Ladies, Help a Guy Out

[satindesire]

Yes, unless he is unconscious.

Something you won't understand, because you would need to be a guy to understand it.

Opinions are like assholes.

Every thread has to have one.

 

[infinity706]

Yes, unless he is unconscious.



Something you won't understand, because you would need to be a guy to understand it.

I am a guy and I still think that's stupid.

 

[Primalex]

I am a guy and I still think that's stupid.

The question is, if you understand why this is the case, not if you like it or whether it is political correct.

 

[infinity706]

It isn't the case. I know plenty of guys that like recieving anal and are straight. I'm not even gay myself. I'm bisexual.

 

[Primalex]

It isn't the case. I know plenty of guys that like recieving anal and are straight.

Who says they are straight?

 

[Firebrain]

x x x x x x

 

[infinity706]

Who says they are straight?

They say they're straight and there doesn't seem to be any reason to believe otherwise. Of course, even if all guys that like anal were gay, what difference would it make? Guys are fun. Just ask most of the women here.

 

[Primalex]

Primalex, I really don't think you're going to win the "all men who like arse play are gay" argument, namely because sexuality refers to which sex people like, not which orifice.

I don't intend to win this argument, dear Firebrain. My argument is that the answer to the question "Is this gay?" can be based upon scientific arguments as good as the answer to the question "Is it okay to have sex with the best friend of my friend?"

The question is an emotional one, not a scientific one, it does not at all revolve around physical bodies or orifices or hormones or brain structure, it's about perceptions and opinions.

 

[satindesire]

I don't intend to win this argument, dear Firebrain. My argument is that the answer to the question "Is this gay?" can be based upon scientific arguments as good as the answer to the question "Is it okay to have sex with the best friend of my friend?"

The question is an emotional one, not a scientific one, it does not at all revolve around physical bodies or orifices or hormones or brain structure, it's about perceptions and opinions.

You're entitlted to your own opinions. BUT NOT YOUR OWN FACTS.

Fact: If a man is 100% hetero, has never been attracted to a man, has never been sexual with a man, and will NEVER be attracted to or sexual with another man, he is heterosexual. If he is having sex with his FEMALE GIRLFRIEND and enjoys anal stimulation WITH HIS FEMALE GIRLFRIEND...that is -not- gay. Period.

He's straight. He's doing it WITH a -girl-. That is not gay. Your 'opinion' is wrong.

 

[Pandora73]

Can you make the picture scratch and sniff? Then we can probably offer a more accurate diagnosis.

That is fucking brilliant.

 

[jadefirefly]

You're entitlted to your own opinions. BUT NOT YOUR OWN FACTS.

Fact: If a man is 100% hetero, has never been attracted to a man, has never been sexual with a man, and will NEVER be attracted to or sexual with another man, he is heterosexual. If he is having sex with his FEMALE GIRLFRIEND and enjoys anal stimulation WITH HIS FEMALE GIRLFRIEND...that is -not- gay. Period.

He's straight. He's doing it WITH a -girl-. That is not gay. Your 'opinion' is wrong.

Doesn't get any truthier than this.

If I didn't know better, I'd wonder if the person insisting it is doesn't have a few reservations in the closet himself.

 

[SouthernBBW76]

At this point, I just really hope no one gets a blow job tonight!

 

[satindesire]

That is fucking brilliant.

I lol'ed.

Doesn't get any truthier than this.

If I didn't know better, I'd wonder if the person insisting it is doesn't have a few reservations in the closet himself.

*chuckle*

 

[seemoreme]

Ask your girl friend about it. I would say better shave out your dick when ever you go for sex. Maybe she prefers bald dick. Or there maybe a reason that she dont like doing oral.

 

[NippleMuncher]

Opinions are like assholes.

Every thread has to have one.

You got that right! The only thing this guy knows is how to talk out of his.

 

[Corianne]

Thanks your_vice for the advice. I tried to talk to her again and to her we had to talk if she wanted our relationship to last. She told me to come over to her house. Everything I planned backfired a little. When I got over than rather than talking, she told me to follow her then she ended up giving me a blow job. I almost told her to stop because I know we need to talk, but I am a guy. I warned her I when I was going to cum as some of you thought she didn't want me to cum in her mouth but she kept going until I finished.

