Ladies what do you prefer

[aluv]

ladies which do you perfer, slow passionate sex with a man that will worship every inch of your body with erotic imagination and a gentle touch or be treated like a slut, fast, hard and harsh.

 

[Lily13]

I'm going to have to go with option number one for the most part, but then there are those days.................

 

[hwwannabe]

Mostly the first option, but I have plenty of days where the second is preferable.

 

[koalabear]

Ladies what do you prefer thread #99.

 

[deskuser]

ladies which do you perfer, slow passionate sex with a man that will worship every inch of your body with erotic imagination and a gentle touch or be treated like a slut, fast, hard and harsh.

I enjoy both depends what mood I'm in.

 

[GeorgiaOnMyMind]

Most of the time, I prefer long and passionate. I want it to start slowly and gradually build up, sometimes taking hours.
But a quick and dirty fuck up against a wall or bent over a table certainly has its place

 

[aluv]

so it cums down to, Mood and the Moment?

 

[baby_girl13]

ladies which do you perfer, slow passionate sex with a man that will worship every inch of your body with erotic imagination and a gentle touch or be treated like a slut, fast, hard and harsh.

Depends on how I feel. Sometimes I like daddy to take me nice and slow, because I'm a tight little girl. And then sometimes I like to be fucked like a little slut I am for playing with my pussy so much.

 

[simpletimes]

so it cums down to, Mood and the Moment?

I am never one to rain on another's parade, but don't ya think that was a silly question?

 

[TerraMartin79]

Depends on my mood, I do like being fucked like a slut though

 

[Ellafun]

YES

 

[30bandits]

Depends on my mood, I do like being fucked like a slut though

mmmm...so would you say it's a 50/50 split?

 

[omgitselaine]

Like others have already mentioned ........ it really depends on the mood !!! But if I had a preference I'd rather have slooooow and passionate at first ...... then hard and fast to give me the niceeee orgasm that any dirty girl deserves

 

[LadyVer]

Both. Duh.

 

[what_she_wants]

YES

what she said!

 

[aluv]

I totally understand the timing of the mood, a quickie in the dressing room at the local Targets will not get the same erotic detail as a weekend in the Poconos. My interest was to understand more about the mood swing between tantric sex and degrading sex not just fucking harder and faster but brutal humiliation. I personally can not be mean and degrading to a woman, kinky maybe, but not degrading.
I have tried Tantric Sex and it was amazing but this is my opinion and I know just like assholes everybody has one I would just rather make love to it, not beat it.

 

[LadyVer]

I totally understand the timing of the mood, a quickie in the dressing room at the local Targets will not get the same erotic detail as a weekend in the Poconos. My interest was to understand more about the mood swing between tantric sex and degrading sex not just fucking harder and faster but brutal humiliation. I personally can not be mean and degrading to a woman, kinky maybe, but not degrading.
I have tried Tantric Sex and it was amazing but this is my opinion and I know just like assholes everybody has one I would just rather make love to it, not beat it.

Aluv, that would have been really helpful if you had provided this info in your first post. This changes the dynamics of the thread. Tantric I've never tried although I've heard some people enjoy it.

As far as degradation or pain, I'm not into these, only pleasure. Will be interesting to see what other comments you now get after your clarification.

 

[Josiyummi]

both please. one after the other, and so on.

 

[85Ironman]

so it cums down to, Mood and the Moment?

Captain Obvious.

 

[aluv]

I realize I was not clear on the harsh factor, I meant brutal harsh , bruises and cigarette burns I do not find sexy.

 

[janeyl]

so it cums down to, Mood and the Moment?

It can change mid fuck...it ebbs and flows throughout a session...as I imagine it does for a lot of people...


You have chosen rather extreme ends of the spectrum...real sex isn't that black and white...I don't mind the odd bruise usually inflicted by the bed or my surroundings and not by my partner...but cigarette burns? seriously?

 

[littlelovedove]

ladies which do you perfer, slow passionate sex with a man that will worship every inch of your body with erotic imagination and a gentle touch or be treated like a slut, fast, hard and harsh.

I, myself prefer the slow, passionate sex where both worship each other's bodies with erotic imagination and gentle touch. However around here........that is not appreciated.

Oh well, back to pleasuring myself fast, hard and harsh.

 

[kendra1980]

My preference is to begin with a slow burn. Smoldering. Long, deep wet kisses while being touched ... or was I? So soft that it makes me shiver and tingle and want more.

As the burn goes from smolder to fire I like him to take total control. Hold my arms down while he feasts on me, putting me in a frenzy. Making the ache worse yet denying me what will fix it.

Then generally speaking I like him to take me. His mood and my level of sexual frustration dictates if that will be hard and fast, or still achingly slow ... I'm not a single shot so I can have several orgasms in one encounter...we like to make sure that happens often

 

[aluv]

The sad story is, I knew a woman (for now I will call Ann) through my ex who was in a relationship where her man who would abuse her and call her names during sex, somewhere in conversation Ann found out from my ex that my style of quiet passionate lovemaking would always give her an incredible orgasm's. One thing lead to another an Ann got in touch with me next thing I knew we were having sex on a regular basis. Then after a few weeks she would do things trying to get me mad saying she needed a good spanking, a little kinky I can do but she really wanted me to hurt her she would do some really wild things then dare me to slap her around. I told her that was not my style and she should go back to her ex, then I left.
This made me wonder how many women prefer or need that type of sexual action vs a very passionate one. This can not be just a mood swing, Ann needed to be abused to be sexually satisfied.

 

[Latina49]

ladies which do you perfer, slow passionate sex with a man that will worship every inch of your body with erotic imagination and a gentle touch or be treated like a slut, fast, hard and harsh.

no doubt about it...BOTH