Ladies? Just how sensitive, is your clit?

[Sparky Kronkite]

And by that I mean "sensitive!"

For example: When you masturbate, do you rub it directly? Or kind of off the top, side or bottom? Might you "hold open" your lips for your lover to gain easy access and direct contact with your love bud? Or is that sort of stimulation too intense? And how intense is it? How exactly does it feel? I mean, does it hurt? Is it a sort of pain? Or simply too much? Too good? Like tickelish? And for those of you with sensitive clits - what would happen if your lover "forced" direct stimulation there? Kind of like holding someone down and tickeling them. I really want to know - thanks.

 

[Iris]

Directly on hurts for me. If I were "forced" to be touched or otherwise stimulated there it wouldn't be a pleasurable experience in the least, and I'd end up very upset.

It's not excruciating pain but its irritating and uncomfortable. That's about as well as I can describe it.

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

Really Iris - thanks.

Hmmmmm? Discomfort? Hurts? But not like a tooth ache. Not like a needle prick. Hmmmm?

I tell ya what - ya know how women say, some women, about some men, "hell, he can't even find my clit." Well let me tell you - if the damn thing is so sensitive for some women and the "zone" of feel good is ill defined or even "moves."

Well it's damn frustrating for us men - who so want to please our lover's.

And it would help greatly if "we could feel this, feel what you feel." Of course this is not possible - so the next best thing would be to be told "exactly how it hurts."

I mean - if you can't explain it, or find words to describe it - how the hell are we supposed to figure it out?

I've tried trial and error and it's hugely inconsistant. Sometimes I can make her come like a firecracker and the next time - do the same thing - and nope.

Mystery clit. Man! Ladies here's yer chance - please discuss. Maybe something will click and us men will understand.

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

Now, this fucking kills me......

Nitelight might be right - the board "is" in a downturn. This subject would formerly have "all" the women all over it.

I guess they would prefer to keep their men in the dark. Maintaining the upper hand.

Cunts.

Just kidding laides. Just trying to get a rise out of you.

Bitches from hell. Really, don't mean it.

Fuck all you hoser's. Not really - can't make you cum.

Can't ya take a joke? And how about answering the damn question?

What's the fucking deal on the Mystery Clit shit? Our dicks get "any" kind of stumulation and we cum!!!! How about letting all us dumb fucking dudes in on the stupid shit "you" think we should fucking know cause we're supposed to be so fucking sencitive.

Yeah right. Ya got yer chance right here and you don't take it.

That speaks volumes. Fuck us right?

 

[willfulbrat]

LOL! Okay, Sparky, since you really, really want to know:

It is extremely sensitive. Direct stimulation must be very gentle, although you can use quite a bit of pressure if the clit is not exposed. If exposed, constant friction can be quite irritating, but very light and sporadic friction is nice. I can't speak for the other women here, but for me, touching the area below the clit is enough to drive me wild and can take much more stimulation and pressure. And after climax, DO NOT TOUCH the clit for several minutes. Not at all. But penetration is incredible after a powerful orgasm.

Okay, Spark. Now you know. Hope you put all this knowledge to good use.

 

[jcgirl]

yeah what she said

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

Brat babe? Thanks for having some balls here.

And I do understand - that is what I mostly run into - but - it's obvious that "some women" do like, rough, direct stimulation. No? Really? Explain some prono's? Do these women build some sort of immunity? How can they "rub the shit out of the clit" and not run out of the room?

Clue me in. Ladies, come on - talk to me.

 

[BiBabe:)]

Ok, ok...

My clit is very sensitive at first, but once in the moment, direct stimulation will send me over the edge. It's just wierd. I know how to get off and my girlfriend knows how to get me off. My boyfriend also knows how to get me off, but he dumped me like three days ago . Now, he couldn't get me off. I hate him. Sure, kick a girl when she's down(I'm throwing up like crazy. I am so sick right now.)

I'm sorry, I don't mean to rant on and on, but my clit is very particular. And I can't explain more than that.

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

BiBabe? Thanks!

I think this is a valid clue.

