Late night staying power

[alatar00]

Hi all.

This is my first post so I'll give a little background information.

I recently had sex for the first time. Up until recently I haven't been with a woman who was worth sharing that with so I've been a virgin up till now. My girlfriend is considerably more experienced than me so I was more than a little nervous the first time.

Needless to say it was your stereotypical first time experience, as soon as I put a condom on I lost my erection and couldn't get it up again for a while, and when I finally did get it up later that night, I came almost imediatelly. The good thing though was that I was hard and ready to go again within about 10 min and lasted longer the second time around. This is usually the case and I also usually have her so turned on by the time we get to penetration that she usually comes at least once before I do.

My girlfirend has been absolutelly incredible about everything. She keeps telling me that shes ok with the fact that I don't last as long as either of us would like and that she knows it will get better with time. She has been a very patient and loving teacher. She also says that I am a very quick study and have picked up on certain things very quickly and when I bring her to orgasm that they are usually among the best she's ever had.

Anyway, my question is this: There have been a few times where I have not had the problem of coming too quickly and I reallized the other night that each of these times has been late at night ie. midnight or later, each of these times I have lasted long enough that she has had to take a break because of a cramp or because she has come so many times that she started to dry out and needed to rest before continuing. Anyway, is this extra staying power a normal thing later in the evening, or am I maybe just more relaxed when we are together late at night, or is it all just a coincidence?

Any thought's and comments you may have will be welcome.
Thanks.

 

[Lust Engine]

I think everyone has a cycle when they seem to have these "magical" restorative powers. What's normal for you might not hold true for anyone else. You just might be hornier that time of the day and can recover quicker; see if this is true when you have sex at another time of the day.

I've realized I cum like crazy and can recover in the morning and less so in the evening, but that's my experience.

 

[Dionysus2003]

Think back and see if you did anything different those evenings when you were able to go longer. Did you have a drink or three those nights? Any other changes in what you did?

It can of course be as LE says too, that you just last longer that time of day

 

[freddyandeddy]

You're probably tired and, therefore, more relaxed and better prepared for holding out at that hour. A lot of people perform better at late hours (my wife is one) as their physical "clocks" are set to peak at that time.

It's good you have a girlfriend who has been willing to guide you to great sexual heights and that you're mature enough to appreciate it.

 

[sheath]

Now that I think of it...most men I have enjoyed have always been more 'able to last' if it was in the early morning hours...say, two or three in the morning? It wasn't something I had considered before, but now that I really sit down and think about it...hmmm. Makes me wonder how common it really is.

And by the way...CONGRATS on having such an understanding girlfriend who really knows how great it feels to teach.

S.

 

[ABN_Ranger]

Yup... most of the time the later at night the better, kinda odd once you think about it. Or usually for the first hour or two after I get home from work.

J

 

[CelticFrog]

Well, if you'd just come home from work, shower, and ravish your wife, I don't think she'd complain. Really.

I'm not kidding.


Ang

 

[alatar00]

Nothing Different

Think back and see if you did anything different those evenings when you were able to go longer. Did you have a drink or three those nights? Any other changes in what you did?

There hasn't been anything different about any of our late night experience other than maybe being a little more tired. I don't drink so that isn't an issue and we've used several different possitions every time, including some that I don't last very long with at other times of the day.

And I agree with freddyandeddy and sheath that its great that I have a girlfriend who is understanding and is willing to teach and guide me. She also says that it's nice having someone who is willing to learn exactly how she likes it and enjoys being taught. Though I thing I need to practice more. A LOT more

 

[freddyandeddy]

Practice makes perfect!

I'm terrible in the early morning. Bad breath, need a shower, yuck. Wife likes it at that time, though, so who can complain? 9-11pm is my "sweet spot" for performance, I'd say.

So, what's the best trick your girlfriend has taught you so far?

 

[alatar00]

So, what's the best trick your girlfriend has taught you so far?

Well, She has taught me how to bring her to orgasm without touching her pussy.

When she is aroused the back of her neck becomes VERY sensitive. The first time I brought her to orgasm I never even touched her below the neck. We had spent a little time making out then I started kissing, licking and nibbling on the back of her neck. Within about 3 minutes she came so had that I couldn' t even touch her for over half an hour. Everytime I tried to, it would send an aftershock through her. It felt pretty good being able to make her come that hard but it would have been nice to be able to "cuddle" with her a little afterwords. I had to sit there and just talk to her for over 30 minutes till she was able to walk enough to go to bed.

I've learned since then that If I want to get her really turned on really fast that all I have to do is give the back of her neck some attention. This usually makes her so horny that she is ready to tear my cloths off and do me right then and there. It's also great if we are somewhere where we can't do anything serious for a while. I can sneek a few quick kisses on her neck through out the night and she is ready to go the moment we are alone.

 

[English Lady]

hmm thinking about it..hubby's best time is middle of the afternoon...I seem to be very sexual then myself

 

[herecomestherain]

The ol' back of the neck trick...

alatar00, hope you don't think I'm being too familiar but yes, yes, yesss! From all the women in the world with super sensitive necks, thank you for sharing this. I think it's a great way to make your lover feel cherished and very sexy at the same time.

The back of the neck is one of those beautifully sensitive but often neglected areas. I've got to confess that our hot encounters in the kitchen almost always start like that. Kisses and nibbles to the back of the neck, tiny bites along the shoulder, meltdown, pleasure waves through entire body, and whammo! Bliss...Dinner delayed!

 

[herecomestherain]

The ol' back of the neck trick...

alatar00, hope you don't think I'm being too familiar but yes, yes, yesss! From all the women in the world with super sensitive necks, thank you for sharing this. I think it's a great way to make your lover feel cherished and very sexy at the same time.

The back of the neck is one of those beautifully sensitive but often neglected areas. I've got to confess that our hot encounters in the kitchen almost always start like that. Kisses and nibbles to the back of the neck, tiny bites along the shoulder, meltdown, pleasure waves through entire body, and whammo! Bliss...Dinner delayed!

 

[Mskey]

and from the back of the neck

keep working those slow soft kisses and tender little nibbles and licks straight across the shoulder blades and down the spine to the small of her back. Keep the touching soft and slow and.............

shudder , instant arousal!!!

 

[SlowGuy]

My morning stiffy can keep us busy through lunch time, if necessary. Otherwise, 10 pm works, but that may just be conditioning.

-- Slo

 

[freddyandeddy]

Gotta go; my wife's neck is on the menu!