Ladies - When is a Woman Satisfied??

[Mysticcal]

This thread caught my eye and I have been thinking about it for awhile. I can be physically satisfied after varying amounts of orgasms, but that is not the whole picture. To be truly satisfied, it takes a melding of my heart, mind and body.

Truly, feeling thorughly satisfied comes from making love with someone that cares for me, and I care for in return. A connection with someone that goes beyond physical attraction. Someone that engages my mind as well as my body. When this all works together, even a quickie can leave me satisfied and smiling ear-to-ear.

 

[Gusty Wind]

did i just killed the thread ?

 

[whatsinanameuk]

Satisfied

For a man or a woman I guess it's more than orgasm (and I ain't knocking a good mind-blowing orgasm) - but true satisfaction seems somehoe for me to be summed up in lying back (sitting, whatever) both of us in that dreamy smiley state that is neither sleep nor exhaustion - just fulfilment. That applies in real sex and also cyber (let the mind run rampant). The main thing it seems to me is being together.

 

[whatsinanameuk]

So Gusty

Not sure if that means you've killed thread - how was it for you

 

[Don K Dyck]

In Reply . . .

Hi AardRiven, Gusty, Mysticcal, Whatsinaname, thanks for droppping by and sharing your wisdom.

Sometimes, AardRiven, other people give us insights into our own lives.

No Gusty, you didn't give the thread the kiss of death . . . a watchful eye was being kept . . . but why did you delete your post?

HI Mysticcal . . . sounds like your partner is a very lucky person.

You know, Whatsinaname, when you go back through this thread you find that many people use a variety of words to express the same opinion. Satisfaction becomes more than just orgasmic "relief" . . . and fulfillment is a good description for it . . . a sort of undefined knowing . . . I was hoping somebody might be able to express it better than I could . . .

Thanks for sharing your wisdom, the search continues

Don

 

[Mstrskey]

A truly fantastic thread Don

I've been reading throught the replies here and there is some real wisdom as well as insight to be gained from the sharing.

I will say that for me, as for so many here, satisfaction extends to more then the act of intercourse. Don't misunderstand, I have had many casual sexual encounters which have been greatly enjoyable, but far from satisfying.

For me satisfaction comes while wrapped in the haven of my husbands arms. Not even necessarily following intercourse. I can be satisfied laying on the couch with him watching the game, laughing in the same spots at funny commercials, sharing the heat from our bodies and blending seemlessly together so that I feel, safe and wanted and loved.

Satisfaction comes for me from the wink my husband gives me when I walk into a room. From my knowing that the man I am with knows that I am 30, that my breasts can serve not only as sexual objects but also as nourishment for the children we have made together and loves both aspects. Satisfaction is knowing that my husband sees the extra pounds two children have put around my middle, the spread of my hips, not as a testament to the passage of time on my body but rather as testament to the growth of our relationship into more then just lovers. That my body in all its changes is still as erotic to him now as it was when we were 19.

Satisfaction comes from watching our children play with his arms around me, knowing that they are a testament to our love.

Satifaction comes from the sharing of shaky legs and heaving chests and his body collapsed against mine as he whispers to me that he loves me.

Satisfaction comes from the sharing afterward of our bodies still wrapped around each other, hands stroking, lips kissing, spooned together listening as we talk about anything and everything.

Satisfaction comes from knowing that through other lovers, highs and lows, changes and more changes I can still wake with him foremost in my thoughts and lay down to sleep at night the same way.

So as you have figured out by now, it's so much more then sexual, the real satisfaction of woman.

I hope that helps.

 

[Tulips]

When is a woman satisfied???

When she wants a smoke after, and she doesnt even smoke.....T.

 

[SouthernBBW]

Mstrskey....I never could have said it better!

 

[Teddy~Bear~Lady]

hELLO EVERYONE.

This is my first visit here.

I am like Ladybird when it comes to being satisfied.
I need to be kissed hugged and cuddled after a good long love making session with my guy.

However I to am only one of millions and we all tend to have different things that make us happy.

Good luck in your quest for the answer you seek.

Jean.

 

[Lust Engine]

Re: When is a woman satisfied???

When she wants a smoke after, and she doesnt even smoke.....T.

I love it when a woman IS smoking!

Ooooo la la!!!

And I'm most definitely not talking about cigarettes, cigars or the herbage either! But inhaling does help.

 

[Gusty Wind]

Re: In Reply . . .

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[jamescarter91]

i find that a woman is satisfied only when she has swallowed my cum and pulled her finger out of my ass

 

[Gusty Wind]

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[Don K Dyck]

Thanks Msterskey, Tulips, SouthernBBW, Teddy Bear Lady, Lust Engine, Gusty Wind, jamescarter for dropping by and sharing your wisdom.

Well, Msterkey . . . satisfaction is all encompassing . . . I kinda thought it might have been . . . just had to be more than an afterglow . . . you certainly have one lucky man . . . seems Southern has a similar situation . . . lucky girls . . .

Tulip and Lust Engine seem to be smokin' real good afterwards . . . am I correct in presuming that burning passions are involved . . . or some lucky man burned up with lust . . .

TBL . . . there is definitely something very special about the minutes afterwards . . . magic!! . . . just magic!!

heheheh . . . well james, it's nice to have a concrete signpost of satisfaction . . . but I wonder if there is more still . . .