For women (it's obvious, we've all heard) that "mental fram of mind at the time" is very important.

I've observed the Shebabe in many situations (hey, I'm a lucky guy and she's way cool) and the "heat" of the moment is very important. She cums most - when wild shit is goin' down - but she cums strongest when we are alone together and, I don't know - the stars are right.

Ya know? I just want her to cum - bit time - all the time - I love her so much.

I want "my woman" with a big fuckin' grin on her face and bow legged sore - all the fucking time.

It's the least I can do.

 

[TN_Vixen]

sparks?

Alright, but you asked.

Direct stimulation to a woman's clit should never *fully* happen. Clit stimulation in general should be, in my opinion, something that is led up to. Don't go down on me like I'm a big mac for God's sake... take it easy, gentle... almost a whisper of a tongue..the light gentleness of a fingertip well lubricated over and around the area... THEN after the woman has been highly aroused, you can lick, lap, suck, nibble, touch, rub, slap all around until she's a squirming mass of nerve endings screaming for release.

 

[Blackbich]

Sparky...

Usually I can tolerate direct pressure on my clit until it starts getting hard. I may be abnormal but pressure/rubbing the hood on the side sends me over the edge. Direct pressure after my clit starts getting hard is VERY uncomfortable and I'll kick you off of me like Jean Claude Van Damme if you keep mashing after I tell you to quit it.

Answer your friggin question??

 

[bluntforcemama]

Direct pressure makes me leap off of the bed,... and I'm a kicker. I like to be touched right above it...

 

[Moriah]

Ah, The Clit

Myst

You're a girl after my own.... And let's just leave it at that, shall we.

Hugggggs, love.

 

[ranajja]

Re: sparks?

Sparky, honey! So many good questions, so little space

Whether it’s my lover licking or massaging my clit, or the pleasure is sweetly self-induced, the key is in the inconsistency, or variety.

When I masturbate, I don’t touch myself any one particular way or spot for very long. It’s a little of this, a little of that—or maybe a nice long rub one way, but varying it up from time to time. Rubbing in one certain place for long results in a kind of desensitizing of the area.

The same thing with my lover. The man can do amaaaaazing things with his tongue. But, what worked last night will probably not work tonight, because stimulation of the area that sent me soaring last night is tender and/or sore tonight.

Frame of mind and time of month will affect me as to which technique, or which spot is “the one” for tonight…

I see several ladies have stated emphatically NOT to touch the clit after an orgasm. This is true for me most of the time. However, there is the odd time, after my lover has licked me to an amazing climax, that he stays with me, continuing the stimulation—and the resulting string of orgasms is absolutely fantastic!!!

Clit stimulation in general should be, in my opinion, something that is led up to. Don't go down on me like I'm a big mac for God's sake... take it easy, gentle... almost a whisper of a tongue..the light gentleness of a fingertip well lubricated over and around the area... THEN after the woman has been highly aroused, you can lick, lap, suck, nibble, touch, rub, slap all around until she's a squirming mass of nerve endings screaming for release.

Oh, well said, TN Vixen!

Doing a little squirming myself, right now...

 

[Problem Child]

John Cleese said it best...

...in Monty Python's "The Meaning of Life" The scene is a very advanced sex ed class for thirteenish boys.


Headmaster: "Now, boys, can who tell me some methods of foreplay?"

Billy: (raising hand) "Massaging the breast, Sir?"

Headmaster: "Yes, very good Billy."

Johnny: "Kneading the buttocks, Headmaster?"

Headmaster: "Right, well done son. Anyone else? How about you Thomas?"

Thomas: (sheepishly) "Well sir...uh, what if you....uh, well, what if you licked the clitoris?"

Headmaster: "The CLITORIS! You want to proceed directly to the clitoris, eh boy? How 'bout a little kiss boy? How about starting her off with a nice peck? Dammit man, YOU JUST DON'T GO STAMPEDING THE CLITORIS!!"



or something like that

 

[KillerMuffin]

My clit is sometimes sensitive, sometimes insensitive, and sometimes a bastard. It depends on whats going in my head and my mood.

