Debbie
Persnickety slattern
- Joined
- Feb 4, 2001
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I'd suggest you talk to him again in a completely non confrontational let's talk about us and how much I love you and how we can get through this new part of our relationship.
It isn't a problem but a big change for you both.
I was a very repressed gal in the bedroom and had to learn to trust and relax to orgasm because of past history (raised in a very religious family blah blah blah)
So when I went from being a bit of a cold fish in the bedroom to oh my god what have I been missing I was a bit full on. It was a big change for me and my sexual partner.
Some people dont deal with change well at all but if you're in a relationship you both come to the party and deal with things as the team you are. Perhaps your man is feeling a bit insecure, or has concerns and only you and him can come together (pardon the pun) and have an open dialogue.
Perhaps he's worried you'll grow bored of him and possibly leave or some other issue that is worrying him.
It isn't a problem but a big change for you both.
I was a very repressed gal in the bedroom and had to learn to trust and relax to orgasm because of past history (raised in a very religious family blah blah blah)
So when I went from being a bit of a cold fish in the bedroom to oh my god what have I been missing I was a bit full on. It was a big change for me and my sexual partner.
Some people dont deal with change well at all but if you're in a relationship you both come to the party and deal with things as the team you are. Perhaps your man is feeling a bit insecure, or has concerns and only you and him can come together (pardon the pun) and have an open dialogue.
Perhaps he's worried you'll grow bored of him and possibly leave or some other issue that is worrying him.