Gusty . . . great av . . . I think you have the honour of being the first speechless person on this thread . . . congratulations!!

Thank you for sharing your wisdom, the search goes on

Don

 

[mlle_purr]

Puuuuurrrrrrsonally, I am close to satisfied when I look down and see my man exhausted, red faced, and panting after a wild romp as he strugges against sleep to try to reach for me once again. And yes, the taste of his come in my mouth adds a nice touch too. *winx*
~Mlle

~Spank!~

 

[Gusty Wind]

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[Pommel]

I always assume that the woman I'm having sex with isn't satisfied until she's asked me to stop.... if I can't last that long, then I'll just have to try harder the next time.

Seriously though, what is it that you find more satisfying? Knowing that your partner is pleased or having two or three really good orgasms of your own? Personally, I find the first alot more satisfying, and all I really need is a single good orgasm. Why should a woman be any different? (except that you want to shoot at 3 or 4 good orgasms for her)

Based on that, I think you might judge a woman's level of satisfaction by the amount of smugness she displays.

 

[TheCheshireCat]

When is a woman satisfied?

My lover complained recently that I was NEVER satisfied (actually he said HE had never been able to satisfy me)

Total bunk!

I responded to him with the same as I will tell you. When a woman enjoys sex with her partner it DOESN'T matter how many times she peaks. It is a desire to continue an enjoyable activity that makes us seemingly insaitable. How many times do we need sex in a week? It must be different for every woman...I get a little needy after a few days. I crave the variety and intensity, the romance and cuddles, all the pleasurable little associations with sex. When I have indulged I feel like a Cheshire Cat (hence the name) but more of a good thing is great! Maybe you can say we are never satisfied...but are men really satisfied? I feel more pressure to provide a truly pleasurable experience for my partner because he only orgasms once during sex and I want it to be the best he can have. If it isn't I feel guilty! I think the door swings both ways...

 

[TheCheshireCat]

I always assume that the woman I'm having sex with isn't satisfied until she's asked me to stop....


That seems like a not very in-tune (dare I say lazy) response to pleasing a partner. It IS possible they ask you to stop because they are fed up. Being a good sexual partner has little to do with endurance (ouch, I speak from experience) and much more to do with a mutually satisfying connection.

Pay closer attention to your woman! If you really mean what you say about enjoying sex the most if you know the other has truly had a good time...

Maybe harsh but I hope it helps

 

[Bandit58]

When a woman enjoys sex with her partner it DOESN'T matter how many times she peaks. It is a desire to continue an enjoyable activity that makes us seemingly insaitable.

When I'm with my lover I'm exactly the same......I can't get enough of him! Because we're in a LDR it is so intense when we manage to get together.......last time we only stopped because both of us were exhausted The ultimate satisfaction then is curling up together and falling asleep and feeling so safe and loved

 

[Pommel]

I always assume that the woman I'm having sex with isn't satisfied until she's asked me to stop....


That seems like a not very in-tune (dare I say lazy) response to pleasing a partner. It IS possible they ask you to stop because they are fed up. Being a good sexual partner has little to do with endurance (ouch, I speak from experience) and much more to do with a mutually satisfying connection.

Pay closer attention to your woman! If you really mean what you say about enjoying sex the most if you know the other has truly had a good time...

Maybe harsh but I hope it helps

You're right, it was downright barbaric of me.... also meant to be the not-quite-so-serious part of my response. Sorry. Maybe I wasn't clear on that point.

 

[psyche]

A woman is totally satisfied when her lover takes his time to open her completely.............his hands working his magic over her body, his lips kissing her, his fingers inside, his tongue on her clit, until she cums so many times that she is begging for him to take her. But he makes her wait even longer........until when he slides inside her she is so wet and slick for him, and her need so great that she cums with the pleasure of it, can think of nothing better, can think of nothing else but him. Then he pulls out and his tongue is on her clit again his fingers inside rubbing her g-spot until she is screaming from cumming so many times. Finally he moves over her again, and she knows she will have him again, his cock inside, and the pleasure of it. She looks at him and says, 'Yes, please baby, please.....'. He makes her ask again, then pushes his cock deep inside her, so deep that she gasps, and tells him that she's going to cum for him, cum so hard that she can hardly breathe. He pushes into her again and she tells him that she's going to squirt for him, squirt for him because he gives her such pleasure, squirt because he has opened her up like no one else, she pushes hard against him, gives herself over completely to the feeling, feels the liquid gush out of her as he pushes in, the liquid running over her ass, over his cock, each time he pushes into her, his cock triggering this fountain of fluid, she could cry with the pleasure of it. To add to the pleasure he tells her that he's going to cum, and she says, 'yes, baby, cum for me, give it all to me', she moves with him to make his cock empty into her, their sweaty bodies grinding together, her fluid meeting his mixing inside her..........

that's fucking satisfaction...........

 

[Noor]

It is so simple! A woman is satisfied when she says she is

When she lies back, talks soft and lets the world float by.

Noor

 

[Gusty Wind]

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[sheath]

When she cries from sheer emotional exhaustion, when she whispers that she has never been so thoroughly loved, when she falls asleep in your arms and doesn't move for the rest of the morning...when she wakes up in the afternoon and stretches and smiles at you and BLUSHES because her body feels completely sated and she knows YOU did it.

At least, that's how it feels for me.

S.