Touching my clit at the beginning of sex, oral sex, or whatever with no lead in will get as much of you as I can reach shredded. It hurts and can make the little bugger hide for a long time. Sex is over, particularly if I can reach your cock. Sink some teeth in that bad boy to show you what it feels like. Before you can touch it, my clit has to be erect and interested in the proceedings, peeking out of the hood and looking for a little illicit nookie. You can't go get it, it hurts to do that. It also has to be wet. The StudMuffin decided to do a little stimulation to a dry clit one fine evening. He still has the scars from it. If you touch just inside, gently stimulate the vulva, that will make the clit jealous and out it comes.

Once you've got it's attention, then you can stimulate it. But not directly. Along the sides with light strokes is plenty to get the job done. I like tongues because they don't have the ridged surface fingers have and they don't have the ability to push too hard or be too firm.

If you do anything that irritates my clit, or worse, hurts it, you'll get scant warning. Do it again, and you'll get hurt right back. However, all things considered, it's easy to get my clit begging to be touched. Foreplay starts with the brain and can begin hours before clothes are removed, kisses exchanged, or bodies touched.

 

[Problem Child]

I'm printing out this thread...

Just in case I ever meet any of you sweet women.

You should all get together and write a book-

"My Clit: Friend or Foe?"

 

[insideShiraz]

My clit iz so sensitive...

It will Bust you in the Eye...

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

Thank you ladies - I appreciate all this.....

Very much.

It seems that "porno-like, direct stimlation" is definately not the norm.

For show only. I sure there are some exceptions but from your replies here - not many.

Thanks again.

 

[Jade]

Can't be touched, only light poofs of air.

 

[curvacious]

I can't stand direct stimulation. I try not to hurt the person I'm with, but if there's direct contact all I know is I want to get away. For me, it's circling around the clit that does it.
As for porn stars, I think that it can be a little difficult to tell what they're doing. The pressure they use may be very light. Also if they're circling their clit, it may actually look like their touching it directly.

 

[His Whimsicality]

As far as I know, the clit possesses even more nerve-ends than the penis-head, in fact the clit is the most sensitive part of the human body.

From what the ladies here have reported, I´d say that direct stimulation of the clit equals direct stimulation of the corona-top right AFTER ejaculation, and that really makes me squirm because it´s way too intense.

 

[The_KGB]

Clitoral Stimulation

Well...the replies to this one have been fascinating, and I loved the Monty Python one (My favorite kind of humor) but what do I like? Hmmmmm

When beginning a love making session I like the entire pubic mound rubbed, either thru panties or not, until I start to get wet and my clit begins to harden. Moving on to oral allows for direct clitoral stimulation, the tongue and mouth are wet enough to allow for it. But if fingers are used, stroking the top is better because the pressure changes, even when subtle can take me from feeling great to "STOP IT NOW!" in a fraction of a second.....even with a vibrator I never go driectly on my clit, instead the top of the clit or even sometimes just under.

And yes, spread the lips when you are playing, sucking or licking me.....I want to experience it ALL!

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

As far as some porno women I've seen.....

And believe me - there's no mistaking this - the clit is directly assaulted - I mean "skin pulled back wide, hood pulled up, complete exposure of the clit" sticking up like a little jelly bean.

Of course - just like mens dicks - clits come in all different sizes. I've seen some rather large ones - some up to a half-inch and as big around as a Chapstick tube. I've witnessed them getting sucked, just like a dick - and flicked and flopped with fingers - and bitten too.

Of course "these are actresses getting paid" and they of course indicate that this is pleasureable.

But - from what we see here - this is probably not real and they are faking pleasure.

I'm beginning to think these movies do some sort of a disservice to males - giving them the wrong idea.

 

[willfulbrat]

Re: As far as some porno women I've seen.....

I'm beginning to think these movies do some sort of a disservice to males - giving them the wrong idea.

Right, Sparky, I think they do. When I see hardcore porn it can be a turn-off because what they are doing just doesn't always look like it would be pleasurable. The soft-core porn they show on late night cable (HBO, Cinemax) is so much more erotic.