Ladies - When is a Woman Satisfied??

[spankableBelle]

Ditto

 

[cycleman]

hi ladybird I do hope your dreams come true. maybe we should meet sometime in dreamland. I always enjoy a woman who is down under.........or even up above is nice too

 

[Ladybird]

hi ladybird I do hope your dreams come true. maybe we should meet sometime in dreamland. I always enjoy a woman who is down under.........or even up above is nice too

Oh cycleman, I have no problem with being downunder. I love to feel the body of my lover against me, as I look up into his eyes as he makes love to me.

What could be better?

Perhaps in our dreams we will meet.

 

[Svenskaflicka]

I prefer doggy style when I want to have several orgasms in a row, but there's nothing more romantic than laying in my lover's arms, and gazing up into his eyes, as he makes me come.

 

[Don K Dyck]

Satisfaction

Thanks Gemini, Cycleman, Svenskaflicka, Ladybird and Belle for dropping y and sharing your wisdom.

Well, Gemini, I think that many people need to be happy with themselves on a day to day basis before they are able to share their happy feelings with others. It's far too easy to dump on another when you are angry, depressed, frustrated or confused - all situations that do not make for satisfying lovemaking. But to share the joy of lovemaking, you need to be happy with yourself first, otherwise it just doesn't seem to happen.

Thank you for your comments, Cycleman. Several of the ladies were hoping that some males might take the time to read this thread and learn how "the other half" feels about what I think is a very important part of lovemaking.

And I agree, Svenskaflicka, Ladybird and Belle, that being with someone special is magic. But let us stop wishing and hoping!! Rather, let us think that it will happen sometime soon . . . thus sending out the message that we want it now!!

Thank you all for sharing, the search goes on

Don

 

[Dragonette]

Right on!

that being with someone special is magic. But let us stop wishing and hoping!! Rather, let us think that it will happen sometime soon . . . thus sending out the message that we want it now!!

I have been sending my message!

Growls, just no one seems to want me.
So back to wishing and hoping, dreaming and err battery operated help!

 

[Dragonette]

Thanks

Hi Dragonette,

Maybe a thread about being satisfied as a single is in order? I think a lot of us might enjoy a place to bounce posts off one another about getting to know each other as relationships progress, the quirks we encounter when in a new relationship, how to feel satisfied with ourselves as we are, single people...

I'm not very good at starting threads, but you might garner good response since so many people here know you.

Just a thought...

Arden

PS. Loved your story "The Shower." See, people do read your stories when you put a link in your signature line.

Thanks Arden, but I have enough troubles keeping up with the threads I am in, can't start any new ones.

Anyway, most of these subjects have been covered, just do a seach and resurrect one!

LOL


But Don is doing a great job.

Curtseys to the maestro...

 

[Don K Dyck]

Satisfaction

Thanks Dragonette for dropping by and sharing your wisdom.

Don't be pessimistic - if you continue to give up of course you will fail!! The method doesn't work in five minutes - five days perhaps . . . If you don't want it NOW it won't happen until YOU want it!!

Thanks for sharing, the search goes on

Don

 

[spankableBelle]

Re: Right on!

I have been sending my message!

Growls, just no one seems to want me.
So back to wishing and hoping, dreaming and err battery operated help!

this one wishes upon stars...and hopes upon the moon...and dreams in all hours...and buys multi-packs of batteries...

you're not alone, doll...~smile~

belle

 

[Screenwriter]

Women are only satisfied after they've cleaned out your checking and savings accounts.


Just kidding girls!

 

[Ladybird]

Women are only satisfied after they've cleaned out your checking and savings accounts.
Just kidding girls!

And just as well Screenwriter... I was about to place a hex on you!!



Tis ok.. I'm just kidding too...

 

[Svenskaflicka]

They say that you if you lose one, you have 1000 more waiting for you. If that means that you have to go through 999 losers to find Mr Right, then just go on trying, girls!

Me, I found mine earlier than that. Don't give up hope - if I can find a soul mate, then anyone can!

 

[Guest]

Re: Re: Ladies - When is a Woman Satisfied??

When she falls asleep in your arms.

Thats what I do when I'm staisfied. Only one man has ever made me feel so comfortable and accepted that I can fall asleep in his arms. He never shoulds me. "you should this, or you should that... What ever I want to do he is backing me up as I back him up. He tells me that I am beautiful, and touches me lots, and always smiles when he sees me. Gotta love that. And ... he gives me the big 'o', and is alway pacient and kind and funny and loving. Soooo What else is there?

 

[Svenskaflicka]

Re: Re: Re: Ladies - When is a Woman Satisfied??

