luckily died down before hitting us.

Fuckin mother nature is no joke

 

[richfun]

https://postimg.cc/gallery/dGh07WF

Oh, you are fabulous.

 

[ChesterLester6996]

Fuckin mother nature is no joke

That's the truth!

 

[richfun]

Reminds me of Mary Poppins

Mary Poppins ! Julie Andrews sex Goddess, that accent !

 

[kathyisgr65]

Mary Poppins ! Julie Andrews sex Goddess, that accent !

Her prim and proper self...

 

[richfun]

That's the truth!

Mother Nature should only be fucked with her consent laugh

 

[richfun]

Kathy, lost it a bit. You asked something about lingering where we have been rejected. I thi knot is the animal licking the wound thing.
Anyone who rejects you is not woryh two pence ( 2 cents). They are stupid.
Cure for lost love, new love.

Cure for loneliness is an orgy. Although my experience of that is mainly (but not all ) fantasy.

 

[richfun]

Her prim and proper self...

Indeed, cannot resist that. A Dom, if I ever saw one. Poor "Dick: Van "Dyke" !

 

[richfun]

O

Ty

That nice

 

[richfun]

Lady like Kathy, keeping men in order.
https://share.google/XcescyU4MwUwZxAsu

 

[kathyisgr65]

Lady like Kathy, keeping men in order.
https://share.google/XcescyU4MwUwZxAsu

Haha.. so not what I was imagining when u said ladylike kathy..i guess I was still in Mary Poppins mode

 

[richfun]

Haha.. so not what I was imagining when u said ladylike kathy..i guess I was still in Mary Poppins mode

You doing a great job controlling those wild men !
Think Julie Andrews rebelled against playing the "perfect" nanny roles.
I think in late 60s she played a cross dressing male in the film "Victor Victoria".

 

[richfun]

It was actually a 1982 film, and was nominated for 7 Oscars, winning one.
JA played a woman, who dressed as a man, on and off stage. She teamed up with an openly gay cabaret performer.
Bit diffetent from Mary and Maria !
Cheers
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Victor/Victoria

 

[AZist]

So since this is my safe place im gonna talk..
Why do I lurk on someone who broke my heart?
I heard it referred as pain shopping..
And I don't know how to stop hurting myself..
Vulnerable moment
Don't make fun of me

It sucks whatever it is called. I've thought about this in my case, and for me it breaks down (numbers are pulled straight out my ass but probably):

60% replaying shit I would have said, or said differently, sometimes with hindsight

30% disappointment in self for trusting someone, esp if there is a nagging inner voice saying "I told you so" for any reason

10% is usually shit either specific to them, me, or both

 

[AZist]

Oh, you are fabulous.

mmm I was just having that same thought

 

[kathyisgr65]

It sucks whatever it is called. I've thought about this in my case, and for me it breaks down (numbers are pulled straight out my ass but probably):

60% replaying shit I would have said, or said differently, sometimes with hindsight

30% disappointment in self for trusting someone, esp if there is a nagging inner voice saying "I told you so" for any reason

10% is usually shit either specific to them, me, or both

Yes