She still avoided the conversation as she had to go help her sister with something or that's the excuse she gave me. Even though she did what I wanted I almost feel weird now because I feel like she didn't want to do it but did only because it shut me up and stopped us from talking about the problem. Any further suggestions?

I felt sad upon reading this. I have no idea what's going on your g/f's mind - only she knows and for now,she's not talking. I agree that it's a trust issue. Whatever it is, she doesn't feel comfortable enough with you to speak openly about it. That's never a good sign in a relationship.

From what you said, and from my own past experiences and doing similar things to what your g/f did, sounds like she did it just to get you to shut up about it for now. It's unlikely she enjoyed it. I imagine she feels some resentment toward you for not letting the matter drop until she felt she had to blow you.

When I was younger, less comfortable speaking my own mind, and less secure in my own femininity -- I did things that I didn't really want to do, but that I felt I had to do in order to keep whatever b/f I was with happy. That was the name of the game -- if I don't do "this" or "that," he's going to stop loving me and leave. Needless to say, those relationships didn't last, because they weren't built to last with that sort of a fear foundation. I would resent "having" to do certain things, that resentment would come out in passive aggressive ways, and eventually the relationship imploded.

Further, I stopped enjoying receiving certain things, knowing it was a quid pro quo. It took the fun right out of the whole process.

If getting blow jobs is a deal breaker for you, I think this relationship isn't built to last. For whatever reason, it's not something your current g/f seems to enjoy. I'd suggest trying once more to talk about it -- and do not let the little head lead the way this time. If she says "oh fine! pull it out and let's get this over with" --- don't do it this time. Not if you value her and your relationship -- instead, tell her you really just want to talk about it and that you really don't want her to do anything she doesn't like. But that you wonder why she doesn't like it, and could she tell you why please?

I don't think or feel that sex is akin to negotiation, I think of it as sharing the most intimate parts of ourselves, definitely not a board meeting.

It's kind of sad to think or believe that just because we give then we must receive the same -- life isn't like that. And the cutting her off -- well, how is that germaine to the discussion?

Yes, that takes the eroticism right out of the equation.

Primalex, I really don't think you're going to win the "all men who like arse play are gay" argument, namely because sexuality refers to which sex people like, not which orifice.

Bingo.

 

[Shadowann2]

You're entitlted to your own opinions. BUT NOT YOUR OWN FACTS.

Fact: If a man is 100% hetero, has never been attracted to a man, has never been sexual with a man, and will NEVER be attracted to or sexual with another man, he is heterosexual. If he is having sex with his FEMALE GIRLFRIEND and enjoys anal stimulation WITH HIS FEMALE GIRLFRIEND...that is -not- gay. Period.

He's straight. He's doing it WITH a -girl-. That is not gay. Your 'opinion' is wrong.

QFT. It never ceases to amaze me how ignorant people can be, and then defend their ignorance!

A sex act is what the two people involved in it, say it is! If a woman is using a strap-on with a man, in order to simulate gay sex (mentally and physically), not just because it feels good for him, then my opinion is that the act has gay undertones, but it is still a hetero act, because it is between a man and a woman. But in the end, it is what they decide it is!

 

[hotmommy67]

Can you make the picture scratch and sniff? Then we can probably offer a more accurate diagnosis.

Wow Firebrain...my thoughts exactly.

As for the question at hand, there are only 3 things that would prevent me from giving a blowjob. 1) Hygiene 2) Too much fur....I don't want to floss nor pick hair out of my mouth during sex 3) taste

My ex-husband rarely got me to suck him and when he did, i only once let him cum in my mouth. He was very bitter and definitely did not taste good, even the pre-cum. Every other man I've ever blown has tasted either wonderful or at least more than tolerable. Try some of the things you can do to improve taste. One man I was with before I was married I would literally be begging him to come over so I could blow him because he tasted so good and when I would suck him, he would come pretty fast because it drove him wild, so my jaw wouldn't get tired. I'd blow him this minute if he ever showed up at the door.

 

[silverwhisper]

ah, i see people are making the mistake of paying any mind to primalex.

ed

 

[satindesire]

ah, i see people are making the mistake of paying any mind to primalex.

ed

Lord, doesn't anyone like him anymore? He's become the village pariah of Lit.

 

[Skeebo11]

Trim your cock and nuts!!

Nobody wants a mouth-ful of hair!

Try that