And ... he gives me the big 'o', and is alway pacient and kind and funny and loving. Soooo What else is there?

How many times in one night?

 

[Don K Dyck]

Satisfaction

Thanks Belle, Screenwriter, Ladybird, Svenskaflicka and Unregistered for dropping by and sharing your wisdom.

I think maybe Svenskaflicka is correct, Belle, when she says that you have to keep looking. It is much the same as a relationship, you have to keep working on it for it to remain satisfying.

Perhaps a little philosophy is appropriate here. "Wanting" is a continuous state of never having. "Choosing" is an action creating a result. Therefore if you ask to "Want" something you will - for ever and ever. However if you "Choose" to do something then you take an action which gives a result.

Consequently, if you choose to find somebody within a reasonable time period, then your chances of success increase enormously. But make sure that you specify EXACTLY what you want because that's what you will get.

I have a friend who buys houses like this. It only takes her about a week before an agent is phoning up and she does the deal.

Screenwriter, you seem very cynical, but "ain't it the truth" in some cases? Stirring up LB can be a rel challenge. heheheh

I hope you get a proper handle/tag, Unregistered. Your description describes a very beautiful relationship, and if you read the earlier posts on this thread you will find that many others have been lucky enough to be where you are, and then move on to further satisfaction within the same relationship.

Sometimes individuals in a relationship reach this bliss state and then for no apparent reason the relationship sours and collapses. This bliss state appears lost. But this needn't happen. Relationships are like a living organism, they need nuturing, care and attention. When this happens then the relationship continues to grow, just like a garden under the care of a gardener with green fingers.

Thank you for sharing, the search goes on

Don

 

[Svenskaflicka]

Be careful what you wish for...you might just get it!

I'm kind of interested in Wicca-stuff. And what I've learned is that you have to be very careful with what you wish for, because you will get exactly what you say you want, not what you really want. Say that you say:

I want to meet a handsome, caring, intelligent man.

And you do. Unfortunately, you forget to mention that he should be interested in you. So, you meet a guy who doesn't realize that you're alive. Next time, you put your wish a bit differently:

I want to meet a handsome, caring, intelligent man who loves me very much.

And you do. Sadly, you forget to mention that he should be available. This guy is married, and his wife is just having their third child... Again, you rephrase your wish:

I want to meet an available, handsome, caring, intelligent man who loves me very much.

And you do. But even though he's perfect in every way, you feel no more enamored with him than you do with your own brother. You just can't imagine having sex with him! You forgot to mention that you wanted a man that would love you as much as you love him...

By now, you forget about this wish-thing, and go out with your girlfriends to have a girl's night out and not care about men for a couple of hours - and there he is, standing in the bar, buying you a drink... Mr Perfect.

Nature has a very perverted kind of humor. She loves playing tricks on us. "no, no, I didn't say Simon Says..."

But if go with the flow, we'll eventually get washed up on a tropical island with our very own Mr/Ms Perfect...

 

[Don K Dyck]

Satisfaction

Hi Svenskaflicka, thanks for dropping by and sharing your wisdom.

There are many alternative philosophies of life and it is good to examine them becuase it broadens the mind. But in my reading I have found that we get what we are prepared to accept - and this applies to all things in life including lovemaking.

Thank you for sharing, the search goes on,

Don

 

[capricious_chic]

I absolutely adore this thread!!

There have been many insightful and wonderful things said in this post.. I am somewhat intimidated. I feel very fortuitous to have stumbled across this thread. I have found Lit to be not only a place that allows mature and open discussions of all things sexual... but also a place filled with people who have truly beautiful souls as evidenced by some of the posts in this thread.

I have always been somewhat cynical about relationships, and continue to be so... however, I have recently met someone who makes me want to give credence to the whole "past life" ideology... I just know him.. and supposedly he feels the same.
It is truly amazing and wonderful, and regardless of how it all turns out... I will always feel like it was supposed to happen.

To all those seeking, I wish you all the luck and love you seek...

 

[Svenskaflicka]

Past lives...

I think me and my sweetheart were lovers in a past life. We connect so well in this one, it's like we have already worked out whatever differences there might be in the past, so now we just get to enjoy being together.

 

[Don K Dyck]

Satisfactoin

Hi Capricious and Svenskaflicka, thanks for dropping by and sharing your wisdom.

Finding somebody special with whom you really "click" is just wonderful!!! Past lives??? Well . . . I don't know . . . read widely with a sceptical open mind . . . General George Patton believed in past lives . . . The physical complications for such an occurrence are extraordinary . . . but then, we once thought that man could not walk upon the moon . . .

