Kinky Sex for First Timers

[ChristyDancer]

You need two… maybe three good stripping songs. “I Kissed a Girl” definitely needs to be one, then maybe Christina Agulara’s “Dirrty” and finish up with, oh, I dunno, something by Beyoncé. Dress to strip — front snappping white bra, side-tie g-string, heels, school-girl side-tie plaid skirt, little white school girl socks, black patent leather Mary Jane kitten heels, and a virginal white button-up blouse. You can add a school-girl sweater if you like. Then strip for him, but be sure to make eye contact and don’t lose eye contact. End up with just the heels and socks. Be sure to smile when you drop your bra to the floor.

I would normally suggest you climb on top of him at this point, but depending on the guy, he may be spent already.

 

[Hypnobitch01]

I recommend going on a toy website together and looking at different things. It’s a great way to start talking about things that you both want to try! Also it’s less awkward if you’re both looking together

 

[AnnyMouse28]

I recommend going on a toy website together and looking at different things. It’s a great way to start talking about things that you both want to try! Also it’s less awkward if you’re both looking together

I actually ask to go the sex store that is near where he lives for that very reason. But alas we have never made it there.

 

[Swm_looking4fun]

So, as previously discussed I am French Vanilla and don't have a lot of kinky fantasies. My partner wants me to tell him some kinky thing that I want to try. My problem is that I don't have anything to tell him. Give me your beginners guide to kink so I have something to bring to the bedroom.

Just be yourself. Don’t get pushed into it. If you want romantic love sex don’t settle for an asshole.
We can tell in the moment it’s not your thing.

You are more valuable than a random guys
kink

You’ll leave broken and he will know you weren’t that type.

Find what you want

 

[AnnyMouse28]

Just be yourself. Don’t get pushed into it. If you want romantic love sex don’t settle for an asshole.
We can tell in the moment it’s not your thing.

You are more valuable than a random guys
kink

You’ll leave broken and he will know you weren’t that type.

Find what you want

He is neither an asshole nor a random guy. I would just rather he ask for what HE wants versus me telling him what I want.

 

[Swm_looking4fun]

He is neither an asshole nor a random guy. I would just rather he ask for what HE wants versus me telling him what I want.

Seems like he wants something that you aren’t. Just be honest with yourself.

 

[AnnyMouse28]

Seems like he wants something that you aren’t. Just be honest with yourself.

His wanting something different than what we have been doing does not make him an asshole. He is actually is furthest from an asshole of the guys I have dated in the recent past. The difference is they didn't ask me what I wanted or would like. They just did it.

 

[Hypnobitch01]

I actually ask to go the sex store that is near where he lives for that very reason. But alas we have never made it there.

It’s definitely a lot of fun to browse together, and paired with a meal makes one hell of a date

 

[subdudeme13]

It’s definitely a lot of fun to browse together, and paired with a meal makes one hell of a date

I went shopping with Domme friends. It was at times an education! The things I didn't know!

 

[AnnyMouse28]

It’s definitely a lot of fun to browse together, and paired with a meal makes one hell of a date

I agree. I think it would make for a nice evening.