Ladies - the type of woman that attracts you

[Night_Jasmine]

Sounds wonderful, Luna. It's good to see women who are more openminded.

 

[kendra084]

I luv a woman who knows who she wants

 

[Endtroducing]

My first ever post on this site and the perfect question to answer! Here goes.
Physically: Preferably a little taller than me, good body, long hair and a brunette... if she has lovely green eyes then it's a bonus, but I'm not picky! And if she looks great in Agent Provocateur underwear...even better! Also, nice sexy perfume gets my attention. I guess a Catherine Zeta-Jones or Kate Beckinsale lookalike.
Personality: Intelligence is a huge turn on, someone who can give me as good as they get (could count in a number of ways, all of which apply), someone I can banter with, someone with ambition and motivation. Honesty and a genuine nature, sexual confidence and an ability to be able to get me wet and tease me in public, just with words she says...(with an irish accent, I'd definitely be sold!) and someone who knows what they're doing when it comes to fucking and isn't afraid to try new things.

 

[Night_Jasmine]

Welcome to Lit!

 

[Endtroducing]

Why thankyou, it's great to be here!

 

[Night_Jasmine]

It's a good group here in the GLBT area. More the merrier!

 

[Endtroducing]

AND i got my virginity back! Who knew THAT would ever happen!

 

[Night_Jasmine]

LOL..didn't think of it that way!

 

[Julie_in_the_north]

and someone who knows what they're doing when it comes to fucking and isn't afraid to try new things.

Definitely - I'm really drawn to a woman who's good in bed, who's fun to make love with and knows what she wants. Being assertive sexually - that's really attractive.

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

Assertive in bed? Exact opposite here..I like women who enjoy laying back and taking whatever it is I decide to dish out.

 

[Night_Jasmine]

*giggles* Me...someone who doesn't mind being assertive but in a gentle way would be nice

 

[Ms_Anais]

Mmm... I like when a woman can lay back and take gentle touches and let me drive her wild... but is also confident enough to do the same to me when I'm in the mood to receive rather than my usual "giving spirit".

And there are women with whom a simple exchange of a look can warm the nether regions for both her and me... that's a must... and more rare than one would think for a lover of fellow women. That intense look where no touch is even needed and if you want to avoid a stain on the leather of the booth you have to look away? Yeah, that one.

 

[kendra084]

mmmmm thats soo soo hot

 

[naughtyinsilk]

For me its Christa Miller from Scrubs. I like em feisty

 

[Julie_in_the_north]

Assertive in bed? Exact opposite here..I like women who enjoy laying back and taking whatever it is I decide to dish out.

I suppose by assertive I meant I prefer it when she really wants sex, and tells me so, rather than me having to talk her into it! To put it another way lust and desire are sexy in a woman. When we're actually making love, sometimes I like to call the shots and take her the way I want, and other times it's nice just to lie back and let her fuck me.

 

[wetlilsweettart]

This really made me think about the type of woman I am after.

I really desire someone who says "looks don't matter" and means it, someone who I can get in an argument with and know that hours later we'll be laughing at ourselves and saying we're more pointless than politics with our banter. Someone who is just as horny and wild as me, game for kink and likes to top a very submissive girl. Someone who is possibly a bit older and makes me feel safe, love and secure and someone who I want to show my love for and give myself to heart and soul.

Call me a sometimes hopeless romantic, but seeing as I have never had a relationship in my life, these are the things I could only wish to find in someone.

 

[Night_Jasmine]

Instead of hopeless romantic..why don't we just use the term "hopeful romantic" as a I think that's an apt description for all of us here.

 

[Endtroducing]

And there are women with whom a simple exchange of a look can warm the nether regions for both her and me... that's a must... and more rare than one would think for a lover of fellow women. That intense look where no touch is even needed and if you want to avoid a stain on the leather of the booth you have to look away? Yeah, that one.

Definite heads up for this, it doesn't happen all to often but when it does, fuck me!

 

[AZLovelyLady]

One more time...

Always intrigued to hear about what attracts others! So, this would be a bump...

 

[bequ23]

newbie here

I like this thread, it makes me feel anything is possible. I have looked many times but never touched, or been touched by another woman. The women I think about have larger breasts (bigger than a B, but not more than EE), not much bigger in size than me (I am a BBW) and I don't like too skinny. Been looking at pictures and realized I don't like the shaved pussy, I want some hair on my gal! Have to have intelligence, but not all college grads are intelligent and not all non-college grads are not intelligent. Also, sense of humor is a must. And she needs to be patient with me as I learn what I want and how to give her what she wants.

 

[KokopelliRises]

Sassy is definitely a must; complacent people bother me. Be engaged, be passionate about something! Genuine intelligence is also necessary; this kind of intelligence doesn't always come from college or books, but simply from being hooked into the world around you and observant. A good vocabulary is a plus. A sense of humor is definitely needed--would be especially nice if they appreciate the dry kind of humor I do. Patience with me and my faults is important.

 

[loveya10]

Assertive in bed? Exact opposite here..I like women who enjoy laying back and taking whatever it is I decide to dish out.

mmhhhhhmmm sounds amazing to me. I love when the girl takes charge and i am at her will

 

[VampGirl]

i really like the type of girl who is open to anything will fuck your brains out and then get up and have fun with you. I really like the stronger girls, i like big boobs nice ass the works. My husband says i'm like a dude with my taste in women....o well

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

Colour: from the lightest of alabaster to the darkest of cocoa.
Hair: every shade from honey brown to midnight black.
Build: slim hipped or wide bottomed, busty or small, petite in height or tall. I love women with curves, curves aplenty. I have a hard time looking at women who have the appearance of a man, it bothers me. However, soft butch that I am, I have been drawn to butchier women than myself...but it was a specific thing that drew me in, in spite of the look.


I love intelligent women. No trashy classy types for me. ( I am as trashy as I want to get) Women with confidence, the ability to go after whatever it is they want. Love women who have a specific scent (musky like cedar or sandalwood). I used to prefer my ladies to be a few years younger than myself...now I prefer them to by my age or a bit older. Submissive women a huge plus...not soft but willing to give up control. *nods* Yes, I love them.

Updating this a bit:

I have found recently that I love boi's but only the type that appear boi-ish when clothed. You know the type that undresses and all of a sudden you find yourself faced with hips, tits and ass...one's you didn't even realize were there. *happy sigh* Most of the other stuff is still the same. I am still a Top, still drawn to those innately bottomish types. *grin* Still could give a fuck about whether they are black, brown, white...still don't care about hair length, hair color etc. It was just that my FWB fits the boi thing...and it was shocking for me to go back and read what I had written without mentioning those fabulous boi's!!!!

 

[BiBeth221]

I am fairly new to these message boards......
I like a woman who is petite, hair doesn't really matter as long as it's not too short. I like smallish breasts. I guess I am attracted to the fem type, but not too fem. She has to like sports. I love watching football, baseball, and ice hockey. She has to be able to hold an intelligent conversation. Oh, and she has to ok with me being married. I guess that's it for now.