Thanks for sharing, the search goes on,

Don

 

[Hairgrip]

back to satisfaction...

i too fall asleep on achieving the golden glow. my poor partner, he is supposed to be the bloke, not me!

on holiday recently in greece we spent an afternoon (it was 40 deg cel outside and i am very fair) playing inside. feeling a little greedy i demanded his magic fingers before i'd do anything else... had the most amazing orgasm... rolled over to kiss him... lay back down for a couple of minutes... and woke up 2hours later to find him reading next to me. He was so gorgeous he didn'y try to wake me up, or even moan about my failure to fulfill my part of our deal (deep throat head, yummmy!). It might not have been so bad if i hadn't been awake before hand for just 2 hours!

i'm satisfied by variation, intimacy and a big safety thing...he does it all for me.

Hxx

(can you tell i'm in love?)

 

[Svenskaflicka]

OK, we've had a lot of nice, poetic, funny, intelligent, and, in my opinion, very important inputs here now on what makes a woman satisfied. Now I'd like to know in return -

what makes a man satisfied?

Apart from the obvious, big tits, sixpack of beer, and a blowjob while he's watching the game...

I'm serious! What sort of tricks do men like? I know some guys cry out loud when you lick the frenulum (that skin string under the head of the dick - doesn't exist if his circumsised), and some guys will sign over the deed of their house to you if you lick the rim of their ass...

Women, what do you do?

Men, what do you like?

 

[Don K Dyck]

Satisfaction

Hi, Hairgrip and Svenskaflicka, thanks for dropping by and sharing your wisdom.

Hairgrip, you describe a wonderful, caring relationship . . . enjoy!!

Well, Svenskaflicka . . . we seem to have reached the point where we have discussed what satisfies a woman and come to the conclusion that deep and lasting satisfaction results from a sharing of pleasures . . . taking turns . . . being sensitive to the needs of your partner . . . but also includes sharing the other parts of life . . . and caring about the other person for themselves.

So as satisfaction has been discovered to be a real couple thing, then I gues that your question "What makes a man satisfied?" is merely an extension of the original question because of the intimiate link through the couple.

In the bedroom athletics department I think the thing that turns me on most is a woman who has sufficient self-esteem to give herself completely over to satisfying her own sensual desires . . . now this necessarily includes my stimulation, otherwise I will get left behind . . . (a rampant woman is truly a sight to desire) . . . because in my experience women underestimate their desires and capacity to fulfill them . . . and when they totally iignore the social constraints imposed by a cautious society . . . they become wonderfully, wicked and wild . . . (oh, dear . . . I'm getting hot just thinking about it!! )

Nitty gritties?? OK, gentle touching of my whole body . . . a slow, sensuous blow job . . . ball stroking while doggy . . . unrestrained female lust while the woman bullrides to ecstasy . . . again and again and again . . .

Thanks for sharing, the search goes on

Don

 

[Ladybird]

Re: Satisfaction

In the bedroom athletics department I think the thing that turns me on most is a woman who has sufficient self-esteem to give herself completely over to satisfying her own sensual desires . . . now this necessarily includes my stimulation, otherwise I will get left behind . . . (a rampant woman is truly a sight to desire) . . . because in my experience women underestimate their desires and capacity to fulfill them . . . and when they totally iignore the social constraints imposed by a cautious society . . . they become wonderfully, wicked and wild . . . (oh, dear . . . I'm getting hot just thinking about it!! )

Nitty gritties?? OK, gentle touching of my whole body . . . a slow, sensuous blow job . . . ball stroking while doggy . . . unrestrained female lust while the woman bullrides to ecstasy . . . again and again and again . . .

Thanks for sharing, the search goes on

Don

No Don, thank YOU for sharing.

Now, what time did you want me around...

LB

 

[Arden]

Re: Satisfaction

In the bedroom athletics department I think the thing that turns me on most is a woman who has sufficient self-esteem to give herself completely over to satisfying her own sensual desires . . . now this necessarily includes my stimulation, otherwise I will get left behind . . . (a rampant woman is truly a sight to desire) . . . because in my experience women underestimate their desires and capacity to fulfill them . . . and when they totally iignore the social constraints imposed by a cautious society . . . they become wonderfully, wicked and wild . . . (oh, dear . . . I'm getting hot just thinking about it!! )

Nitty gritties?? OK, gentle touching of my whole body . . . a slow, sensuous blow job . . . ball stroking while doggy . . . unrestrained female lust while the woman bullrides to ecstasy . . . again and again and again . . .

Don

*Takes notes in her daybook while sensuously licking her lips... and wonders if she'll have to wrestle LB to get to him first*

Don... what a wonderful way to start the morning... just you, me and the nittiy gritties... then some breakfast in bed... on me... ~sigh~